[shoshannah]

Since you mainly seemed to be asking men their thoughts, I forwarded the question on to my man and I'm pasting what he said in below:

"I don't have a lot of experience wearing condoms since Hannah [i.e. Shoshannah] was already on the pill when we began dating. I've only used them a handful of times when her pill cycle got messed up due to her being sick, and frankly I hated them. They interrupted things, they smelled very medicinal, and it was awkward having to stop everything and put them on just when I (and she) wanted to forge ahead. Then there was the lack of sensation and the lack of a sense of connection and intimacy, and the worrying about whether the condom was staying on--I was always reaching town to check, which was a nuisance. Yes, it made sex less messy, but the mess has never really bothered either of us after we got used to it the first several times I came inside her. About the only thing good I can say of condoms, at least in our relationship, is that they made me appreciate how nice things are without them. :-)

"So what is it like? Well, during intercourse without condoms, I'm always aware of Hannah's vagina giving my penis one long, warm (almost hot), slippery, tight hug that just gets more and more exciting as sex goes on. The intimacy of being connected to her skin-to-skin is sometimes almost literally overwhelming, especially when we haven't made love for a while. It did take me some time to learn to control myself long enough for her to be satisfied, and sometimes I still have to work at it, but control will come in time. During my orgasm I'm always very aware of ejaculating inside her. It's exciting and hot; it's a little scary, since even though she's on the pill there's always that chance; it's the most emotionally (as well as physically) intimate thing that I've ever experienced; and it's very, very sexy (especially if I climax when Hannah's building up to her own orgasm or else is all giggly and breathless coming down from one). I wouldn't trade it for anything!"

Shoshannah speaking: Condomless sex physically feels a lot better to me as well--condoms chafe me. Plus, like some of the other women above, I can often (but not always) feel my boyfriend's penis pulsing as he ejaculates, which i find extremely sexy and satisfying emotionally (doesn't do much for me physically though). And I agree with him about 1000% about how intimate and romantic it is. And the mess never bothered me after about the second time, once I learned what to expect and how to handle it. I'm usually a little drippy the following morning for a while (or longer if we made love in the morning), but liners handle it, and it reminds me of us being together. We often make love on a towel, and we keep wash cloths on the nightstand.

HTH.

[brightceci]

What is with guys and messiness!? Most if not all the men I have involved with (not too many) worry about the 'mess' after unless there is a shower available. I like my man cum (coming) inside me. It makes a mess after a few hours but a pantyliner take cares of it. I don't think guys like to use condoms, I found that they are harder and more into it without one. I have heard that for man it is like wearing a glove on your tongue while french kissing. For me as a woman I do feel the different.

[Hugo-B]

What is with guys and messiness!? Most if not all the men I have involved with (not too many) worry about the 'mess' after unless there is a shower available. I like my man cum (coming) inside me. It makes a mess after a few hours but a pantyliner take cares of it. I don't think guys like to use condoms, I found that they are harder and more into it without one. I have heard that for man it is like wearing a glove on your tongue while french kissing. For me as a woman I do feel the different.

I was seeing a couple of girls who I was sleeping with, neither made me wear a condom, (though both said they were on the pill) so I used to pull out of them just in case and cum over them. Both used to get up straight after and jump into the shower. I think they may have been offended I chose to pull out or thought it was degrading to them? Or maybe just not used to actually seeing cum or having it over them? I'm not sure but they were perfectly OK with me cumming inside them if I wanted.

The other girls I've done this with (who didn't mind either way if I came in or over them) just cleaned the cum up with tissues and said it was cleaner like that because once the cum was wiped off of them it all gone for good.

[ItsASecret]

I think they may have been offended I chose to pull out or thought it was degrading to them? Or maybe just not used to actually seeing cum or having it over them?

Not necessarily. Some women just do not want to lay there with a sticky mess on them. Cum smells like chlorine, it can be a potent smell too depending on the guy lol. Add that with the potential to be stringy, thick, and congealed and a woman can think "well I think I want a shower". Even if you clean it with tissues it is still going to be sticky on the body and the smell can sometimes still remain lol. Not all women love the stuff on them, they may be perfectly okay with it on their body but once the sex moment is over you kinda want it cleaned up and the shower is basically the easiest way to do that.

[Clai0018]

Thanks everyone for the replies, we have still decided to continue trying to conceive. No condoms used, but he laughs everytime we finish and makes me laugh but we are having a great time trying and having fun at the same time.

I am nto sure what is happening but man, our libido is sky high and i am loving it!

[hiskitten]

That’s the joy of me being on birth control. We both can enjoy full and natural love making without the concern of getting me pregnant. I love for BF to cum inside me, deep inside me, filling my womb with his seed. It’s wonderful feeling his hard shaft pulsing and throbbing inside me as he squirts his warm treasure into me. Most often I can actually feel his streams hitting against my cervix. I think it’s just my natural womanly desire for him to do it inside me, my natural desire to be inseminated. And it does leave me feeling so womanly and sexy each time he fills me.

Too, I get the satisfaction that it is I that provides him with enough pleasure that he can’t help but release inside me. The satisfaction that it is my femininity sheathing his shaft that provides the stimulation he so desires. I enjoy satisfying his manly desire to inseminate me, marking his territory, and claiming me as his.

[sandra22]

most of men hate condom and they depend on their GF in this issue i think because they are selfish kind of so i think if he likes condom so go for it i did not re-command you use other things they effect of fertility .

[Motorguy]

A little bit of background; I have been with the same guy for over 12 yrs. We were High school sweethearts and are getting married in 3 months. We have decided to start trying for kids. We have always and always used 2 methods on contraception. Always Birth Control and Condoms. I have been off my birth control for about 3 months now and we finally stopped using condoms too…

I love the sensation of him cuming in me. I feel his ******** pulsating and I love it. It is a great turn on.. but for him, he says it is a lovely feeling without the condom but prefers cuming in a condom? Less of a mess he says? What do you guys do? Do you men prefer condoms or not? What is your take on cuming inside you?

That's weird most guys you talk with or read the post on here hate condoms. I am the same way I have not worn a condom in 27 years i wouldn't be into wearing one now. But for sure the feeling is so much better without one, of course cream pies can be a little messy. But that's the point of sex is the pleasure for you both not because it's messy or not. But for you to get pregnant condoms can't be used Clai I hope husband knows that right.