Okay that's cool. But how did you go from being this sort of uncertain naif in December to a controlling dominatrix 
by January? That change is pretty dramatic.
by January? That change is pretty dramatic.
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I wouldn't say I'm totally controlling, but I can see why the change is so dramatic and I agree. I think it's because he said wanted me to do this to him.Comment
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Did you have to overcome any emotional issues or other uncertainties along the way, aside from your concerns about hurting him and the worry over "torture?" I assume it gradually became easier emotionally to tie him up, etc., and that somewhere along the line you started to enjoy it or realized you enjoyed it all along.
Sorry if it sounds like I'm cross-examining you lol, I just find it interesting. Also your experience could be useful to other members here who are considering expanding their sex play.
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Once he said he was okay then my fears went away. If he was happy with it, then I was happy with it.Comment
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