[CHANDLERS WISH]

Not that far away, there are children dying because they can't get water to drink, and you're wasting time on such vanities? Sort it out, chumps.

This!

Totally agree with that statement and alot more, of what you wrote.

I'd rather live life, happy, content, passionately. Than down in the dumps over something I didn't like that I was born with, constantly eating at me, day after day after day.

Isn't it so true? Fickle people, flick them. They exist but not in my world.

[jns]

"One of the most accurate and scientific pieces of research on this subject was carried out in Mexico on behalf of LifeStyles condoms. Under the supervision of a doctor, four trained health professionals measured the erect penises of 300 men (who were mostly young Americans).

They found that the average length was 5.877 inches (14.93 centimetres) – far less than the figure which had been generally quoted in the past.

A review published in the British Journal of Urology in 2007 broadly confirmed this finding."

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so now tell me, why in the face of facts, do so many people decide to go "Oh well that can't be true, because I've seen so many 9" penis'" despite being so extremely rare? /Facepalm.

The problem is that below 7" is considered small, so guys smaller than 7" automatically register as deficient, particularly to a woman who previously had a larger than average johnson.

This is what I have an objection to your arguments about. You continually redefine longer than average as small, such as a penis of 6.5 inches. You are not entitled to your own facts. The average erect penis in the U.S.A. is somewhat less than 6 inches. Multiple studies have turned this into as close as you can get to a fact without measuring every guy. If you want a longer than average penis, own up to it.

If 5.877 inch penises were objectionable and ones less than that or somewhat longer than that were objectionable, there would be stories everywhere about women not being satisfied due to their partner's length. But those stories are rare and mostly word of mouth. There are stories about SO's not treating their women right, many stories. Usually such stories are about controlling behavior, or drunks, or the gf on the side or anything but something having to so with the guy's length.

What I don't understand is how you can conclude that women are all after guys 7 inches or more in length. Your number of relationships does not give you a large enough pool to make statistical arguments. With the mid twenties of partners, my pool is not large, but it is significantly larger than yours. I was about 6 inches when I was younger and thinner, and when I had the vast majority of my sexual partners. Now I am married and have put on significant weight, so I probably am somewhat shorter due to a fat layer. I have never had an objection about length. Add that to the fact that other guys have said the same thing. Add that to the fact that the women posting have said that anything near average is OK. The women did say that other factors are the ones making for an enjoyable time or not. Those factors are the ones to work on if you want to attract women.

[Obelisk]

I'd rather live life, happy, content, passionately. Than down in the dumps over something I didn't like that I was born with, constantly eating at me, day after day after day.

Yes I could have done that and just become an overweight balding dude that definitely would not get any female attention at all. Because I get attention is why I worry about something so "trivial". I remember watching a special on TLC or Discovery(?) about a girl who had a bit of a deformity in her jaw.

She went thru a surgery to correct it. I can't remember the name of the show (it was one of those medical shows). Honest to goodness, her before picture was not bad at all. You could tell her jaw stretched a bit more than what would be considered aesthetically pleasing. But overall the girl was very beautiful, yet that part of her body needed to be fixed.

When I looked at the after pictures, it was pretty amazing. She went from a good 7 out of 10 easily to a 9 out of 10 looks wise. I think she made the right choice. People could come and say "yeah she was very pretty even before, she didn't need to worry about it". I would agree if it's out of your reach to change it. But if it's within your reach to do so, why not consider it a possibility?

[Obelisk]

This is what I have an objection to your arguments about. You continually redefine longer than average as small, such as a penis of 6.5 inches. You are not entitled to your own facts. The average erect penis in the U.S.A. is somewhat less than 6 inches. Multiple studies have turned this into as close as you can get to a fact without measuring every guy. If you want a longer than average penis, own up to it.

I do want longer than average. Assuming "somewhat less than 6 inches" is average (and I'm fine with accepting that) then I guess I'm average. Small consolation when my next woman could have had a guy who was 9 1/2"

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Load of carp. Women go for charisma just as much as looks, we have to work it, so did/do you, it's called life. There are so many choices you are choosing steriotype you know? If i go to the gym bulk up I've got a better chance...

Hey, If I get my nails done, hair done, weekly and wear designer lables I will score me an old millionaiire ..

Be yourself. And, stop obsessing.


How many friggen men do you think have a nine and a half?


I think you need to work on this obsessive nature, that's all you need to bring yourself out to be yourself .

Most women love real people. You have some excellent qualities but alot of poor me and then sterio type scenarios to correct it.

What for? Life is there to live . LIVE IT.

[Obelisk]

How many friggen men do you think have a nine and a half?

