[Patti-here]

Well if there are guys like that, shame on them, they sure as heck expect it from us.

[Motorguy]

Well if there are guys like that, shame on them, they sure as heck expect it from us.

Well there is many guys who really couldn't give a rats butt, of the female partners ever having pleasure it's all about them. I see that being so wrong what is the point.

[kira]

It may be a small clitoris and a large amount of skin covering it that makes me not reach orgasm from fingers or oral. At least oral doesn't lead to discomfort from friction if done for a long time. I've heard of women rubbing testosterone cream in to their genitals to help increase the size of their clit and I looked in to it. I already likely have hormone issues though and many of the side effects were what I get when off hormonal birth control. It was also hard to find legal, nonprescription sources since a doctor is not likely to give that to you. Decided it was not worth pursuing.

[Patti-here]

It may be a small clitoris and a large amount of skin covering it that makes me not reach orgasm from fingers or oral. At least oral doesn't lead to discomfort from friction if done for a long time. I've heard of women rubbing testosterone cream in to their genitals to help increase the size of their clit and I looked in to it. I already likely have hormone issues though and many of the side effects were what I get when off hormonal birth control. It was also hard to find legal, nonprescription sources since a doctor is not likely to give that to you. Decided it was not worth pursuing.

Actually the clitoris keeps growing with age.

[Motorguy]

Actually the clitoris keeps growing with age.

They say that older you get your ears and nose grow bigger as well.

[jns]

I have never been able to orgasm from oral sex, so I really don't care for it. I love it when my husband uses fingers and we have intercourse, and I can have strong orgasms with both. So why does he always seem to want to give me oral? What do men get out of doing that, especially when they know they're not going to get their women an orgasm with it? Seems a waste of time and effort to me. Can someone explain this to me? I just don't get it.

Hope springs eternal. There is something about having a woman's legs around your head. Also, a woman's scent and taste drives a lover wild.

[Something_Awesome]

Why would they look down on it, and is this something they actually discuss? I've never discussed details of my sex life with anyone, except anonymously here.

Yes they do. It's typical guy talk. I mean, my brother is married and he told me a time when he was overseas in Thailand and had a threesome. A lot of guys (at least from my generation) will talk about their sex lives, but only to brag about it. Like how many women they've been with etc and what they did or what was done to them. And yes, they do explicitly state that a man that goes down is a ****************************************, among many other things. If I ever talk about my sex life, it is only outside my social circle. To be honest though, I don't really hang out with them much any more. I just hang out with my GF. I am probably the only one from the guys I grew up with to hang out with the significant other regularly. Some of them are married and will never go out with their wives and probably never have sex with them. Actually, you can see the wives are frustrated with their married lives. They are pretty much being used to raise the kids while the guys fool around with other chicks.

I am cut from a different cloth and have really grown a part from them over the years. But when there are gatherings, or weddings etc, I will see them.

EDIT: I am actually up late doing my GF's homework right now (something those knuckleheads couldn't do). Just needed a 5 minute break (I'm sooooo tired). Don't know how I am going to wake up at 5:30 am to go to the gym

[effy2014]

Well if there are guys like that, shame on them, they sure as heck expect it from us.

The last place a man should ever be selfish is in bed. A giving lover will be amazed at the passion he unlocks.

[kdc]

Actually the clitoris keeps growing with age.

Mine hasn't (and I'm almost 60).

[jen1447]

It's typical guy talk.

That must be a regional thing. In my neck of the woods, guys consider it a point of pride to be 'experts' at cunnilingus. Not many of them are, but they all act like they are and proudly declare that they eat V constantly. (I mean this within reason - they don't walk around shouting "I eat P!!!" but if there's some kind of discussion about it, they're quick to pipe up and declare they do, proudly.) The subset of guys who don't are really frowned upon and thought of as sort of ....uncivilized I guess.