[Little]

Only 10. So, 5 one night stands (or weekend-long ****fests) and 5 longer-term dalliances and relationships.

It happens to even the most promiscuous of us when we start at nearly 19 and settle down at 21 - spending most of the intervening years in a mostly-monogamous relationship!

[jen1447]

Yeah, that's no big deal. (lol I don't mean that to sound insulting or judgmental, like you haven't achieved much sexually. It always seems like the starting point for people to evaluate sexual experience is to insist that lower numbers are absolutely better ....for women anyway. Never got that lol.)

Five ONS in 2 years = 2.5 a year (yeah I know, I'm a whiz at math ) - not exactly crazy no matter how you slice it! If you hadn't settled down so early I assume you'd be at (OMG!) like 25 by now.

[Little]

I am, like, so old. Now wait here for Australia to wake up so CW can come slap me.

It was actually a LOT of casual sexual activity in a matter of months, showing no signs of stopping. Why stop? I didn't care much about my number, just got out of a relationship where sex was doled out only when I begged (on a good day - he was deployed when we broke up,) and was clearly much too young to be anything other than invincible to STDs :P Had I not met Mr. Perfect, I don't know how I wouldn't have hit triple-digits by now. While I don't lack the kind of cultural upbringing that degrades those who engage in a lot of sex, I do a good job of dismissing it

[jen1447]

LMAO - bravo!

[Motorguy]

The problem with night stands, or one offs, is many times the guy doesn't see it that way,, some guys keep coming around figuring if you did it once you'll do it again,,, most of the time with me it's just infatuation or just plain old lust, so it's just a ONE time thing..

Can we say Horny too Patti.

[Motorguy]

I am, like, so old. Now wait here for Australia to wake up so CW can come slap me.

It was actually a LOT of casual sexual activity in a matter of months, showing no signs of stopping. Why stop? I didn't care much about my number, just got out of a relationship where sex was doled out only when I begged (on a good day - he was deployed when we broke up,) and was clearly much too young to be anything other than invincible to STDs :P Had I not met Mr. Perfect, I don't know how I wouldn't have hit triple-digits by now. While I don't lack the kind of cultural upbringing that degrades those who engage in a lot of sex, I do a good job of dismissing it

Oh please I am to old let me pick my self up from the floor after laughing to hard from falling out of chair.

[Motorguy]

I am, like, so old. Now wait here for Australia to wake up so CW can come slap me.

It was actually a LOT of casual sexual activity in a matter of months, showing no signs of stopping. Why stop? I didn't care much about my number, just got out of a relationship where sex was doled out only when I begged (on a good day - he was deployed when we broke up,) and was clearly much too young to be anything other than invincible to STDs :P Had I not met Mr. Perfect, I don't know how I wouldn't have hit triple-digits by now. While I don't lack the kind of cultural upbringing that degrades those who engage in a lot of sex, I do a good job of dismissing it

This reminds me of that movie What is My Number funny then hell. About this women who's had 19 sex partners and thinks if she had 20 she be label a sl**t then lol.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

* Little

I still remember, sending my "sis" her 21st Birthday Present, not that loooooooooooong ago!!

[Motorguy]

You don't say if you regretted those encounters or not. Happy memories or rather forget 'em?

They was all good memories I was really happy to get laid. My being my first sexually experiences was 13 in 8th grade using the condom I got in my sex ed class with a girl in my class in the bathroom to try out this new found fun. As we both love it but then we never did it again after that one time. She really enjoy putting the condom on a real penis instead of a banana I remember that like yesterday and it was 36 years ago.

[Justice]

I am thinking it was the early 80s and I used to joke that if I wasn't in love by ? yrs old that I would consider just doing it with whoever I was attracted to (though my Catholic faith and fear of pregnancy would probably make that unlikely). Then you started hearing about AIDS. I though wow how many people got sick or died because they though WTH why pass on the pleasure?


ETA - ok Kill Joy. . .