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  • Larry
    Member
    • Mar 2009
    • 18

    My wife and I have been married for 33 years and I have been sharing my wife with the same friend for the last 10 years. I am a cuckold husband.

    As long as I can remember I have never wished for more sex, my sex drive is very low, most of the time I could take or leave it, now my wife is just the opposite. That’s how we got started cuckolding and having MFM threesome. We were lucky to have a close friend that was willing to help us experience our first threesome. Our first MFM threesome worked out so well, and we enjoyed it so much that we all decided to continue having them.

    Then about 5 years ago while I was performing oral sex on my wife our friend put his penis in my face, the next thing I knew I was performing oral on him and I was enjoying it. That is when we discovered I am Bisexual. Pleasant surprise.

    Whenever I was deployed I encouraged my wife and our friend to stay sexually active. There was no reason for both of us to be sexually frustrated. She always let me know whenever they spent time together.

    For us it keeps getting better in and out of the bedroom.

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    • jacki46
      Junior Member
      • Dec 2012
      • 2

      10 years ago i had a fling with a guy from work i am a very honest person and dont lie, my husband on the other hand even though i love him tells untruths,then when we were in the throws of love making,he said i so glad you have been faithfull, at the time what he was doing was very nice, you have been haven,t you well not quite,i just couldn,t help my self he said was it that guy from your work yes, he gave me the silent treatment for days ok i want you to tell me all the details,so i did,he then says i want you to have a threesome with me and another man,i went you what no way, then if you dont i will find another woman, at this stage he was being very cruel, i reluctantly said yes, i am a bit of a eye for a eye person if i found out he had gone off with somone else i would go out and do the same, he aranged this guy and we had the threesome,he mainly watched,the thing is i enjoyed it not at first, the guy stayed most of the night which i did take full advantage of my husband said when he left this is a one off,that was two years ago and i will want to keep it like that, but since then sex is great,so i believe it all depends on you curcumstances and if you do go ahead only try it the once
      Last edited by jacki46; 12-05-2012, 11:45 PM.

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      • DemoCommando
        Junior Member
        • Dec 2012
        • 9

        I agree with the other posters, sound like a Cuckold husband or wants to be. It's not that unusual really. I would imagine his fantasy would be something like this:

        You had this guy over, your husband is tied up and 'forced' to watch you get slammed and you 'enjoy' it. After the guy is done, you may sit on your husbands face and 'make' him eat the ejaculate out of you. It's not terribly complicated to think about, doing it is a whole other story.

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        • rcoreyus
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 4369

          There is fantasy and there is reality. This is the internet where the two are often confused.

          (I'm not pointing fingers at any particular post, just reminding readers of where they are).

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          • jacki46
            Junior Member
            • Dec 2012
            • 2

            As you can see from my post i have been with another man while my hubby love him to bits was there, i have always tried to please him sexy underware ect even on our wedding night i wore a white basque and stockings so if you are game and you yes you want to then try it, it will improve your sex life,i have thought about doing it again and i will but not for a another 12 to 18 months i know my husband will agree but its like having your fav meal every day you will soon get fed up of it.

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            • monika_30
              Member
              • Dec 2012
              • 11

              It is sort of perversion, imagine what pleasure he will drive from watching you having sex with another guy. You will also not get any pleasure in this act, In my opinion you should not agree to this.

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              • CTango65804
                Junior Member
                • Dec 2012
                • 2

                Make it happen!

                Originally posted by JonDoe
                You seem eager yet apprehensive, so listen to your instinct and let it remain a fantasy.

                Rather than 100% fulfilling his fantasy, try the following instead. Setup a video camera to record you and your husband having sex together. Try to angle the camera so his face isn't visible in the video, this way when he watches the video he can more easily imagine it is another man. You can even experiment with various uniforms, hats, henna tattoos and/or other disguises that help with the illusion of being with a stranger. He could even wear a large strapon dildo under his pants to enhance the illusion.
                The fantasy is a very common one. It can strengthne your bond. A man who truly loves his wife, enjoys giving her pleasure and pleasuring her in this way with another man. The fantasy varies in the degree to which the husband wants to be involved. Some just want to watch, others want to encourage the wife and even order her what to do with the other man. Some want to join. The common thread is to bring pleasure to the wife! I would recommend that you role play this fantasy many times so that you are both comfortable with the scenario. then you have to find teh right guy, who will fit exactly into the role you have created and are both comfortable with. Don't be surprised to find the husband become super afectionate and develop a stronger emotional connection to you! So, I say, go for it!

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                • CTango65804
                  Junior Member
                  • Dec 2012
                  • 2

                  The dominant cuckold

                  Originally posted by DemoCommando
                  I agree with the other posters, sound like a Cuckold husband or wants to be. It's not that unusual really. I would imagine his fantasy would be something like this:

                  You had this guy over, your husband is tied up and 'forced' to watch you get slammed and you 'enjoy' it. After the guy is done, you may sit on your husbands face and 'make' him eat the ejaculate out of you. It's not terribly complicated to think about, doing it is a whole other story.
                  That's the submissive, passive cuckold husband. But many want to participate. They don't want to be humiliated. They just derive pleasure from having the one they love receive pleasure! Who doesn't enjoy watching their wife pleasure hersself to orgasm? Well, it's an extension of that except that she is being pleasured not by her fingers but by another man...

                  The way I se it, both the wife and the other guy are submitting to the husband's wishes who wants it (orders it) to happen!

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                  • dagang
                    Junior Member
                    • Dec 2012
                    • 4

                    Hey Gals & Women ! I am Rohit from Nagpur a 'Tantrik Sex Expert'. I have learnt this art from a Denmark origin Sadhavi, experimented this almost a year before in Rishikesh. She taught me every single secret of this art. Aim of this art is purly a remedy for mind relaxation as well as fulfiling the sexual desire. Those who wish to learn this unique ancient art can contact me. I don't charge for it anyway only learning desire should be there. Any girl or woman can contact me to learn this tension healing art, secrecy will be maintain by the either side. One thing is clearly mention here that 'Tantrik Sex Technique' has a practical learning session, it can be teach only with your phisical involvement. This thing should be in your mind & no hasitation would be entertaining at the session, only your serious involvement needed. If anyone wish to learn this art can mail me: rohit_dagang at yahoo dot co dot in

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                    • cathygirl
                      Senior Member
                      • Dec 2010
                      • 108

                      I think most men propose this kind of thing because in all actuality they are looking to have sex with someone else and they can't very well propose that without drawing their wives into it. Now, I have strong exhibitionist tendencies so there are certain things I might consider, but watching my husband have sex with someone else is not going to be part of the mix. The odds of both people being equally receptive to this idea is pretty remote, I think. Most people don't think this way. My guess is that there is some degree of one party being coerced involved such arrangements. Probably the one who proposes it. But hey, if someone truly likes the idea of sex with another man while their many has sex with another woman, I guess that's their business. I see it leading to very bad things in the majority of cases, though.

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