[sourpuss]

I completely agree. Whatever her reasons, excuses, or motives were, they are not at all justified. She took an extreme measure, that I think is unforgivable. I can't tell you I understand what it would be like to let go of a thirteen year marriage, but I think that is what you should do. If it happened once, it'll happen again, and who's to say this isn't the first time? Think about what she's doing the next time you're away, if you can forget about it, then stay. I, for one, cannot regain trust in someone after they've lost it. And she definitely lost it (and respect too).

Not to mention that she never took responsibility for her actions, instead she blames it on his penis size. shameful.

[carmen63]

In response to the original post. It probably has everything to do with your lack of size. The 8" was probably good at first, but once her vagina became used to it, you no longer 'stretched the boundaries', as it were. The pleasure for a woman is in the stretching, it is in the re-sizing, the renovations, if you will, of her inner room. I wouldn't concern yourself with it though. Move on and console yourself with the fact that the 9 1/2 incher will only last as long as it takes for her vagina to adjust to it. Go out and sample other women, there are probably some out there for whom your 8 inches is still big enough.

[manxie]

i have to say i've never been with a guy that had a penis more than 7 inches in length. The ones i've been with have varied from 4 1/2 to 7 and i would have to say anything over 5 is fine for me! And as for a women leaving a man because he only has an 8 inch ****, well you should be grateful that she's left you as she sounds extremely shallow minded! relationships should be about more than the size of a man's penis, even in the bedroom!

[metboogie]

In response to the original post. It probably has everything to do with your lack of size. The 8" was probably good at first, but once her vagina became used to it, you no longer 'stretched the boundaries', as it were. The pleasure for a woman is in the stretching, it is in the re-sizing, the renovations, if you will, of her inner room. I wouldn't concern yourself with it though. Move on and console yourself with the fact that the 9 1/2 incher will only last as long as it takes for her vagina to adjust to it. Go out and sample other women, there are probably some out there for whom your 8 inches is still big enough.

So because his 8" **** wasn't enough for her anymore, and she couldn't tell him, it's OK to cheat and ruin a marriage? That's a horrendous justification...

[heatherh]

Well it is funny now because she is trying to fix things but I am not feeling very forgiving about things. I asked her what happened to her "big man" she had to have and was so good and all she said is people move on. She did confirm that she had no problems with our marriage other than I was gone a lot and when she experienced this man for the first time she had never felt so full and satisfied and it was not preplanned it just happened. My question now is will it stop, I mean if she found this to me so wonderful why settle for what she had or am I wrong?

[heatherh]

In response to the original post. It probably has everything to do with your lack of size. The 8" was probably good at first, but once her vagina became used to it, you no longer 'stretched the boundaries', as it were. The pleasure for a woman is in the stretching, it is in the re-sizing, the renovations, if you will, of her inner room. I wouldn't concern yourself with it though. Move on and console yourself with the fact that the 9 1/2 incher will only last as long as it takes for her vagina to adjust to it. Go out and sample other women, there are probably some out there for whom your 8 inches is still big enough.

In other words you feel that she will keep wanting bigger until she can not find one that satisfies her anymore?

[Fallen1]

In response to the original post. It probably has everything to do with your lack of size. The 8" was probably good at first, but once her vagina became used to it, you no longer 'stretched the boundaries', as it were. The pleasure for a woman is in the stretching, it is in the re-sizing, the renovations, if you will, of her inner room. I wouldn't concern yourself with it though. Move on and console yourself with the fact that the 9 1/2 incher will only last as long as it takes for her vagina to adjust to it. Go out and sample other women, there are probably some out there for whom your 8 inches is still big enough.

In other words you feel that she will keep wanting bigger until she can not find one that satisfies her anymore?

Heatherh, I'm somewhat skeptical of this idea also. If things were this way then look out one day we may see a line of women at the Washington Monument wanting to use it to satisfy themselves.

P.S. - Didn't mean to offend anyone by using the Washington Monument, so forgive me if I have. I don't want to seem non-patriotic, it just seemed to fit for an example.

[carmen63]

Well it is funny now because she is trying to fix things but I am not feeling very forgiving about things. I asked her what happened to her "big man" she had to have and was so good and all she said is people move on. She did confirm that she had no problems with our marriage other than I was gone a lot and when she experienced this man for the first time she had never felt so full and satisfied and it was not preplanned it just happened. My question now is will it stop, I mean if she found this to me so wonderful why settle for what she had or am I wrong?

If I were you, I'd not take her back. Her 'Big Man' has probably moved on to other things and now she doesn't know what to do. She probably needs emotional support from you until she can get a man with an even bigger ****. He had what, 9 1/2 inches? She'll stay with you until a 10 or 11 incher comes along and then she'll move on. I know this sounds very harsh. But who ever said that the truth would be pretty? My current boyfriend has 22 inches and I am fully stretched out to that length. A penis under 22 inches simply won't satisfy me, and I can't even imagine having sex with a man under 22 inches and be able to keep from laughing. In fact the 22 inches I'm getting now has just about worn out its welcome. I too will have to find a bigger man (I have a girlfriend who is going out with a 25 incher so....hehehe). Like I said in an earlier post. You've got 8 inches and there are probably some women out there for whom this is still good enough. Just keep plugging away (hehe) and when they move on to bigger things, well, you just move on to smaller things.

[metboogie]

I can say I agree with Carmen on this one - DO NOT TAKE HER BACK! Any woman will tell you, once a cheat, always a cheat....especially if you will keep travelling for work.

[mr.mansview]

If I were you, I'd not take her back. Her 'Big Man' has probably moved on to other things and now she doesn't know what to do. She probably needs emotional support from you until she can get a man with an even bigger ****. He had what, 9 1/2 inches? She'll stay with you until a 10 or 11 incher comes along and then she'll move on. I know this sounds very harsh. But who ever said that the truth would be pretty? My current boyfriend has 22 inches and I am fully stretched out to that length. A penis under 22 inches simply won't satisfy me, and I can't even imagine having sex with a man under 22 inches and be able to keep from laughing. In fact the 22 inches I'm getting now has just about worn out its welcome. I too will have to find a bigger man (I have a girlfriend who is going out with a 25 incher so....hehehe). Like I said in an earlier post. You've got 8 inches and there are probably some women out there for whom this is still good enough. Just keep plugging away (hehe) and when they move on to bigger things, well, you just move on to smaller things.

i wonder do men reject you because your breasts are a mere 42 FFF (just a guess on my part, certainly you must have some gargantuan body part to offer us men who are not content with a mere 38 DDD )..the sizes you mention seems to expand with every post..sooner or later you will need to progress from penises to nucular warheads..