[BabyGirl]

I refrained from posting for awhile, just to see if ( and I was proven Correct ) if some of the members would actually give opinions on other parts of the Problem, other than just Focusing on the Bestiality. And they did. And that is what WH is all about, having more than one Opinion to try and help a person in need .


Lets start with the Bestiality... Was it women with Donkeys or Dogs or men with Sheep, Goats,. without allot of Detail, What turned you on enough to masturbate to it ? is there a reason why watching " Normal Porn " didn't do the Trick ?

In all honesty, in my opinion .Porn with Animals is Rape of the Innocent and in equal Disgust,Abhorrence, Violently against Nature and Natures " laws" as Sex with Children. Which is RAPE !

What concerns me also is why your wife is still there ? Had it been me. I'd have had you out of my life Forever, taken any Kids and any Pets I had . You would have never seen me making Video's for any other Guy, Online or Not . We would have been Finished.

You wouldn't be sitting 5 years later wondering why I could Finger my own Anus and say no to your wanting Anal Sex with me.
CW and others are Right, You need to find out and Understand why you could Masturbate to Animal Rape. That way in the future you can know what " triggers " your Lust and Video Turn Ons.

Now, as to her making Sex Videos and sending them to the Internet Guy, that you know she will never meet or leave you for.
Her Videos seem to Turn you on and Frustrate you at the same time . How can you watch them, knowing they are for another Man ? Is it her touching her own Anus that turns you on ? I don't know, I'm a Bit Weird ed out by this.

Nowhere did I see " I Love Her, I really made a Huge Mistake, I got Counseling and Asked for Forgiveness " Nowhere do I see where you feel Shame and Contriteness for your actions.

Even with Child Rapists, some ( Not Many )get counseling and learn to live a different life, It takes Hard Work. It takes Understanding what led them that way,Love and Forgiveness of ones Self and from Ones families and from the Victims and their Families.

You Don't see Convicted, even Semi`Rehabilitated Rapists, complaining that they cannot watch Child Porn or be around Little kids, Yet here you are Complaining that your Wife is Making "Porn Videos " for another Guy and you can't " Touch or Do those things with her ".

I feel she is Punishing you and you are Taking it. Why ? You two will have to figure that out.
Get Divorced, Get some Much Needed Help. And then you can Try for a Different Life.

But If this is True that you posted and are asking advice for.. You have made the First Step, by asking for help in the First. NOw take the 2nd Step and Get That Help !!!

[Stillness]

CW, I didn't say you had a problem with porn. What I said was that women typically view porn differently from men.

The OP seeks help as to why he was interested to start with, in watching bestiality, we are not talking any porn.

That's not what he said. He said it was something he did 5 years ago, not something he does regularly, and she can't get over it. And not that I want to compare sins, because wrong is wrong, but I would much rather walk in on my wife watching something perverted by herself that catching her in an affair with another man making videos with her fingers stuck where the sun doesn't shine.

For what it's worth, it encapsulates the view of a "typical man" too.

I really don't think so. Toys add a different dynamic, but there were no toys used by the OP. I do think that most people don't want their mate watching pornography without them, but a sexually satisfied man won't generally be as perturbed as a woman. How many men have you ever heard complain that their wife watching pornography makes them feel unnatractive and worthless? I've not heard or seen one.

And my statement to the OP saying that I understand if he didn't want to interact has nothing to do with how think my skin is, it has to do with an administrator telling him "we can't help you here" after his first post. Why would he seek help here when an authority told him he should not? If anything, it has to do with how thick that man's skin is after opening up about a sensitive subject and a cheating wife and being told to beat it. I was trying to show him some human kindness.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Stillness.

You have a good heart, so do I. However firstly:-

It was mean't to read , The OP NEEDS to seek.. and we are not talking about any porn.

Secondly, I answered before he wrote it was 5 years ago... and, I do feel that you somewhat judged my comment. I have explained that to you and I do not intend to re-hash it, or explain myself again. Except:-

it has to do with an administrator telling him "we can't help you here" after his first post. Why would he seek help here when an authority told him he should not? If anything, it has to do with how thick that man's skin is after opening up about a sensitive subject and a cheating wife and being told to beat it.

If you can not read what THE ADMIN, being Little stated as to why I would make such a comment and understand that, then hang about more than 20 posts and you might get it. In You really need to learn to Read what is in front of you, not what you want to read...

[Stillness]

And I want to add something else (even though something is telling me to bite my tongue because folks are going to be mad at me)...

I wholeheartedly agree with bestiality being a violation of nature and immoral, but 2 things:

1. We breed, cage, slaughter, eat, experiment on, wear, ride, manipulate, exterminate, force into labor, and train animals to serve and entertain us all without asking for their permission. We don't need their permission because they're subhuman. He didn't go into details about what he was watching (thank God), but some folks are acting like he was watching kitten kicking (I hope that's not really a thing).

2. This guy watched a video. I'm not minimizing that, but how many times have we talked about the difference between fantasy and reality on these boards? When I watched pornography, I watched things that I would never in a million years do. How many of you have been into something (visually or actively) frowned upon by mainstream society? I know I have.

[Stillness]

I answered before he wrote it was 5 years ago... and, I do feel that you somewhat judged my comment.

He said it in his first post, which is unedited. And I'm not judging you. He was hurt and I understand him.

And I actually have like 150-200 posts, thank you very much. Many of them were lost with the mess that went on.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Thank you very much is condescending... I am just going to give you a little warning there, because attitude and respect here means alot to this Forum.

Yes, he stumbled across something 5 years ago..(once) yet she saw what it was.

Firstly, why go there? Unless you want to see it.. Secondly, how many times do we speak and finally more information is forthcoming.

This woman, is sending sexual pictures of herself to another man. That alone to me says, why save it? She is doing the blame game to cover what she is doing, she doesn't care for him.

I don't care why this man looked at animal porn, the fact is he did and he needs help... There is a fine line between fantasy...

I am now going to suggest you let this go for your own good.

[Stillness]

Thank you very much is condescending...

Not where I'm from, especially not with a smile. It's used when a person is not getting credit for something and they're clearing it up.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sorry Stillness, what credit are you seeking? That you have posted over 200?

We value our members and their contribution, off course.. I am sure us Mods and Admin would love alot of credit, geez the hours we put in, for nothing on just keeping the place running smoothly, let alone our opinions and being there for people, new or long term, members....

We usually reward our members when they don't expect it..via Poster of the Month. That's the best reward to ever have.

[Stillness]

Sorry Stillness, what credit are you seeking? That you have posted over 200?

You brought up my post count, not me. It's not a big deal to me, but you seemed to connect it with some knowledge I would gain if I posted enough.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

This thread is closed.

OP if you wish to re-commence another thread by all means do so.

FYI's - Any member that has a problem with an Admin or Moderator, ensure that you go through the right channel, via PM.. not hi-jacking someone's thread.

Stillness... your continual arguemental ways do not sit well on this Forum.. Take some time out.