[jen1447]

I have to admit that's a new one on me. You're such a tease.

The visibility approach is awesome by the way ....put them between him and the tv and your feet can even defeat football.

[shoshannah]

I will sometimes tease him, and am always conscious of what exactly turn him on (type of shoe, toe ring, anklet, nail polish, etc.), but since he's self-conscious about it I make sure that my teasing never goes so far as to seem to be making fun of him. I have found fetish shoes on the web, like with 8 inch heels that nobody could ever actually walk in, but he doesn't like those, while a plain, inexpensive pair of thong sandals can really turn him on.

Probably the wierdest thing (to me, anyway), is that when I play piano or organ (I'm a musician/keyboardist) he goes absolutely wild watching me work the pedals (particularly on organ, since I have to use my feet a great deal to play). I have an organ in our apartment, and my playing it has led to sex on more than one occasion. Now will someone explain THAT to me??

[jen1447]

Holy crap, that is weird!

[shoshannah]

There is apparently a whole subculture about women pumping gas pedals--fiance isn't really into that but he has come across it before. You can find a ton of them on youtube. Crazy.

[frustratedchick]

My boyfriend has a very big foot fetish and it normally doesn't bother me but sometimes I feel like he's more attracted to my feet than anything else. It's not even just my feet though. I see him looking at feet when we're out and he's actually tried to talk to me about other people's feet while he's smelling mine. That's not cool with me because I'm more of a jealous type and I don't like that he's thinking about other feet. He's learned not to talk to me about other people's feet now. I can control him with my feet which is awesome and I love it. He says no one has feet like mine I don't get the fascination with feet but I go with it since it's so important to him. It's not even just feet. He loves to smell my shoes and he keeps a pair of my heels at his place to smell when I'm not there. My feet are involved in sex a lot, by me having my feet in his face during sex or talking about or even him just touching himself while he's smelling my feet. Sometimes I feel like it's a bit too much but like I said it's huge to him and I want to keep him happy.

[rcoreyus]

satisfying his fetish is nice of you, but he should also engage in the sort of intimacy that you like.

[jen1447]

Sounds like he's pretty serious about feet lol.

IMO feet can be objectively attractive and sexual (but they have to actually be nice-looking), but the most important thing about them should always be that they're your feet. Most boyfriends I've had have been very clear about that - they're not really interested in any feet but mine, but they're very interested in mine, which is I think as it should be. When you go beyond that to stuff like 'spying' on feet (and even some of the associated inanimate object fetish behavior like smelling shoes and so on), it gets ...slightly creepy IMO. I mean, I wouldn't mind if you wanted to have some intimate moments with my footwear when I was away, but it should be because it reminds you of me and that you miss me, not that you actually find a disembodied shoe sexually stimulating. Smell is a different story because it's mine so I can see how you'd be turned on by it. Still, it should be a sad man's substitute for when the real toes aren't available.

frustratedchick, it sounds like you've got him pretty well in line. Good job.

[frustratedchick]

How does it start from childhood? I've wondered how a fettish like this starts

[shoshannah]

Biologists say that it is probably that the brain is wired in a strange way since a part of the brain that deals with feet is near the part of the brain that deals with the sex organs, or something like that. Psychologists say that maybe very young kids can have experience that make them think of feet in sexual ways (if you think of it, since young kids crawl around on the floor some they are exposed to feet early). My man says he can't remember a time when he didn't have a foot fetish, so in his case at least it was obviously there either from the very beginning or at least very early on.

[PrimeRandall123]

I really love feet so I'll try and explain it the best I can.

In general, feet aren't really looked at something sexual so the fact a woman takes care of her feet tells a lot about her, that she's generally likely to take care of her appearance as well. Also, feminine feet just tend to look very nice. I love painted nails and that makes a huge difference to my attraction for feet. It also feels nice to kiss them, lick them, and play with them in general. I love giving foot massages to.