[sion]

I have decided to go for it. We are going to go to a swingers club on Saturday night and my husband has told me he will support me whatever I decide to do there.

[sexnlove]

Be careful. You have no idea how it. May affect your relationship later

[bluepisces]

Cuckolding

My husband has revealed to me that he has a very strong fantasy of me sleeping with another man. He would like to be there to watch. I am disturbed and intrigued in almost equal measure. Does anyone have any experience of this?

My husband said the same thing to me two months ago. I always knew he was interested in kinky stuff but this took me by surprise.

We have been together 20 years and have a child. When he told me I was interested.
We talked alot about it and I did alot of research (cuckolding and hotwive).

My husband was very sure this was what he wanted. My main problem was he would regret it afterwards. Sometimes fantasy are so good in reality. His main concern was that I would get emotionally involved with the other person. Obviously once you do it there is no going back.

I am very open minded and I don't judge people. The key is communicating about what you both want and the consequenes of it.

Hope that helps.

[Nholland]

So how did it go??

[Nonni114]

wow, interesting thread, I wonder if they are still together?

[sion]

So how did it go??

Well, we had a great time and we had some hot sex...but only with each other. There weren't many people in the club and the atmosphere was more bawdy than sexy. No-one other than us had sex. The closest anyone came was during a forfeit game where a woman rubbed ice on the chest of a 300 lb truck driver. We watched and joined in the games as much as we could and then got horny and had sex on one of the beds.

It was fun and funny. Sexy? Hell no.

We are still together and the adventure has brought us closer. I like the idea of being with another couple, maybe just to have sex with our partners in the same room to begin with.

I appreciate my husband for starting this adventure. Since he opened up to me I have felt sexier than ever and much closer to him emotionally and sexually.

[JanieMarie]

My husband has revealed to me that he has a very strong fantasy of me sleeping with another man. He would like to be there to watch. I am disturbed and intrigued in almost equal measure. Does anyone have any experience of this?

I'm sorry to come in so late. This is actually a very common fantasy among men. They call it "cukolding" and they call the wife who sleeps with other men the "hotwife". For some men this is the end of the fantasy. They are simply turned on by the idea of their wife sleeping with other men. Others may want to actually watch the action. Still others are turned on by the expression of power that is conveyed when a woman is unfaithful. Men in this category often fantasize about being tied up and forced to watch, or tied up in the room next door and forced to listen. A very common activity that is often combined with cuckolding is male chastity play. The wife will lock her husband up in a ******* (or some other chastity device) and keep the keys. As she seeks her sexual pleasure outside of the marriage bed, he gets more and more aroused and desperate for release. This triggers a cycle of arousal and frustration that is reported extremely pleasurable, moreso than actual sex.

If you aren't comfortable with actually sleeping with other men, there is still a lot you can do to fulfill your husbands fantasy. You can tease him about it, which we all know drives men crazy. You can go out mysteriously and when arriving home tell him you may or may not have been out with a man. You can go to clubs with your girlfriends (or tell him that's where you were). Of course chastity play can be a lot of fun without actual cuckolding. If you need ideas, just go to a free erotica site (like literotica) and search for stories with the keywords cuckold, chastity, femdom, etc. Good luck and have fun!

[sion]

I'm sorry to come in so late. This is actually a very common fantasy among men. They call it "cukolding" and they call the wife who sleeps with other men the "hotwife". For some men this is the end of the fantasy. They are simply turned on by the idea of their wife sleeping with other men. Others may want to actually watch the action. Still others are turned on by the expression of power that is conveyed when a woman is unfaithful. Men in this category often fantasize about being tied up and forced to watch, or tied up in the room next door and forced to listen. A very common activity that is often combined with cuckolding is male chastity play. The wife will lock her husband up in a ******* (or some other chastity device) and keep the keys. As she seeks her sexual pleasure outside of the marriage bed, he gets more and more aroused and desperate for release. This triggers a cycle of arousal and frustration that is reported extremely pleasurable, moreso than actual sex.

If you aren't comfortable with actually sleeping with other men, there is still a lot you can do to fulfill your husbands fantasy. You can tease him about it, which we all know drives men crazy. You can go out mysteriously and when arriving home tell him you may or may not have been out with a man. You can go to clubs with your girlfriends (or tell him that's where you were). Of course chastity play can be a lot of fun without actual cuckolding. If you need ideas, just go to a free erotica site (like literotica) and search for stories with the keywords cuckold, chastity, femdom, etc. Good luck and have fun!

Thanks for the advice, I will have a look. It started as my husband's fantasy, but I am getting more into the idea, if not the reality of it.

[JennieBottle]

My question is will you not be nervous if all your husband does is watch? If he wants to see you sleeping with another man doesn't that mean he wants it to look and be real? How can it be when the situation is so awkward? In my mind there are too many conflicting situations. And neither one of you will end up achieving the satisfactory result you have of it in your mind.

Of course, this is just my conservative opinion. I am really fascinated with your thought process during this! I'm trying to think about how I would react if my husband asked me this.

[sgtpepper]

Swinging

My wife and I were married for about 4 years when we decided to give "hotwifing" a try, a decade later and we're happier than ever. We've had many threesomes and what not, she is taking time off for the moment because of health issues (unrelated). But she's had a boyfriend, someone she actually has feelings for. I don't have a problem with that, and I certainly don't have a problem with her sleeping with other men. Because she still comes home to me (sometimes the next day), and I enjoy it. I enjoy watching her with other men, I love seeing the pleasure she is getting and giving. She does "play" alone, but we also "play" together. If your marriage is a strong one, then I don't see an issue. Just don't be jealous, we're only alive for a short time, why not enjoy yourself.