[a_dub]

See right there again, a disregard for the other women you know who you label as unattractive. I asked about the women you know not singly the attractive women you know. You did not mention the women you know, you instead jumped right to "none of the attractive girls I know right now". I am sure you know more women than solely attractive ones. So how do you know that others are not secretly attracted to you? That is the sort of thing you need to catch when you are talking to women. Maybe a woman is not a perfect 10 but if she makes you laugh, makes you smile, makes you think "she would be fun to hang around with" why not give her a chance?

I'm pretty sure none of the women I know are attracted to me. Its highly unlikely given that I haven't been the most mature and gentlemanly person I can be. I'm gonna try to act more mature and less goofy and see how that goes. There have been a few girls who I know where either into me for sure, or likely were interested, but I was always chasing after some other girl at the time.

There have been plenty of girls who made me laugh, smile, and think they'd be fun to hang out with...they just didn't feel the need to give me a chance, but it was really my fault because of the way I acted around them.

[rcoreyus]

FWIW, I find a lot of women to be physically attractive: Tall Scandinavian blonds. Cute and petite. Exotic with darker skin. Athletic with slightly "butch" short cropped hair. Redheads with freckles. Long dark hair and an enchanting smile. Lots of others. I don't think that woman "A" is more attractive than woman "B", both are attractive in different ways, and almost any woman with an honest smile is beautiful.

I think some men try to find traditionally beautiful women not for themselves, but as trophies to show off to their friends. If so, its a mark of insecurity.l

Try for friendship, not sex. Find someone you enjoy spending time with, not someone you want to bonk. Sex with someone you care about really is much more enjoyable. To me, sex without the emotional attachment, friendship and fun, is pointless, might as well use you hand and save yourself the trouble.