[somerandomguy]

No, what I meant was, if you and your partner are mutually secure in your relationship then those type of issues become irrelevant.

Again, I do not think I quite understand what you mean (maybe I am taking it too literary). To me, it sounds as though your definition of a secure couple implies that the couple, by default, is OK with everything. Including bringing third parties into the bedroom. That, because they feel secure about what they have, there is nothing that can rip them apart.

While cuckolds will have a different perception than yours, what holds true for one set of humans doesn't necessarily hold true for others. Having said that, what does hold true for any relationship are the basic deal breakers i.e lack of clear communication about dos and don'ts, likes and dislikes. All I said was when it comes to evaluating a male about his "skillfulness", size does not factor in the top list of benchmarks.

Yet, you never see a black cuckold or an Asian bull...