[Lithium]

When women have given me head, they have wanted to give me head.

Glad to know you were not pointing a gun to their heads in order of having it done.

We were both drunk, she more so than me. We sat on a secluded porch. While we were talking, she gave me an incredible blow job. I didn't ask for it. She wanted to do it. And she swallowed.

You were both drunk and you had an incredible blowjob... Ok, awesome story.
Then you go into personal details about your girlfriend likes, what she does and I really don't get you. I mean... where does it fit in here since you are in circles? Let me get it short:
she loves you - she likes pleasuring you - she is satisfied - you are satisfied - blowjobs are done always and a pleasurable thing stating all that has just been said.
So? Whats your point and what does it have to do what I said? Because it doesn't fit for what I explained for some cases.
I said that in some cases the girl is tired of the selfish lover, or the guy has bad hygiene, etc etc so many things.

If your husband or b/f doesn't know how to have mind blowing sex, teach him.

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Going personal again for no reason.
1 - I never said anything here about my partner, his performance or my sex life with him.
2 - Mind blowing sex??? We are discussing blow jobs only in here.
I hope you get my point. So far you've been pointing out about you and your girlfriend experience alone and it doesn't stand for others. Same for me, while I am satisfied with my experience, I know it doesn't mean all girls are with theirs. I am giving my point of view as a girl myself, knowing what girl friends and other girls have experienced.

[WaveRider]

Last night, my g/f didn't want me outta her mouth. She has told me many years ago that she knows exactly how to make dudes cum when she's giving head. Last night she showed me that she knows how to prolong it when she's really in to sucking a package. Many times I tried pulling it outta her mouth. She wasn't cooperating. She was in to sucking my package. When she got to working on my package's cumming mechanism, I pulled outta her mouth. She wanted a facial. I bent her over my bed and went Neil Young on her, except I was like a hurricane and, was living a dream, and her brown eyes were dancing from star to star.

[Gramkar]

So i was giving my BF BJ and out of sudden he told me that he can't " come " because the mood is gone .
My qns : Did i do anything wrong to causes his mood disappear ?
After that i gave in i asked him to watch porn while i am doing the job and eventually he came but took a while .

After the job was done , he apologise to me saying sorry that he took quite a while to " came "

Girls . What should i do ?

Just a gentle reminder of the Original Post and her question guys

Her BF stopped her mid BJ. She is worried she did something wrong to cause his mood to change.

It is difficult to say for certain without knowing what they said/did, but in my experience this only happens to me if my GF says something that puts my mind on topics I'd rather not think about during sex.
Someone mentioned distractions like TV/Radio which could have a similar effect. Immagine the news kicking in with some terrorist attack for example.

Question for you Lithium. Could the giving of a blowjob in itself be sufficient satisfaction?

[Lithium]

Question for you Lithium. Could the giving of a blowjob in itself be sufficient satisfaction?

Yes, it can and no doubts there. But only for some, of course. Some people love pasta alone, some prefer meat. Stupid comparison but its a matter of liking it or not.
But indeed, can be even enough for the girl to orgasm.

For the guy, I do believe he was tired or mentally away from the moment ,distracted.
I am not a guy myself but, I think in some situations might be really hard to be in the mood, have erection and cum.
Its doesn't mean that the girl is not doing a good job or is not attractive.

[WaveRider]

Hi Lithium,

Last night, as soon as we got naked, my g/f got on her knees and blew me to the verge of her swallowing. I had to push her head away. She did it on her own. I never asked her to get on her knees although she LOVES to be commanded to perform. She came at least 6 times before I did. Her first orgasm is always massive.

I love bedroom nasty girlfriends.

BTW, when she's really horny, she'll talk about one of her first boyfriends with whom she thought she was in love. She loves to tell me how much he loved her blow jobs. According to her, she used to give him head all the time before they had sex. They were young, & he could cum all night long.

[a_dub]

Eh... I didn't get good at bj's until I was in my mid twenties. And to be honest, it was porn that helped me figure it out. Before, I had pretty much no concept of what I was doing.

Do you enjoy doing it more now that you are more skilled? Did you always enjoy giving BJs?