[PinkySweet]

I agree with Jen.

My husband is proud to eat the V lol... I think its cute when we skype and he holds his hand up making the V and flicks his tongue, then says "When I get home"... Ive over heard him and some guys talking sex at a bbq once(Yeah I know heck of a place to talk about it) and it seems most of them like doing oral on there partners...

[rcoreyus]

I must be in a weird social group, we never talk about sex - the only exception was a friend who was having issues with his bisexuality.

To me, most of the the fun of sex is pleasing your partner.

[Baboy]

rcoreyus, my social group is equally weird.

[Motorguy]

I agree with Jen.

My husband is proud to eat the V lol... I think its cute when we skype and he holds his hand up making the V and flicks his tongue, then says "When I get home"... Ive over heard him and some guys talking sex at a bbq once(Yeah I know heck of a place to talk about it) and it seems most of them like doing oral on there partners...

Well my feeling on this topic is that most guys love doing oral on there girl friends or wife's. We call it eating at the Y I now a little crude but a bunch of guys around we get that way. And believe me I heard some nasty chatter between a bunch of women chit chatting you not far behind us men in that department lol.

[jen1447]

Hope springs eternal.

Even beyond that, you could say that the vagina represents the concept of 'life' in its purest form. Not only is it the portal that all life starts from, you never feel more genuinely alive than when you're very near one.

[Motorguy]

Even beyond that, you could say that the vagina represents the concept of 'life' in its purest form. Not only is it the portal that all life starts from, you never feel more genuinely alive than when you're very near one.

What very true words spoken there wow.

[Something_Awesome]

rcoreyus, my social group is equally weird.

Well, the guys don't talk about sex with their wives (not that they have sex with them anyway). Even if they did have sex with their wives, they wouldn't talk about it. They talk about the experiences they have with women on the side or with prior women. It's more about boasting.

But I'm with you. A lot of my friends used to ask me about an ex, like if we did it and if so, how was it. I never answered those questions. Now I don't mind talking about my sex life with other people as long as I am not going to be judged by/for it and if there is something to gain. Like maybe someone wants advice. But to be honest, I am not comfortable talking about it with people in my social circle. I'd be more comfortable with people outside my social circle.

[Something_Awesome]

Oh and another thing... It gets so bad with some cousins/friends etc that I don't even show as much affection to my GF as I want to around them. In public or anywhere else, I show tons of affection to her. I let it all gush out. But within my social circle I have to be more reserved.

My GF is sweet though, and she gets it because a lot of Brazilian guys are the same way. Just too macho.

[PhrendlyPhil]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

A man's perspective: It's because your vulva is so beautiful to us! We like to see it, kiss it, smell it, lick it, and, if you happen to get pleasure from all our admiration so much the better. Your husband likes to sense your vulva with all his senses because it turns him on. Do you not enjoy seeing him aroused by you?

[effy2014]

Whatever happened to Spunky Gal who started this all? Did we answer her question?