Apparently every woman on the internet has had at least one

And looks do matter. Nobody falls in love before there is sexual attraction. When I was fat women wouldn't even look at me. As soon as I got buff, I can go to a mall and get checked out regularly by a lot of women. My first gf was fit and extremely attractive. With that came an extremely entitled attitude that "she was hot so she could have whatever she wanted". Second gf is chubby. She is very sweet and nothing like the first girl. I still want her to come to the gym with me partly because she would feel so much better (You think I'm insecure, you'd have yourself a case with this girl) because I know what it feels like to be where she is now. But also I want her to lose 30-40lbs so that she looks hotter to me. Am I wrong for wanting this?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Apparently every woman on the internet has had at least one

Aha. In any event, you are at a different age. So are women that will enter your life, like it or not, if they were ascertive as it is their body, they can do what they want (forget the users), then maybe a few have done exactly that, for curiousity.

I also know of alot of women who posted here, over the years that say, it doesn't fit, it's un-comfortable and glad that they weren't marrying the guy.

Noooooooooooo... Charisma can work the same way.. If someone has confidence, they ooze it and as long as they are not cocky with it, it's very appealing, then all of a sudden the guy is good looking to that woman.

Your first was a princess, a taker. Wrong choice.

This one sure, she may be a little insecure about her weight.. But, don't "make her" do anything. When we supposidly love some one we take warts and all, remember that. You can suggest, guide but don't force or you will make her feel that you feel she is un-attractive and fat. It's not your call, it's her body, you take her the way she is, as she takes you the same. That is a relationship, in that, having said that, parties should compromise and try for each other, that's also a relationship.

[lizzardb63]

This has always amazed me. While the volume of a vagina is subject to what is inside it, the volume of a woman's pelvis/abdomen/thorax is a constant. For a 10 inch penis to fit, other things have to move out of the way, namely uterus, and possible the bladder as well. The thing is that the uterus is just under the diaphragm, which is itself just under the lungs. So if the uterus moves up, it runs into the diaphragm. It might have a couple of inches to spare, but 10 inches is really a lot. Similarly the uterus can't move forward because the bladder is there. It can't move backwards because you have section of bowel, pancreas, kidneys, and other things back there.

It truly is pretty wonderous.

I'm not really sure my other organs are moving when we have sex. Your Cervix is spongy to an extent (more so if you've already had a child) so it does have a bit of cushion. A woman's body accommodates certain things, and for me, I guess that's one of them. And just like there is no "one size" for men, there's no one size for women either. Goes both ways.

[Little]

I have had a few ridiculous-sized penises in my life (ones that legitimately should have been in porn,) and I doubt any of them attained the length of 9+ inches. More likely they were 8ish at best. They didn't color my experience with average-sized penises. Honestly, they weren't really noteworthy. They are remembered more as novelty items.

Speaking as a woman for whom foreplay is NOT the main agenda and penetration is the part of sex I'd like to occupy myself with most, a big penis just isn't the ticket. Four inches is probably enough to hit all the spots I need it to hit to enjoy myself, supposing that the attached man is sufficiently skilled and has enough endurance to keep it up.

It sounds like you have a problem considering that a woman you're having sexual relations with might have had varying experiences with other men. That's a common problem, but I don't think it's particularly healthy. I don't know if you've mentioned what kind of sexual experience you're looking for, whether you want a girl to be your FWB or a girlfriend/potential wife combo. I think sex is super-important in "forever" relationships, so don't get me wrong here, but you should probably be picking your partner based on attitude/personality as much as you are picking for chemistry. What good is great sex with a woman who compares you to others and puts you down? Surely that kind of behavior would spill into other parts of your life and make for a not-too-good relationship. Have you considered adopting the policy that you don't want to hear about previous partners?

[BabyGirl]

I think I posted on a " Penis " thread before

The Final Penis,the Black Penis,Skinny,Long,Short,Thick.
And I will as most Women here will. ( and Men ). Think HUH Another Penis Thread ?

Posting once again. It's not the Size,it's the Why's !!

The Why is she with you ?
Why are you with her ?

Will she leave you if your Penis gets Bigger or Smaller ?

If you stay together until you need Cialis or Viagra and it stays hard ( no matter the size ).
Will she stop loving you when you run out of " Penis Drugs ".

The focus on a Penis size is only a very Small or Average part of a Man.
It's Watching your Son Grow up and have babies of his own.
And having the " Locker Room Talk " about a Penis Size.Very Scary for many young men . They look for Outside Looks. not Inside " Desires" .

When a Man focuses on his Penis Size,lack of or benefit of..
He is not Focusing on the Woman.His Pleasure or her pleasure or the Confidence that he has a Penis that his ( Creation/ God/Great Spirit ) Gave him .


I'm Older ( mid range ) and believe that if I am Interested in a Man,to have Sex with or Date. I really don't think I'm going to take out a Measuring tape and say ..
Hmm 1/2 inch too small, width, too large . Nope .. Vagina will not be Filled to capacity. Pleasure will not 'COME "..

Then again. ..
With my Sloppy Well Used 5 time Vagina Births from Men ..
You just may be someone that I may feel is Narcissist and way too worried about your Penis.
And I think all can Google or Bing or Ask. The song Dear Rodney . Cartoon but believable for some young men .

Awww
So sweet to Voice the " opinion " of my Penis's .

They were not Bad,they were not Judged or Married or Long term Relationships .. By their Penis .