[stariana]

It seems as though you are inviting drama into your life, and then once it all hits, you will have difficulty handling the stress. Why do that to yourself? If he is married, and just looking for sex, I would think in the end, you would end up feeling very bad. He will not fulfill your loneliness. He will not be there for you as a friend when you need someone to talk to. He will not be able to enjoy free time with you. It sounds as though the thrill of excitement has you content for the moment, but will hurt you in the end. Tread carefully, not because he is married, but because you are fragile and looking to fill the loneliness. Find someone who can be dedicated to you, not just for sex. You deserve better ; )

[Guest]

I finally messaged him this morning> he wrote back. says he still wants to meet but if we do like each other he hasn't really thought it all out yet. He said we can never meet at night and only occasionally he can say he is having a guys night out after work. I asked him where we would go after work and he said he doesn't know- maybe a hotel? I told him I want him to call me today and he said he will.

I feel like he is having second thoughts but it shows he is still signing in on the cheating website! Last week he actually did things to himself as we messaged- said his wife was downstairs and he was pstairs. Maybe he only wants phone sex? I thought he was busy with his family over weekened but I think he just signed himself off of his messenger and then didn't message me because he doesn't know what to do. Or maybe because he already got off with me while messaging, he wants to move on to others??

All I know is that I am so nervous and am not hungry but hey I am losing weight!!

[Ashlee T.]

I finally messaged him this morning> he wrote back. says he still wants to meet but if we do like each other he hasn't really thought it all out yet. He said we can never meet at night and only occasionally he can say he is having a guys night out after work. I asked him where we would go after work and he said he doesn't know- maybe a hotel? I told him I want him to call me today and he said he will.

I feel like he is having second thoughts but it shows he is still signing in on the cheating website! Last week he actually did things to himself as we messaged- said his wife was downstairs and he was pstairs. Maybe he only wants phone sex? I thought he was busy with his family over weekened but I think he just signed himself off of his messenger and then didn't message me because he doesn't know what to do. Or maybe because he already got off with me while messaging, he wants to move on to others??

All I know is that I am so nervous and am not hungry but hey I am losing weight!!

Are you reading anything we're writing to you?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

How do you feel knowing that he got off over a phone, to you and also Mary, Kate and Sharon last week?

Or, that you can only meet "occasionally" like once a month, whilst he meets Mary, Kate, Sharon on-line and Jacky in person.

Or that he is a total scumbag, imagine being his wife? She's cooking, cleaning and he's logging in (even though he met you) on this filth site, to obtain as many vulnerable women as possible that NEED affection of ANY kind, what so ever, for his own masterbational and sexual needs...

Like we said, and will say again.... Keep away from married men.. You are going to get hurt..

Nothing wrong with wanting attention, even if it is sexual.. But geez.. This guy doesn't give a shirt, he's a coward a lier and a dirtbag.. Why would you let him masterbate to you whilst he is doing it to others? You are worth more than that right?

Tell me I am right.

[Guest]

we talked on phone tonight. His voice did not fit his picture- it was not a bad voice just not what I expected, but he seemed easy to talk to.

we plan on meeting next week but I did not message him tonight and neither did he. I feel a little disappointed but not nervous anymore. So tonight I went on the cougar website instead to try and find a younger guy!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Can I ask why you don't feel comfortable finding a relationship instead of A FWB or having an affair with a married, or non-married man?

I understand that you are going through a lot. I understand that love isn't exactly being given to you by your family. But, do you think this is the way to go?

[jamesmarshalls]

I think you should find some one else that is not married this way I think the risk will be much lesser and of course this thing will make you really happy and not just for a time because if you choose a married man you are just looking for trouble. Consider your children. What will be the effect of this to them at least if you find a guy that is not married there will no complication and problem to anyone.

[Little]

Sparkle, other posters are asking you questions and you're avoiding all of them. If you didn't want input on this, why did you post a thread? Seems it would be better off on a blog.

In short - respond or I'm going to close this thread.

[Guest]

please erase thread!

[QUOTE=Little;316112arkle, other posters are asking you questions and you're avoiding all of them. If you didn't want input on this, why did you post a thread? Seems it would be better off on a blog.

In short - respond or I'm going to close this thread.[/QUOTE]

please erase thread!

[Darling]

I don't understand what you were expecting us to say? We give you our advise and thoughts. We ask you questions, and want to communicate with you. Your reply does not suggest that you even read what we said and now you want your post removed? What is it you are truely asking, or wanting out of your post?