[SpicyV]

My husband doesn't like getting oral and only sometimes gives. I'm in and open marriage and with my other partners it's close to 50/50. I like giving as much as getting.

[effy2014]

Both. The only way for someone to go down on me or penetrate is if my clitoris is stimulated . In my 31 years of living, very and very few men have been capable of this. I find that showing a guy doesn't work. A guy either gets it or doesn't.

I never thought it was rocket science. Learn the basics of female anatomy and listen to her body. Communicate afterwards to see how to improve.

[muffin70]

at the end of the day though all that really matters is you and your partner are both satisfied sexually.... whether it's from oral sex or intercourse or whatever....

[Motorguy]

Both. The only way for someone to go down on me or penetrate is if my clitoris is stimulated . In my 31 years of living, very and very few men have been capable of this. I find that showing a guy doesn't work. A guy either gets it or doesn't.

Well with guys not getting are the selfish guys who only really care for there pleasure only. They really don't care about there ladies pleasure. It's not brain surgery to figure it out how to pleasure a women in this area.

[Magnetism]

Motor guy-the one guy that didn't understand how to touch my clitoris properly was a guy that desperately wanted to make me orgasm. He didn't like one-sided intimacy , and thought that women should receive pleasure back. The problem was that the more he complained and tried, the harder it was. There was something about his fingers that just didn't feel right. It was a huge blow to his ego, because he thought he was a Greek god in bed. Personally, I'm turned off when I'm under pressure. Just because you can make your last few girlfriends orgasm doesn't mean that I'm going to have the same preferences.

[Something_Awesome]

Both. The only way for someone to go down on me or penetrate is if my clitoris is stimulated . In my 31 years of living, very and very few men have been capable of this. I find that showing a guy doesn't work. A guy either gets it or doesn't.

Do you mean stimulating the clit while penetrating? If that's what you mean, why not try introducing a toy while you are being penetrated?

[Susan Sweetlove]

I love oral, both giving and receiving. I like both so much the though the ideal is to be equitable, I don't keep score. I'd perform oral on men and women even if I didn't receive in return. Performing oral really, really turns me on. I love the look on a man or woman's face when I suck on them, the moans and groans and begging "don't stop, don't stop!" I like to bring them to the edge of an orgasm and them hold them there until they are whimpering and begging for release. It gives me an incredible feeling of power and gets me super hot and wet.

That said, I've never really had a problem with having men or women not performing oral on me. Maybe because mostly I have sex with people who are very into their sexuality, I've never had any man or woman outright refuse. The only times there might be some hesitation about performing oral on me is if the man or woman is inexperienced, but I love teaching them how to pleasure me. Performing great oral on them is the best way to teach and motivate them perform oral on me.

[Magnetism]

Do you mean stimulating the clit while penetrating? If that's what you mean, why not try introducing a toy while you are being penetrated?

No. I mean the clit has to be stimulated before I open up for penetration. I need tons and tons of proper foreplay to have penetration. If a man doesn't do the proper warming up, sex will hurt. Frankly, penetration is my least favorite act anyway-Unless I haven't met the right guy. My favorite sexual acts are blowjobs, facials, fingering, titty ****ing, receiving oral sex, and rimming.

[Motorguy]

My husband doesn't like getting oral and only sometimes gives. I'm in and open marriage and with my other partners it's close to 50/50. I like giving as much as getting.

Well Spicy you need to get husband to step up to the plate more with oral. Me and wife are 50/50 we end up giving each oral and the orgasm are intense as well.But some times I will give wife oral for over a hour and she like a limp rag after that's a good time then.

[Natalie1962]

When I first started having sex in college I didn't know there was ever any option but to swallow the semen. So, having done it for so long I can't imagine spitting it out now. That being said I don't give men full oral sex (all the way to orgasm) very often as I prefer the semen to be released inside of me. But every now and then I will give the man I'm with full oral in certain circumstances.