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  • somerandomguy
    Member
    • Aug 2013
    • 34

    Another thread about penis size.

    If women do not place as much weight on penis size as men seem to do/think, then what about all those cuckold wives who just cannot get enough of the BBC? I do not think they are just putting up a “show” of moaning to satisfy their cuck husbands’ inferiority complex.

    I guess I am wondering how these women can “stand” having sex with their husbands when their sexual needs are not met by them (I am not talking about the extreme cases of cuck-couples where the husband’s role is reduced to a sex-starved slave whose sole purpose is to provide for his wife and her offspring that somebody else fathered). Are not these women just enduring sex with their husbands as a form of necessary evil for the sake of domestic peace? Do they not view sex with their husbands as something to keep them (the wives) occupied until their next BBC-encounter?

    Sure, the husband gets some kind of kick out of being mentally raped, as well as finding satisfaction in his wife’s pleasure even though he is not the one providing it (maybe he can distance himself from the fact that his wife is not satisfied by him and just focus on the fact that she is satisfied, period).

    There was a case where a guy’s wife turned around after 13-14 years of marriage and told him that he simply did not satisfy her sexually and that he never had. He was given a period during which he was supposed to “up his game”. Needless to say, he failed to do so. At the then time of writing, he had not had sex with his wife in over 27 months (that is more than two years!) while she had been ****ing other, better-endowed men. He (the husband) considered that a small price to pay seeing as how his wife had been “enduring” all of this sexual dissatisfaction for all those years.

    Looking past the fact that your wife’s sexual needs are met by somebody else, I myself would not be able to stand knowing that the woman I married saw sex with me as a chore. I would not be able to stand being somebody’s second choice when, for me, that person is my first choice.

    Perhaps if the pleasure she received from both guys (husband and lover) was equally intense then I would be more accepting of it. However, being in a situation where my wife and I are friends with benefits with somebody else ripping all the benefits, effectively leaving me only with the friendship, is just too hard to take. Maybe I belong to the group of people who do not separate between love and sex?
  • Stillness
    WH Poster of the Month April 2017
    • Feb 2012
    • 3679

    By titling this "Another Thread about Penis Size" it implies that you've read others of the countless, repetitive questions that are posted on this site by men who feel inadequate or who are concerned about this. If so, what do you think about what you've read from women or the scientific studies on this? Are you asking for help with your own experience, or are you just looking from the outside in on someone else's relationship that you read about or saw in a pornographic video?
    "Those sowing seed with tears
    Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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    • Obelisk
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2013
      • 441

      Oh no! not another one!!
      Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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      • Obelisk
        Veteran Member
        • Jul 2013
        • 441

        I don't know anything about cuckholding so I'll stay out of that.

        I also don't place any value on scientific studies, when it seems that most women admit to having been with a really large guy. I think a lot of them liked it and can't get used to a smaller guy, at least psychologically. I've seen the scenario of the guy who has a sexless marriage in real life several times, so I don't think it's strictly something in pornographic films.

        There's not really much to do about it. I decided to try and increase my length, and doing it the safest way possible. That's really the only thing I can do to compete in a world where women can have a 9" penis inside them at the drop of a hat.
        Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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        • rcoreyus
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 4369

          There are lots of people (men and women) in sexless marriages. I am convinced that it is rarely about penis size. In fact I think the percentage of relationship issues due to women worrying about penis size is tiny. It may seem like a good excuse, but anyone who is having trouble with their relationships with women needs to look somewhere else for the source of the problem.

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          • Obelisk
            Veteran Member
            • Jul 2013
            • 441

            Originally posted by rcoreyus
            There are lots of people (men and women) in sexless marriages. I am convinced that it is rarely about penis size. In fact I think the percentage of relationship issues due to women worrying about penis size is tiny. It may seem like a good excuse, but anyone who is having trouble with their relationships with women needs to look somewhere else for the source of the problem.
            Yeah we need to be happy and accept that the women we potentially meet have had better guys than us physically, but they "chose" to be with us because we're "nicer". I don't think that's going to work for me anymore. Nice never got me anywhere.
            Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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            • lizzardb63
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 1493

              Originally posted by Obelisk
              Yeah we need to be happy and accept that the women we potentially meet have had better guys than us physically, but they "chose" to be with us because we're "nicer". I don't think that's going to work for me anymore. Nice never got me anywhere.
              You don't get married or be with someone in a relationship based solely off of their physical attributes. If it were that, then no one would stay with anyone because there isn't a perfect person in this world.

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              • Obelisk
                Veteran Member
                • Jul 2013
                • 441

                Originally posted by lizzardb63
                You don't get married or be with someone in a relationship based solely off of their physical attributes. If it were that, then no one would stay with anyone because there isn't a perfect person in this world.
                Look, I'll leave it at this:

                Men that have been damaged with the notion that our size matters (even if it doesn't) can't really recover unless we can find a way to ignore that fact and somehow go back to being blissfully ignorant. It's unfortunate how society has really made a big deal about it and made us smaller guys feel inadequate. I wish it really was as simple as treating the penis as the size of your hands or your feet, where most people don't care. Even the size of vaginas (or breasts for that matter) isn't as scrutinized. If a woman is hurt by intercourse, it's our fault, we're too big. If she can't feel it, it's our fault, we're too small. If she is disappointed that we're not as large as their previous men, it's also our fault, even though she was the one with the other guys, not us.

                So yeah it's a situation where guys can't win. If we're small, we've already lost the battle.
                Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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                • Stillness
                  WH Poster of the Month April 2017
                  • Feb 2012
                  • 3679

                  Originally posted by Obelisk
                  Even the size of vaginas (or breasts for that matter) isn't as scrutinized.
                  Yes, because who ever bothers about the size of breasts?

                  Your obsession is not representative even of men who have been worried that they are too short. I think a few of us have told you that already. If you've lost any battle, it's in your mind.

                  I really hope you don't hurt yourself fooling around with nature. In my experience, that's almost always a bad move. I wish you well with this, though.
                  "Those sowing seed with tears
                  Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126

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                  • Obelisk
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jul 2013
                    • 441

                    Originally posted by Stillness
                    Yes, because who ever bothers about the size of breasts?

                    Your obsession is not representative even of men who have been worried that they are too short. I think a few of us have told you that already. If you've lost any battle, it's in your mind.

                    I really hope you don't hurt yourself fooling around with nature. In my experience, that's almost always a bad move. I wish you well with this, though.
                    Thanks man. Being short sucks, but you can do something about it in a way, you can search for women shorter than you. You can't do anything about your penis size because every woman has has 8"+ no matter what size they are.

                    And seeing that I'm actually seeing gains, I think my goal of 7" is achievable in a year, maybe less. And screw nature, it was very unkind to me.
                    Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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