[Guest]

U r not loyal to ur wife. U r having mental sex. shame on u. Ur wife deserves a better hunny than u. :-(. U r a dog in my opinion.

[Rhonda14]

hi BM 16

she s tired everyday and im just fed up

If she is tired everyday then help relieve of some the pressure and help her out. Take care of the kids, feed them bath them and put them to bed while she relaxes or whatever. Do you help around the house with chores? I know for me that stuff goes a long way. When my husband cleans without me having to ask is a big turn on.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Tulip, you are expecting too much outta your wife too fast.. Your expecting her to change way to fast.. And like rhonda14 said try to help relieve some of the pressure she has..

[Guest]

hi artqueen

U r not loyal to ur wife. U r having mental sex. shame on u. Ur wife deserves a better hunny than u. :-(. U r a dog in my opinion.

thats 100% right

[Guest]

hi Rhonda n BM16

the following r 100% truth believe it or not

i get up at 5 am, do my workouts (b4 they all get up), boil milk, make coffee for me n her, cut fruits (snacks for school), give bath to one of my kids, dress them up, sometimes both kids
breakfast is made in my house on weekends only.

afternoon i engage my kids for an hour or 2,

i sit with them teach them how to draw, paint

please tell me , how else i shud improve??

and have this in mind i work for 14-16 hours a day

and until a year back i used to work 110 - 125 hours a week

how else i shud improve??

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Don't expect too much of your wife too quickly that's all

[time2discover]

There is one thing that hasn't been mentioned yet. What you do is terrific but it also
brings on something else. Expectations!!! I know someone who is highly energetic,demands
alot of himself and does it and at the end of the day still has energy to spare. The one mistake
he makes is that he expects everyone around him to be the same. Maybe consider your wife
feels a little down on herself because she just can't keep up even though she thinks she should.
Sometimes it gives us the impression we'll never be that so might as well give up. Could she be
feeling this way?(I'm not saying this is your fault but people tend to compare themselves alot
to others)

[Guest]

ok i will wait
thats why im sleeping in a different room since a week, not even my hand shud fall on her during sleep n disturb her

[time2discover]

Forget sex but if you lose intimacy also, beware! My parents made that move
and never went back. More talk less separate actions. You have to get her
to see what is causing these reactions from her and it is from her. We tend
to see what we want to explain our actions but we have the power to make
the changes and so does she. Let her know that.

[Rhonda14]

I don't understand the sleeping in another room? If my husband started sleeping in another room that wouldn't work for me. That would tell me he didn't desire me enough to sleep in the same room. I don't sleep well when my husband isn't in bed with me.