[Spunkygal]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

[PinkySweet]

Maybe he just likes the idea of giving?

I love to give my husband oral, but he doesn't orgasm from it(Takes forever through oral) but he still enjoys it. I like giving oral even though its not "getting me off" it really turns me on to pleasure my husband...

You said you like it when he fingers you, have him finger you while he does oral you might like that.

[kate61]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

I enjoy oral. I sulk if I don't get it. Am sorry you don't.

[Motorguy]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

Well it's a combo of many things first my wife loves oral done on herself and she can go off like a fire cracker. Plus it's has a very good taste if the hygiene is good. Then it's foreplay to get her ready for intercourse get her wet enough so she has pleasure and no pain when achieving that with being to dry and not lubricating enough. Men can ask the same thing why do women like doing oral on her man the same thing they are not getting pleasure from giving oral to there man it's just the reverse order getting him ready for sex as well.

[jen1447]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

You can't get much more center-of-the-universe than a woman's vagina. Who wouldn't want to spend as much time there as possible?

If I were you I'd make sure he understands that you don't orgasm from oral so that he's not mistaken about what he's actually up to down there, but for god's sake don't take it away from him.

[Baboy]

What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

As a guy, I am at a loss to explain it. Perhaps someone else can. My wife and gfs before her enjoyed receiving oral and I was/am happy to give it for that reason. But they experienced orgasm from it and that's what made it a happy experience for both partners. If my girl seemed to be deriving no pleasure from the experience and told me it was not her thing, I am quite sure I would refrain.

Had had a gf once who had almost no feeling in her nipples. Quite the opposite from my wife who can orgasm or come close to it just from having them kissed. The girl with no sensation in that area would ask me why I bothered kissing her nipples. Once I really understood there was nothing in it for her, I stopped.

Have you told your husband that oral gives you no pleasure and you would just as soon he abandon the practice? In short, instead of asking men here, perhaps you should ask your husband why he always seems to want to give you oral. A little communication might be in order.

[Motorguy]

I enjoy oral. I sulk if I don't get it. Am sorry you don't.

My wife would go nuts if I wasn't giving her oral. I am pretty sure she be climbing the walls or on to the bed post if I didn't lol. If she is enjoying it I am enjoying it as well.

[Something_Awesome]

I wouldn't be in a relationship with a girl that did not enjoy receiving oral. That is not to say that something is wrong with you. I can sort of relate because, as a guy, I hate receiving oral. I am just trying to express how important giving oral is for me. Luckily, my GF goes bonkers for oral. I wonder if maybe your guy isn't doing it right? Maybe he is over stimulating too early? Maybe you are self conscious about it and is why you can't climax from it?

I think Jen's "center of the universe" metaphor was a good way to put it. To be honest, there isn't much time in the day where I do not think of giving oral to my significant other. To say I love it would be an understatement. I love the way it looks, feels, tastes, and smells. My fave time to do it is during her period as well.

[Patti-here]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

Oh geez that’s a same you can’t orgasm through oral sex, I really can’t do without it, it’s a very intimate act, and I orgasm for more easily that way than I do through intercourse, I can’t give you the male perspective on it though, I would imagine it’s our fragrance and taste that attracts them and the knowledge that they’re giving us such extreme pleasure that way.

[Motorguy]

Oh geez that’s a same you can’t orgasm through oral sex, I really can’t do without it, it’s a very intimate act, and I orgasm for more easily that way than I do through intercourse, I can’t give you the male perspective on it though, I would imagine it’s our fragrance and taste that attracts them and the knowledge that they’re giving us such extreme pleasure that way.

Well for me it's the taste and her fragrance of my wife that drives me crazy. As that's how she achieves her biggest orgasm from oral pleasure that makes her squirts like a geyser as i know she really enjoying the pleasure.