[jen1447]

You bad.

[Something_Awesome]

Just STFU and tell the story. (lol - I always think it's funny when people tell people to shut up and talk at the same time.)

Kitty, I like the fantasy. I am going to continue the trend of many dudes with one lady fantasy. Ok, so the fantasy is that my GF is being with two guys and I am not one the guys. Nor am I there watching. My fantasies sort of need to have a story and be semi believable (at the least). My mind does not allow me into the fantasy because I would not be cool with sharing me GF or watching her. So in my fantasy she has to cheat... It would be the only way it'd work. The only loophole is that if she is cheating, how would I be able to see what's going on. Well... Oh well lol.

In my fantasy she is having her way with the guys. You can try to profile me all you want, I am not a cuckold/swapper type of guy. I think this fantasy just sexualizes her more and just provides more convincing images (in my fantasy) of how dominant she can be in the bedroom.

For what it's worth, she is not always dominant and sometimes wants to be 'taken.' I would say she likes to be the aggressor like 85 percent of the time.

[JennWandering]

Well I must say I feel somewhat better. Thanks for all the replies and for not being judgmental. And since we're on this topic, here's another one of mine that I find extremely erotic ( though it will never happen ).

My husband and I have a few 'toys' in the bottom drawer. One of them is a realistic cyberskin ****. Now, my pink vibrator is perfectly fine and does the job great. But my husband insisted that we buy this cyberskin dildo also to add to the collection. Eh..we've used it a few times. Feels good...though not as good as him. Anyways, I'm usually the one who cleans it after use. I know exactly how I put it back in the box, place it in the drawer, etc.

Recently I've noticed the box has been tampered with ( not quite the exact same I left it )...or it might be positioned differently. I KNOW he's gotten into it one his own..has to have. There have been a few times during play that he's used it on me and while 'down there' using it he'll lick around, etc.

This probably isn't going on...but what really gets me going is imagining him have time to himself, playing with that cyberskin ****. Specifically doing oral on it. Thinking about that can sometimes push me over the edge, quickly! ( I wish I would have found this forum quicker. There's alot of good, intriguing stuff on here ).

[jen1447]

Kitty, I like the fantasy. I am going to continue the trend of many dudes with one lady fantasy. Ok, so the fantasy is that my GF is being with two guys and I am not one the guys. Nor am I there watching. My fantasies sort of need to have a story and be semi believable (at the least). My mind does not allow me into the fantasy because I would not be cool with sharing me GF or watching her. So in my fantasy she has to cheat... It would be the only way it'd work. The only loophole is that if she is cheating, how would I be able to see what's going on. Well... Oh well lol.

In my fantasy she is having her way with the guys. You can try to profile me all you want, I am not a cuckold/swapper type of guy. I think this fantasy just sexualizes her more and just provides more convincing images (in my fantasy) of how dominant she can be in the bedroom.

For what it's worth, she is not always dominant and sometimes wants to be 'taken.' I would say she likes to be the aggressor like 85 percent of the time.

When you say she's having her way, do you just mean being aggressive or like doing them if you know what I mean? (I'm honestly not trying to tie the pegging stuff in here, just that would be a startling coincidence. ) I'm really fascinated by this because I still don't know why lol. I mean, I know you say it sexualizes her ....okay, heard that before too. It just doesn't sound like a total explanation. Much to figure out on this topic, I may have to ask BF about it very frankly.

~ Jenn, cool you jumped back in here. Your second fantasy is very intriguing as well ....just fyi, if he was open to strapon use - and if he's playing around with a dildo while you're not there, he may be - you could probably make that a reality (him blowing you). btw, what is "cyberskin?"

[JennWandering]

When you say she's having her way, do you just mean being aggressive or like doing them if you know what I mean? (I'm honestly not trying to tie the pegging stuff in here, just that would be a startling coincidence. ) I'm really fascinated by this because I still don't know why lol. I mean, I know you say it sexualizes her ....okay, heard that before too. It just doesn't sound like a total explanation. Much to figure out on this topic, I may have to ask BF about it very frankly.

~ Jenn, cool you jumped back in here. Your second fantasy is very intriguing as well ....just fyi, if he was open to strapon use - and if he's playing around with a dildo while you're not there, he may be - you could probably make that a reality (him blowing you). btw, what is "cyberskin?"

Cyberskin is a brand ( at least that's what it said on the box ). It's the most realistic dildo i've ever seen. The texture really is **** near lifelike.

[Something_Awesome]

JennWandering, that second fantasy is very interesting! You seem like someone that would be cool to have around here. So don't bail on us!

Jen, you're right, it's not a total explanation. This is what it is. I feel like she can get two guys to do for her what one can't, hence the two guys being in my fantasy. Now my fantasies need to be believable, which is why I am not in them because I don't want to watch her do two guys or share her with another guy at the same time. So the only way to make the fantasy work with two guys is to have her with two guys behind my back (so that I have no involvement and have now kept the fantasy more believable).

I think the important thing to consider is that the reason Patti and Kitty may fantasize about more than one guy is the same reason I may imagine the same for my GF. Men and women are indeed different, but the root of this fantasy may be the same for both men and women.

And when I say my GF has her way with them, I mean that she is trying to fulfill her sexual desires any way she sees fit. She is not necessarily making them be submissive or ball slapping etc. That's saved for me

[muffin70]

Well I have to say that last weekend my fantasy came to life..... I've always had a scarf fetish and have asked my wife on several occasions if she can wear a nice scarf during sex, but she's never done it and although she thinks my fantasy is ok she's never gone through with it.
We went away for the weekend and on the way to our destination I confessed that I had packed one of her scarves in my suitcase- just in case.
Long story short, we had a spa bath together and she was giving me a HJ in the spa, then we retreated to the bedroom.
She got out the scarf put it around her and did a sexy dance in front of me, playing with the scarf and her breasts. I was stiff as a flagpole and just about blew my load there and then, but I got up and chased her round the room and she fell on the bed..... I started kissing her, sucking her nipples and she was very wet and orgasmed quickly... I then grabbed the scarf and put it over her belly / breasts and she said "I don't want you to cum over it" (which I would love to do)... I got on top of her and she moved the scarf up around her neck / breasts and it took me less that a minute before I exploded inside her! She even commented that I was super hard....
Afterwards she said she had never seen me that excited before and it really turned me on.
I thanked her for making my fantasy come real!

[jen1447]

Well having thought about Patti and kitty a bit I think Patti is essentially a sub (not exactly a secret here ), so she wants to be dominated and "used" by men (in her fantasy), and kitty is turned on by controlling them and having sexual authority over them (yes to this one, no to that one). I think they're pretty different inspirations, but the unanswered question is still why you as a third party find multi-partnered sex hot to imagine with your GF. kitty and Patti are both in their own fantasies. Even leaving aside the third party thing for a minute, I still don't really see an answer beyond a hyper-sexualization fantasy, and so I guess the question becomes why is it arousing to hyper-sexualize your GF?

I don't mean any of that as the third degree sorry lol, I just get frustrated when I can't figure something out.

[Something_Awesome]

Because she can have two guys do to her what one guy can't

It's a primitive answer but it's the truth. I don't know, maybe I should masterbate again to refresh my feelings of the fantasy. Maybe that'd help me answer the question better. I honestly have not masterbated for a pretty long while.

[Patti-here]

Because she can have two guys do to her what one guy can't

It's a primitive answer but it's the truth. I don't know, maybe I should masterbate again to refresh my feelings of the fantasy. Maybe that'd help me answer the question better. I honestly have not masterbated for a pretty long while.

I don't know why you would wanna be in the fantasy though S.A.