[effy2014]

Pegging for me. If she said she only wanted to do it one time, or it was a bucket-list type thing, I'd give in. If she wanted pegging to be a normal part of our diet, I'd say it would be a deal breaker.

More absolutes before you've tried it once? I seem to have read that analingus was a bright line that you crossed. Try anything she wants at least once, then make your judgment.

[Something_Awesome]

More absolutes before you've tried it once? I seem to have read that analingus was a bright line that you crossed. Try anything she wants at least once, then make your judgment.

Lmao... Look... I know I have no credibility right now when I say "never." However, in thise case, being pegged will make me feel like less than half of a man. I psychologically can't do it. It is a behavior that is not for me. If she was dying to do it once, I guess I would do it.

The analogy would be smoking. Smoking once does not make you a smoker. Somking regularly does.

I do not mean to offend anyone or their SO's, but being pegged would make me feel like a wuss. I do not and would not judge other guys for being pegged. It is just that I personally would not be able to endure it.

[rcoreyus]

I've never associated particular sex acts with manliness. I'm aware that many people do though.

[jen1447]

SumSum, somehow I have a hard time picturing you saying "No more!" and walking away from your GF under any circumstances.

[Something_Awesome]

She would love me enough to not push the envelope in that regard

[Stillness]

Pegging is not just sticking something into your butt, right? It's the woman wearing a phallus and penetrating with it, correct?

I married a woman who likes what she is and that wants a man. I'm a man that likes being a man and that wants a woman. I don't need extra phalli between my woman and I.

I'm with Something on this one. A penis between your legs is manly because men have them. Getting one pumped between your legs is womanly, because that's what women are built for. It wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me. It's just not happening.

This reminds me of the poster a while back whose husband swore he had no interest in men, but wanted her to do him in the behind with a strap-on that that squirted semen-like fluid and grunt like she was climaxing when it did.

[atskitty2]

This is difficult to answer. 5 yrs ago my answer was probably different.
I think there are lines not to cross, but I also think if the line IS crossed, it can be forgiven. I think lifestyle "lines" are a bit different, such as cross dressing, and things beyond someone's control in many ways, such as disabilities or illnesses.

I've not shared a lot about my former husband, but this may be a good time. He was abusing alcohol, but I tolerated it for quite some time, not even realizing how bad it was. He began having some other issues, which we believe were early signs of a mental illness. He began an affair I believe at some point in all this as well.
He was treating me like trash, which was all I could see wrong at that time. THAT was my breaking point.

I think it's not so much what someone is doing, but who they are in the relationship. Not saying I'm right, but unfortunately I think I'd tolerate a lot if there was respect, trust and kindness between us.

Of course, my man would be beaten and reported if I found him with a child, and I'd beat the hell out of him if he hurt an animal, but I'd wait before I did anything permanent like divorce.

Drug abuse, I just don't know about. It would depend on many factors. I know a few high-functioning addicts, so, I just don't know what I'd do.

This has got me thinking, for sure.
Good post sp!

[effy2014]

I married a woman who likes what she is and that wants a man. I'm a man that likes being a man and that wants a woman. I don't need extra phalli between my woman and I.

I'm with Something on this one. A penis between your legs is manly because men have them. Getting one pumped between your legs is womanly, because that's what women are built for. It wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me. It's just not happening.

I can't imagine anything I do sexually with with my SO, a very girly girl, would make me any less of a man. For me, sexual experimentation is meant to seek new ways of pleasuring her and me. Using a toy together to stimulate my prostate isn't un-manful. Empowering her to do that with a strap on toy does not make me any less a man or her any more a man. She gets pleasure from it as well which is why we have done it. There isn't any "humiliation" involved and I am heterosexual through and through.

I get that any particular sexual act is not for everyone. But I also wouldn't allow a cultural bias prevent me from trying almost anything to find more pleasure in the bedroom.

[Stillness]

Empowering her to do that with a strap on toy does not make me any less a man or her any more a man.

Interesting choice of words.

I don't think in makes you homosexual or not a man. It simulates homosexuality or a role reversal, though. That's what makes me disinterested.

[jen1447]

Of course, my man would be beaten and reported if I found him with a child, and I'd beat the hell out of him if he hurt an animal, but I'd wait before I did anything permanent like divorce.

Another girl with balls.