[Patti-here]

Got it. Have a friend who is a bodyguard (bouncer) at a lounge. He got into a fight with an idiot his first day.

Nobody wants to fight our bodyguards, they look like mountains...

[Something_Awesome]

Nobody wants to fight our bodyguards, they look like mountains...

Oh... you'd be surprised in Los Angeles...

EDIT: Good night people... time to crash.

[Motorguy]

Oh... you'd be surprised in Los Angeles...

EDIT: Good night people... time to crash.

Good Night SA have a good Friday ciao. I am turning out the lights as well of to dream land.

[jen1447]

Yeah, I wasn't that kinky MG. However, I feel the "balls" stuff I've engaged in with my GF has gotten me a ton of kinky points in my opinion. I do not know of anyone right now that engages in abusing balls besides Jen. And even then, I started doing it before her

If you do it before Jen, you get a lot of points. If you do it before Romy, then you get an exponential amount of points!

fwiw, I'd say this ball busting stuff is definitely kinky but not quite taboo. I mean, it's kind of violent I guess, but it's not like anybody's going to the hospital, and it's distinctly consensual. There's an extreme side to it tho that gets too far out there imo - people chained up, clamps, monkey wrenches, vices, women dishing out these hard kicks from a 3 or 4 pace run ....yikes. That to me would be taboo.

btw, I assume Romy's already been there/done that.

[Patti-here]

I hate to mention this but like there are nipple clamps with weights on them, they have the same thing for balls..

[rcoreyus]

Personally I separate pretending from causing great pain from actually doing so. Some people enjoy playing with fearsome looking implements to give the impression of medieval torture or whatever - but minimal harm is actually done. Others actually enjoy real serious pain.

The second can be worrisome if taken to extremes.

[Motorguy]

I hate to mention this but like there are nipple clamps with weights on them, they have the same thing for balls..

Oh yea nipple clamps are great wife loves those and she has clitoris clamps as well. She been trying to get me to clamp on my testicle sorry sweetie not happening lol.

[jen1447]

Personally I separate pretending from causing great pain from actually doing so. Some people enjoy playing with fearsome looking implements to give the impression of medieval torture or whatever - but minimal harm is actually done. Others actually enjoy real serious pain.

It's not just pain tho. Some things (like what Patti mentioned) can't not be harmful ....not to get too graphic but there are these devices that clamp down on and stretch a man's scrotum to the point that it's distended a matter of many inches away from his penis. I imagine that hurts for one, even if it might not exactly be agonizing pain, but I can't imagine how it's not causing permanent damage to his parts. So that could be a case of 'doesn't exactly hurt a ton but is causing great bodily harm.'

[Motorguy]

Personally I separate pretending from causing great pain from actually doing so. Some people enjoy playing with fearsome looking implements to give the impression of medieval torture or whatever - but minimal harm is actually done. Others actually enjoy real serious pain.

The second can be worrisome if taken to extremes.

My testicle hurt just by reading these words about this rough play with testicle yikes.

[ManFriday]

Alright...well it's a bit lengthy but I think the background helps make sense of it.

All through school growing up I had a really close girlfriend. She stayed at my house, I stayed at hers, etc. After graduation my family took her on a camping trip with us. Me, her, and my older sister ( who was about to graduate college at the time ) hung out the entire time. We were the only ones our age.

One day, we spent the entire time at the lake. Late afternoon we decided to hit the shower house to clean up before dinner. We get there and it's surprisingly busy. There was 1 empty shower in the back corner. I called dibs on it first ( mainly because I was hungry and wanted to get back ). But my friend suggested we just all share it to save time.

We all agreed like it was no big deal. I thought it was going to be a quick rinse over our suits and get out. Not so... as soon as we got in and closed the curtain both my friend and sister undid their tops and removed them. So, I followed suit. Shortly after my sister pulled her bottoms down and then my friend did the same. All the while we were chatting about school, movies, stupid stuff. So I figured what the hell and did the same. To be honest, it was very awkward at first. But by the time we got out I was strangely aroused.

Now I've not told anyone this but over the years from time to time I fantasize about this situation. But what I really struggle with, is that sometimes when I fantasize I'll still include my sister in the fantasy. I'm not attracted to her in real; I think that's wrong; but for whatever reason the fantasy part .. I can't explain it.

Does this even makes sense?

That is a hot fantasy OP and I don’t see anything wrong with it.

Since about the age of twelve I have fantasised about giving or mostly receiving a spanking and other related activities.

One of the first scenarios involved me visiting the house next door where a lady and her four daughters of around my age had come to live. The purpose of my visit was to help one of them with school homework. In the story, the mother is not at home and unfortunately for me I am set upon by the four girls and some of their friends, stripped naked and spanked by each in turn. There is more but I won’t go into that right now.

Later in life the ‘other person’ was usually some lady I knew well such as the girl in the office at work or my sister-in-law and this lady could be the spanker or spankee. These days there are generally only two scenarios and both would register high in the taboo range.

The first involves being spanked by my sister who is a somewhat stern lady who is three years younger than I am. This is purely in the realm of fantasy and will never happen. However, that does not stop me from constructing a scene where I have little choice but to submit to my sister. The slightly disturbing thing about it is that if an opportunity did arise I would probably encourage her to do it. Do any of the ladies here ever dream about spanking their troublesome adult brother or would that be a complete turn-off?

The second scenario is also high in the taboo range and while I doubt if it is a common occurrence it does seem to be out there in reality. Now, I am a completely straight and married guy but I am more and more drawn towards getting a spanking from another man. I was up for it recently and it almost happened but fate dictated that it was not to be. If the other guy was bi or gay and taking erotic pleasure from it that would be even hotter. I do not find men attractive either physically or emotionally so I cannot understand why this has become almost an obsession.

Ideally, I would like it if my wife took up her hairbrush and administered some disciple in the bedroom but alas, she has no interest in “that sort of thing”. Any opinions would be appreciated, especially the woman’s viewpoint.