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  • tjm0824
    Member
    • Jun 2014
    • 21

    Originally posted by jen1447
    Let me clarify first - I don't really consider the love of feet a fetish, assuming they're attached to someone. Love of footwear might be, or disembodied stockings, or things like that, but just loving your lady's feet is perfectly okay in my book. Still, I don't entirely understand the sexual extension, being as feet are not innately sexual.

    I keep my feet looking nice (french nails yay!), and they are very aesthetically pleasing I suppose, inasmuch as feet can be. But my boyfriend (and several other past partners) goes wild for them. I can basically always get him to go all wobbly by flashing them at him (or texting them to him ), or if I really want to push his buttons, plopping them in his lap when we're on the couch or putting them in his face when we're getting down to business. He pampers them for me - massages, kisses, basically lots and lots of foot love - and I enjoy it. But what is the direct connection to sexuality? What makes him lose it when he comes into contact with them? Is it just that they're mine, or is there something more caveman-ish about feet that I'm not aware of?

    I like pretty feet in women (not men though, ew) and give them plenty of attention myself, but it's always moreso in the sense of experiencing the whole person that I'm with. I don't automatically say "Oh my god!" when I see a cute pair and start lubing lol.

    Can anyone shed some light on this? I've asked my boyfriend (even though I'd rather not wreck the mystique - it's cool to have a secret weapon to use when I need him to obey me quickly lol), but all he can do is look at me with a goofy smile and mumble unintelligibly. (Seriously, he just says "I don't know.") Help!
    Actually, there is a biological explanation for it. It's been awhile since I took Psychology so I'll do my best to explain. The part of the brain responsible for the sense of touch is broken down by body part or region. It's called the somatosensory area. And the part that is associated with the feet is located right next to the part associated with the genitals. So there is a bit of overlap or connection, and as a result, some people are sexually aroused by feet.

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    • Natalie1962
      Member
      • Jul 2014
      • 71

      My husband has a series love of the female foot and has always loved me either in sandals or going barefoot (which I do a lot). As Jen1447 can described her boyfriend's reaction to her feet, that pretty much is the reaction of my husband. As I pretty much wear flip flops all the time, I find as I do my daily routine around town that men's eyes always seem to dart to my feet for a quick look which leads me to suspect that most men have a love of feet. Since my husband and I are in a sexual lifestyle that involve other intimate partners, he's had a chance to look at many feet connected to nude bodies. I asked him what would turn him on more, seeing the naked woman or just her feet. He smiled and said that he actually gets more turned on by the foot than the full naked body. He said that if two women walked in and one was naked and the other was fully clothed but wearing flip flops, his eyes would dart to the flip flop woman first. Go figure. I also have put my feet into my avatar in his honor.

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      • Motorguy
        Veteran Member
        • Mar 2014
        • 3921

        Originally posted by Natalie1962
        My husband has a series love of the female foot and has always loved me either in sandals or going barefoot (which I do a lot). As Jen1447 can described her boyfriend's reaction to her feet, that pretty much is the reaction of my husband. As I pretty much wear flip flops all the time, I find as I do my daily routine around town that men's eyes always seem to dart to my feet for a quick look which leads me to suspect that most men have a love of feet. Since my husband and I are in a sexual lifestyle that involve other intimate partners, he's had a chance to look at many feet connected to nude bodies. I asked him what would turn him on more, seeing the naked woman or just her feet. He smiled and said that he actually gets more turned on by the foot than the full naked body. He said that if two women walked in and one was naked and the other was fully clothed but wearing flip flops, his eyes would dart to the flip flop woman first. Go figure. I also have put my feet into my avatar in his honor.
        Well Natalie, I am really not into women feet never have but you do have cute well pamper feet by the way lol. I am mostly into women breast and butts, I know probably you would say vane. But other then those women body parts it would be eyes next for me you can tell a lot about someone by there eyes.
        When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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        • M694V80
          Junior Member
          • Sep 2013
          • 6

          Hello,
          This question called my attention because I really never understood foot fetish.
          Never new it was that common until i started checking out cam girl in sites like chaturbate or cam4.
          40% of requests are FEET. Something that calls my attention is that not many woman love men feet.
          I have met only one and she was a illustrator she had several sketches of man feet lying around her studio.
          I asker her: Foot fetish? She replied: yes, a serious one.
          Asked her about her friends if they where into it. She said that all of them where turned off by men feet.

          Any way from my male perspective I dont like feet at all. I can tell if they are well taken care of, thats the only thing i care.
          I have tried to like them lol but i just cant. For me there the worst looking part of the human body.
          I have to recognise that asian woman have better looking feet.

          Might be something in your childhood as someone said.

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          • Magnetism
            Veteran Member
            • Jan 2009
            • 1060

            I will admit..I like feet. It's kind of dirty licking them (in a good way).
            "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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            • Rob1
              Member
              • Jul 2014
              • 15

              I have a foot fetish but not in the truest meaning. Rubbing and massaging a girls feet after a hard day will have her purring like a kitten in about thirty minutes.

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              • Motorguy
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Well there's is a art of massage for your feet if you push on certain part's of your feet. You can effect areas of your back because all your nerve ending are there in the bottom of your feet. My wife really enjoy's when i used oils on her feet and rub then this will put her in a very relaxing state. Like almost in state as she would do anything for me lol.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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                • Natalie1962
                  Member
                  • Jul 2014
                  • 71

                  I usually wear flip-flops everywhere I go and I've gotten used to seeing men's eyes darting to my feet when I walk into a room or am at the supermarket. It's quite fun really knowing my feet are the cause of that. Even at work I wear sandals most of the time (not flip-flops but business type footwear) and I get the same reaction from the men. The most stares are when I take off my business foot wear and slip on my flip-flops when I go out to lunch.

                  Natalie

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