[Something_Awesome]

I dunno Motorguy... If my GF decided to have fun on the side with females it would mortify me. She says for certain she has no interest in women, she just likes to compete with them. I believe her.

[Motorguy]

I do not have the personality to participate in a ffm. The thought that my man might be wanting to do things to her etc doesn't sit well with me. I would feel threatened and insecure. I think it would be the demise of our relationship if we ever fulfilled his fantasy of either a woman going down on me or vice versa while he has sex with me. Sometimes the reality of a fantasy doesn't live up to all the hype and, I question (this is just my opinion) whether people really love their partner if they want to bring other person into the bedroom. I'm in love with my man and have no desire to sleep with another man. I get that some people can separate love and sex but for me I'm not into sharing. Sorry I'm rambling now

You never ramble Romy your points are well read so good job. With me my wife is bi but I will watch her with girl friends or she will have girls night out for her fun with them but never another guy would join in there be issue with that with me.

[Valleyball]

Oops.. Married 21 yrs, not marked. Lol

Although, I suppose I've been marked a time or two as well. Lol. Too funny. :-)

[effy2014]

I enjoy MFM play very much. I enjoy being the center of sexual attention. I've been marked for 21 yrs. we are very happy together and these things keep our sexual relationship very fun and fresh, which isn't common after 20+ yrs of marriage, two kids, yada, yada, yada. I say talk about it openly and do what works best for your own marriage.

I clearly understand what you get out of it. What do you think he gets out of seeing you with another man? Do the two of you do the fmf thing as well?

[effy2014]

although i am into the idea of watching my wife with another man, i am not into many of the ideas that go with cuckolding. i am not into being humiliated or dominated. i also am not into sucking the bull's cum out of my wife's VJay.

I didn't think so either. Your posts indicate that you are a confident man as well. That's why I'm stunned by the concept; it's clearly bubba's fantasy and not his wife's. She is satisfied by him alone but it is his fantasy to see her satisfied by someone else. Just can't wrap my brain around it. When I see the wife sharing videos, I fantasize about being the stud who satisfies the other guy's wife. Go figure.

[Valleyball]

I enjoy MFM play very much. I enjoy being the center of sexual attention. I've been marked for 21 yrs. we are very happy together and these things keep our sexual relationship very fun and fresh, which isn't common after 20+ yrs of marriage, two kids, yada, yada, yada. I say talk about it openly and do what works best for your own marriage.

[effy2014]

Oh p.s. - I'm pretty sure BF is not that way (99%). I read people well and we have no secrets. I guess there's always a narrow possibility tho. Maybe I'll ask him outright or just threaten to beat the truth out of him.

I think BF has to be one of the most confident alpha males on the planet. I doubt a weak man would hold Jen's attention for very long. I wouldn't mistake his willingness to please Jen in any way she wants as a weakness -- he just feels incredibly fortunate to have her. We should all feel the same way about our partners. I do mine.

[jen1447]

You sure? You kind of sound like you are.

[bubba29]

Oh you better believe it ....no stone left unturned in my world.

Something, interesting connection to voyeurism type kink, hadn't thought of that. There may also be a connection with the 'making/forcing' thing - the power is out of the submissive guy's hands and he has no choice but to do what she wants or watch her doing what she wants. But why would the guy vicariously enjoy her sexuality (when he could have it all to himself I assume), and why is the superiority of the 'bull' so important? Those things still seem kinda unanswered.

Oh and I hate the sound of "cuckold" too. I think if it had a cooler name I'd talk about it a lot more. (I've heard "hot wife" used for the women ....that sound silly too but it's not as bad as cuckold.)

Oh p.s. - I'm pretty sure BF is not that way (99%). I read people well and we have no secrets. I guess there's always a narrow possibility tho. Maybe I'll ask him outright or just threaten to beat the truth out of him.

although i am into the idea of watching my wife with another man, i am not into many of the ideas that go with cuckolding. i am not into being humiliated or dominated. i also am not into sucking the bull's cum out of my wife's VJay.

[jen1447]

Oh you better believe it ....no stone left unturned in my world.

Something, interesting connection to voyeurism type kink, hadn't thought of that. There may also be a connection with the 'making/forcing' thing - the power is out of the submissive guy's hands and he has no choice but to do what she wants or watch her doing what she wants. But why would the guy vicariously enjoy her sexuality (when he could have it all to himself I assume), and why is the superiority of the 'bull' so important? Those things still seem kinda unanswered.

Oh and I hate the sound of "cuckold" too. I think if it had a cooler name I'd talk about it a lot more. (I've heard "hot wife" used for the women ....that sound silly too but it's not as bad as cuckold.)

Oh p.s. - I'm pretty sure BF is not that way (99%). I read people well and we have no secrets. I guess there's always a narrow possibility tho. Maybe I'll ask him outright or just threaten to beat the truth out of him.