[Patti-here]

I don't fantasize about anyone I know, I keep my sexual fantasies for alone time only, and the more bizarre they are the better they make it

[effy2014]

Back to the OP's fantasy and question . . . there is nothing "wrong" in the fantasy or in the exploration of ones sexuality. If you read more of the previous posts, you will find people successfully exploring bisexual relationships, threesomes and polyamory within the context of their current heterosexual relationships.

If you want to act them out, most of us would tell you to communicate your desires with your partner and see if there is a mutual desire or taboo. There is also no reason to share the fantasy with your partner or anyone else if you so choose. Sometimes people just want to fantasize while masterbating and it keep,it to themselves.

[jen1447]

I am also sure. She says she fantasizes about me... But I'd love to know about taboo ones. It's just another way to get to know her and show trust. I'll offer up a taboo one I have of her to see if I can get her to budge.

You know you can't say you have a taboo fantasy about your GF and then not tell us what it is. Let's hear it.

I can't think of any real taboo stuff I've got running around in my head, altho some of the realities might qualify by other people's standards.

[rcoreyus]

I think there are different types of fantasies.

There are things you would actually like to do: Say have my wife tie me up and dominate me.

There are things that while they might be fun, probably wouldn't work out well in reality: Say a threesome with my wife and another woman I know.

Then there are "pure" fantasies -things that you wouldn't really want to do , but are fun to think about: Say, being kidnapped by the Icelandic women's beach-volleyball team and used as their sex slave.


I think the last can include all sorts of "taboo" things: rape (as rapist or victim), incest, pedophilia, torture whatever. I think that's absolutely fine as long as the person with the fantasy keeps a clear distinction between fantasy and reality - and I think almost everyone does. What happens inside your head, stays in your head.

Various forms of forced sex feature prominently in my fantasies, but I have no interest at all in anything like that in real life.

[Something_Awesome]

You know you can't say you have a taboo fantasy about your GF and then not tell us what it is. Let's hear it.

I can't think of any real taboo stuff I've got running around in my head, altho some of the realities might qualify by other people's standards.

Ok, I will... It does sort of relate to Patti's but it needs to context/explanation around it first so it doesn't sounds weird . I just don't have the time to put thought into the post right now. I will though later today .

[jen1447]

Just STFU and tell the story. (lol - I always think it's funny when people tell people to shut up and talk at the same time.)

[atskitty2]

I don't think there's anything unusual or abnormal about your fantasy OP. I think it was an impressionable time in your life, probably lots of good memories that day, and it made an impression.

One of my fantasies began as a sort of gang bang scenario with a few men involved in my half-hearted consent to this train. Over time it has evolved into less of a me being taken advantage of kind of thing, to me being the one allowing or disallowing these begging, horny men to be satisfied with me. My role in the fantasy has changed dramatically over time. It's much hotter now!!

[Motorguy]

I've had a fantasy about getting kidnapped by 6 men, stripped nekked chained to a bed and used as a sex slave. works during 'alone' time

Well Patti that's kinda of over the top wow really. You just seem to conservatives for that fantasy.

[jen1447]

One of my fantasies began as a sort of gang bang scenario with a few men involved in my half-hearted consent to this train. Over time it has evolved into less of a me being taken advantage of kind of thing, to me being the one allowing or disallowing these begging, horny men to be satisfied with me. My role in the fantasy has changed dramatically over time. It's much hotter now!!

Ok that made me hot.

[atskitty2]

Oh my dear Jen, I'm blushing. Lol. Not!