[inquisitive1]

This is just as ridiculous as the porn posts themselves. I'm sorry I clicked on it; I should have kept with my previous rule of thumb ... I just thought that maybe since the title said "SICK of the porn posts," it would be a little different.
No change, I see.

Hello Little-
Please clarify "This is just as ridiculous as the porn posts themselves."? I posted an experience on the "BF addicted to porn" thread. That experience has been many things to me, but never ridiculous. Just want to know. Thanks.

[Little]

Your experience is anything but ridiculous.
The bickerbickerbicker is all of that word and more. Please don't get me wrong.

[mr.mansview]

"who is fed up with the porn posts"..add me to the list..if anyone has concerns over this issue, look up some old posts,chances are your answer to a question is probably there..

[inquisitive1]

Your experience is anything but ridiculous.
The bickerbickerbicker is all of that word and more. Please don't get me wrong.

Little-
Thank you for the clarity. I appreciate your response. I believe I understand your point. I don't think I got you wrong. I just needed the clarity. As far as the bickering is concerned, I posted my thoughts on having no desire to engage in it. And at least with me graciously agree to disagree and Let It Go. This is one topic I still have some moments. Can't really place a discription on them, they're just moments. I just want no parts of it for the time being. I am not as removed from it or as strong as I thought I was. That's subject to change as well I'm sure.

[inquisitive1]

"who is fed up with the porn posts"..add me to the list..if anyone has concerns over this issue, look up some old posts,chances are your answer to a question is probably there..

dr.mansview-
I don't mean to pry or be intrusive but I could not help but notice your signature "sign on a tombstone: i told you i was sick!". You don't have to tell me details, but if there is any issue I could be praying for, for you, please let me know. If I potentially read too much into this that does not apply then please just disregard. Thanks.

[jmflu]

humor

dr.mansview-
I don't mean to pry or be intrusive but I could not help but notice your signature "sign on a tombstone: i told you i was sick!". You don't have to tell me details, but if there is any issue I could be praying for, for you, please let me know. If I potentially read too much into this that does not apply then please just disregard. Thanks.

No worries, I think the good Dr. was just pointing out that someone saw this sign on a tombstone and it was a bit of wry humor.

[jmflu]

actually...

That is some conclusion. I bet you do wish she was "struck."

LOL I actually didn't even think about insinuating that someone was a porn star, although after reading your post I wonder if that's how it came off!! She had said something earlier about some woman saying her husband would never look at porn, but they all laughed when she walked away because her husband was buying it from her or her boyfriend or something. So I was speaking of "selling" porn... not making it!! :P

[mr.mansview]

dr.mansview-
I don't mean to pry or be intrusive but I could not help but notice your signature "sign on a tombstone: i told you i was sick!". You don't have to tell me details, but if there is any issue I could be praying for, for you, please let me know. If I potentially read too much into this that does not apply then please just disregard. Thanks.

the post below yours "inquistive1" by "jmflu" is correct..it was a bit (obviously a very small bit) at wry humor..it is an inscription first placed on a tombstone by R.P.Roberts in 1979..it was his attempt at humour even in dying..it was also placed on the tombstone of american writer Erma Bombeck in 1996 and english comedien Spike Milligan in 2002..it is now a hard cover book by writer Nigel Rees entitled "I told you i was sick, a grave book of epitaphs"..however your keen sense of intuition may have uncovered a situation that has troubled me since my sister's death..perhaps one day soon i will post it and seek some advice, but not today..

[inquisitive1]

the post below yours "inquistive1" by "jmflu" is correct..it was a bit (obviously a very small bit) at wry humor..it is an inscription first placed on a tombstone by R.P.Roberts in 1979..it was his attempt at humour even in dying..it was also placed on the tombstone of american writer Erma Bombeck in 1996 and english comedien Spike Milligan in 2002..it is now a hard cover book by writer Nigel Rees entitled "I told you i was sick, a grave book of epitaphs"..however your keen sense of intuition may have uncovered a situation that has troubled me since my sister's death..perhaps one day soon i will post it and seek some advice, but not today..

Hello dr.mansveiw-
I am vaguely familiar with that story surrounding the humourous tombstone. I had heard or read something about it a long time ago. I'll have to read up on it. I've never known all of the referrences you referred to however. It just seemed like more than just humour to me. I felt a since of reaching out, perhaps hurt and/or frustration. I will respect your privacy and not pry. I have and will continue to pray for you. I apologize if I made you uncomfortable, that was truly not my intention. My condolences for the loss of your sister. Strange thing about my keen since of intuition, it comes with the "gifts of discernment and prophecy" as well. It's been like that since I was a small chlid. I can't control it. It comes as it pleases. It doesn't always feel like such a gift when I'm helpless to help someone who is hurting.

[Nightelf]

Much as I agree that the endless bickering on the porn threads is annoying and repetitive, everyone believing that they are 110% correct, are we correct is saying that people shouldnt post questions about it? Obviously to these posters it is a huge problem and they dont always feel satisfied by reading older posts. A lot on this forum is repetition. People having problem orgasming, losing interest in sex and many other topics are constantly rehashed and although they are not receiving many replies they are still being posted. So where is the line drawn? Is it the many posts about porn that are the problem or posters that cant resist turning someone else's heartfelt post into a personal boxing match?

So, I am not fed up with the porn posts but the posters that fly at each others throats making personal comments and taking everything away from the original poster. Selfish and childish.