[gosurabbit]

So our first time having sex... it felt really good for me and he could go on for hours and i asked him how and have you done it with someone else? and he said no your vagina isn't warm inside when I put it in. At first we thought it was the condom but when he fingered me he said its still not warm then we tried to do it without the condom and he said its not warm.. is there something wrong with me? or is it him and his penis ? help pls because i both want our sex to be good not bad.

[jns]

It sounds like he thinks it should be warm or hot inside. It should be normal body temperature. What is his definition of warm? Warmer than normal body temperature? The temperature of a hot tub? What?

[a_dub]

It sounds like he thinks it should be warm or hot inside. It should be normal body temperature. What is his definition of warm? Warmer than normal body temperature? The temperature of a hot tub? What?

I thought all vaginas would be quite warm. Rectal body temperatures are warmer than under arm and under the tongue, so I figured since the vagina and the rectum are similar cavities and in almost the same region, they'd have the same temp.

[LisaW1991]

I've never a guy ever say anything like that before, and can't say my (girl) friends have had that problem either. The only thing that comes to mind is making sure you are fully aroused before he enter you. Its kinda typical for guys want to enter a girl before she is fully ready. Make sure you get to that stage\feeling where you're ready for him to enter you, if not then slow things down and have him stimulate you more. I can't imagine my vagina being cold when its ready for sex.

[jns]

Ahh, if it were only so easy to tell when a girl was ready. The calibrated finger and penis set. Has anybody ever heard of a guy complaining that the girl's mouth was too cold when getting oral?

[BabyGirl]

I'm curious as to his age and yours ?
Mainly because it may be that you were his First and he did not know what to expect ?
His Locker room Buddy talk may have been Guys Bragging about how " Hot She Was '

At first we thought it was the condom but when he fingered me he said its still not warm then we tried to do it without the condom and he said its not warm.

I am hoping the Trying to do it without a Condom, wasn't a Trick to not use Protection. It is Never Safe to NOT use some Protection, unless you are trying to get Pregnant ..

If you are both Young , say 18 or over . ( sorry I do not think 16 is Mature enough for Sexual Activity ) But you might want to do some Studying up on the Sexual Education. Maybe do it together on an online site . Not Porn , lol , but Question and Answer Search.

From what I can see from a General Search, The Vaginal, Anal and Oral Body temp can be a couple of degree points to the " Normal " of 98.6 it can be a 98.8 or even a 97.3.
I wouldn't worry about it ..
Is he worried ?
If so, what is he worried about ?


JNS.

Has anybody ever heard of a guy complaining that the girl's mouth was too cold when getting oral?

LMAO,
I knew some Guys that liked a gal to Eat Ice Cream or Ice Cubes just before Licking the " Popsicle " lol

[gosurabbit]

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I'm curious as to his age and yours ?
Mainly because it may be that you were his First and he did not know what to expect ?
His Locker room Buddy talk may have been Guys Bragging about how " Hot She Was '



I am hoping the Trying to do it without a Condom, wasn't a Trick to not use Protection. It is Never Safe to NOT use some Protection, unless you are trying to get Pregnant ..

If you are both Young , say 18 or over . ( sorry I do not think 16 is Mature enough for Sexual Activity ) But you might want to do some Studying up on the Sexual Education. Maybe do it together on an online site . Not Porn , lol , but Question and Answer Search.

From what I can see from a General Search, The Vaginal, Anal and Oral Body temp can be a couple of degree points to the " Normal " of 98.6 it can be a 98.8 or even a 97.3.
I wouldn't worry about it ..
Is he worried ?
If so, what is he worried about ?

Hmm we are both 21.. he is older by a few months.. we tried foreplay I really thought I was ready because I was reaaaally turned on by it and when he fingered he said I wasn't as warm as I used to be because he fingered me before just didn't have the chance to have sex
we didn't really have sex without condom he just put it inside to check if it was hot lol I know that sounds a bit weird but yeah. He said he was told that it was nice and warm but he didn't think it was and didn't really get turned on as it just felt like masturbating with his hand he lasted for hours before giving up as it didn't feel as good, I though I was pretty warm but he didn't not sure but I think he said something like its the same temperature as my penis and finger but when I gave him a blowjob he said it felt nice as it was warmer than my vagina only that made him cum quicker.. :/ I hope that it doesn't stay like this forever because i want him to enjoy the sex as well.

[Stillness]

is there something wrong with me?

I doubt it.

Body temperature fluctuates according to the body's natural 24 hr cycle, diet, level of activity, emotional state, the female cycle and other things. Let's say a woman is at a particularly cool level, and the man is warm. She will feel cool. Let her be ovulating and catch the man at the right time and the same woman will feel hot. The skin of the penis is not as hot as the vagina, but it's not exactly an icicle so a degree or two can make a difference. It's noticeable to me. Is it a big deal? No. But a warm vagina is better. A cool one is not to shabby though, especially on a hot day.

One thing to keep in mind is the fact that this is about reproduction. Remember that the testicles hang away from the man's body because sperm can't take heat. So the vagina can't exactly be a hot box. **ba-dum-ching**

[LisaW1991]

Ahh, if it were only so easy to tell when a girl was ready. The calibrated finger and penis set. Has anybody ever heard of a guy complaining that the girl's mouth was too cold when getting oral?

I am trying to remember if a guy ever has ever complained about anything when he gets to have sex.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So our first time having sex... it felt really good for me and he could go on for hours and i asked him how and have you done it with someone else? and he said no your vagina isn't warm inside when I put it in. At first we thought it was the condom but when he fingered me he said its still not warm then we tried to do it without the condom and he said its not warm.. is there something wrong with me? or is it him and his penis ? help pls because i both want our sex to be good not bad.

Hey sweet, this is fantastic that you felt great and I imagine loving? With your first sexual experience with your boyfriend... It's what we girls dream of right... Can I ask how long you two have been together?

All "people" have in-securities. He says it was his first time but he lasted a long time.. There could be a solution and that is he's learnt about his body, touched himself so to speak and for a while before you two became intimate and so, it took a long time and he is embarrased. There is nothing wrong with that either we should learn about our bodies but either that or he is in-sensitive sorry guys.

This was your first time together he should have made you feel magical and beautiful and thankful.

That is why I am thinking he's covering his embarrasement by offering this "cold" theory..