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I'm often glad I'm not involved in dating any more (or in the last several decades), I'd do it all wrong. If I met someone I liked, I'd call them right away to see if we could plan to meet again. If I slept with someone, I'd at least send flowers the next day, along with a request to meet again. (OK if it was terrible I'd just send flowers and explain how tragic it was that I had joined the French Foreign Legion and couldn't see them again). -
You'd probably score a simple woman that doesn't play games and wants a gentleman that reciprocates.I'm often glad I'm not involved in dating any more (or in the last several decades), I'd do it all wrong. If I met someone I liked, I'd call them right away to see if we could plan to meet again. If I slept with someone, I'd at least send flowers the next day, along with a request to meet again. (OK if it was terrible I'd just send flowers and explain how tragic it was that I had joined the French Foreign Legion and couldn't see them again)."Those sowing seed with tears
Will reap with a joyful shout." - Psalm 126Comment
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This reminds me of a moment when I was 17, my best friend was dating an older guy who during a small argument told her "you're acting so high-schoolish" to which she immediately responded, "Well I AM in high school" I was right there and whooped, which I think most likely made it worse for him. Oh and btw, that guy later became my BIL, I occasionally remind him of it when he's being a jerk, LOLComment
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Aliright a little update...she's over at my place right now (good excuse for cleaning up a little, lol).
Since I was intending on seeing her again, I've really cut back on my porn usage. Only watched twice all week and when I wacked off, I thought about her. But I rarely ever wack off to porn chicks anyways. I just use porn to get aroused and then masturbate to 'everyday' women that I know.
Anyways, while I waited for her to show up I decided to watch a couple videos of Dillan Lauren cuz they have similar bodies. She showed up midway through the second video and needless to say I was already fully erect when I opened the door (she didn't notice though).
I still couldn't believe how amazing she looked. I thought she looked pretty good last week at the party, but jeez, tonight was even better. So we hung out for a bit and we're sposed to go out with some friends tonight. I guess that makes it an official date of sorts??? I dunno. Anyways, we started messing around and she just gave me my first blow job. I can't believe I've missed out on this stuff for 31 years! I mean I've heard my friends say they love head...a lot of em like it more than sex itself. It felt so different from jerking off or even being inside her vagina. I still didn't come from it although it felt great but I did cum once she used her hands vigorously for a few minutes.
I asked if I could return the favor - cunnilingus being another first for me. And she happily agreed. I must say I loved it. The combination of that scent and the slightly sour taste is incredible! I can still taste it on my mustache, lmao. She liked it too and said I did it way better than her ex-fiancee/BF who didn't do it enough. Her vulva was so soft, and the combination of my saliva and her fluids made it even more awesome.
Anyways she's getting changed now, and I better too so we're not too late.
And I just realized this might be a bit too NC-17 rated for the forum. Apologies, but I've never really experienced stuff like this before and thought it might be nice to share with a forum I've learned a lot from over the years.
Good night, all!Comment
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There is a bit of inconsistency in your posts. Maybe you can clear it up. On your first encounter you said you went down on her, but on your current encounter, you said that cunnilingus was a first for you. I'm pretty sure it's about how you defined your first "went down on her."I asked if I could return the favor - cunnilingus being another first for me. And she happily agreed. I must say I loved it. The combination of that scent and the slightly sour taste is incredible! I can still taste it on my mustache, lmao. She liked it too and said I did it way better than her ex-fiancee/BF who didn't do it enough. Her vulva was so soft, and the combination of my saliva and her fluids made it even more awesome.
In the past it has been hard to get you to understand the motivating factors for a guy to be dating or in a relationship versus masturbating to porn. Now you are starting to understand. The scent and taste of a woman can be intoxicating when giving her oral. If you two proceed to a relationship, you will find many good points about her and surely a few that are frustrating. Remember, it all comes with her as a package, so you have to live with all of it.
If I was you, I would limit my intake of alcohol, if that is on the agenda tonight. A little can take whatever edge there is off, a little more dulls the senses and makes you sloppy. Best wishes.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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My bad, by going down I meant using fingers. As opposed to "cunilingus" which I use specifically to mean oral. I always grew up thinking "going down" meant using hands or mouth...at least on a girl. It was always oral if I ever asked a girl to go down on me, lol.There is a bit of inconsistency in your posts. Maybe you can clear it up. On your first encounter you said you went down on her, but on your current encounter, you said that cunnilingus was a first for you. I'm pretty sure it's about how you defined your first "went down on her."
In the past it has been hard to get you to understand the motivating factors for a guy to be dating or in a relationship versus masturbating to porn. Now you are starting to understand. The scent and taste of a woman can be intoxicating when giving her oral. If you two proceed to a relationship, you will find many good points about her and surely a few that are frustrating. Remember, it all comes with her as a package, so you have to live with all of it.
If I was you, I would limit my intake of alcohol, if that is on the agenda tonight. A little can take whatever edge there is off, a little more dulls the senses and makes you sloppy. Best wishes.
So we came back home last night around midnight and we just went at. A lot of foreplay, cuz I really liked this whole oral thing, haha. Ended up having sex 4 times. I really impressed both myself and her in how long I lasted each time. By the time we finished it just past 4 am and I was exhausted. She told me she couldn't remember if she had ever orgasmed that many times. After that we fell asleep. I just woke up now and she's still asleep. I wonder if she had enough last night or if she's going to ambush me when she wakes up, lol. I'm totally DTF after my 6 year hiatus. I guess this is what it feels like to be released from prison after a long bid.Comment
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It's so much fun when you are hitting on all cylinders with a girl you really dig and she finds you equally as exciting. Make sure neither of you gets a raw sore started from all of the action.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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