[jen1447]

I agree that odor can be an issue, and I'm talking about sweat specifically. I've found that's another thing that shampoo is good for tho - it helps to eliminate or mask the natural muskyness that seems to build up thru the day. That and keeping it neat ....it's when things get wooly and out of control that it can fester in there.

Elena, are you saying you give more oral but your man does more of the work with the effing?

I understand the privilege mentality completely btw, BF's much the same way in that he feels like I'm doing him a huge favor by letting him spend all that time between my legs. Seriously, he'll get me flowers and cards and all that to say "thanks" after I have a bunch of orgasms at his expense. Works for me.

Although sometimes I roll on to my husband's side of the bed so he can enjoy his efforts.

I LedMAO kira ....well done.

[Elena_EvilEye]

I actually don't mind swallowing semen just hate it when it goes on my face and I sometimes get a stray one that goes on my hair which is a little annoying. I also see giving my hubby a BJ as a chore in the same vein as taking out the rubbish something I must attend to even though sometimes I find it a bore. Am I the only one who is a bit negative about giving a BJ?

[jen1447]

Not at all - whenever I do it I always find myself unconsciously searching for a clit.

[bootsie]

Sometimes it's 95% giving and 5% recieving,But most of the time it's 100% giving,Which I am VERY!! happy with that.

[Elena_EvilEye]

Not at all - whenever I do it I always find myself unconsciously searching for a clit.

LOL that must be weird for your boyfriend

[rcoreyus]

Its about giving 99%/1% for me. I'm happy to do it but recently my wife has been losing interest in receiving (I don't think I've gotten worse). She really dislikes giving oral at all - I get it as a birthday present once a year. (too bad, I really enjoy receiving).

[jen1447]

LOL that must be weird for your boyfriend

Haha I know - especially when I start flicking my tongue on the tip and he's all like "What the hel are you doing?"

[Elena_EvilEye]

Haha I know - especially when I start flicking my tongue on the tip and he's all like "What the hel are you doing?"

When I do that I give him a really seductive look turn him on even more and then it turns me on. Works every time a lot better than his sausage metaphor.

[effy2014]

I have major issues with things being clean down there when I give oral. I have a sensitive nose and taste. Just guys going around for the day in clothes creates enough yucky taste... kind of like old sweat even if they haven't been sweating.

Easy solution. Playtex makes fresh and sexy wipes that have a nice scent. You can incorporate the cleaning into preliminary sex play or have him do it before he comes to bed. Any of the wipes will do the trick. Cleanliness is next to godliness, as the saying goes.

[effy2014]

I understand the privilege mentality completely btw, BF's much the same way in that he feels like I'm doing him a huge favor by letting him spend all that time between my legs. Seriously, he'll get me flowers and cards and all that to say "thanks" after I have a bunch of orgasms at his expense. Works for me.D

It's a privilege because it is the most intimate you can possibly be with your partner. You are completely immersed using all 5 senses.