[effy2014]

GF got ticked off that I said I wanted her to get a lap dance and to touch the dancer and grab his ***. She called the idea very disrespectful and said she was shocked that I'd want that. She said she did not want to go to the strip club anymore. We talked and we are going to go after all but she says she does not want any dances. To me, that's like saying you want to get a gourmet burger and, once you get to the restaurant, asking for a quinoa patty. I just wanted to see her get a dance while I make it rain on them.

We're good now, but it makes me wonder about all the posts I read where a "woman" posts:

My husband wants to watch me have sex with another man. I was not OK with the idea at first, but now I am intrigued. I have been checking out such-and-such guys lately and think I may have someone in mind. What do you guys think?

I've seen like ten of those on here and they all read the same. If they are legit, it makes you wonder how the guy got their SO to want to have sex with another man when I can't even get my GF to touch a harmless entertainer without getting my head chewed off.

I am dumbfounded again. You have one of the best women on the planet and you just don't get it. It's the emotional bond between you . . . the trust you have built because you are you . . . protective, respectful, focused on her and her pleasure (both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom). It's ok to look because she is building the sexual excitement to on YOU. But she doesn't ever want to touch another man, just like (as you have written several times) you have zero interest in cheating on her. It was good fortune that she didn't kick you in the balls for the suggestion.

As the American football coaches say, get your head back into the game. You have been reading too much into these obnoxious posts. The men who want another man to satisfy their partner are lacking in themselves and have little connection to their partner. You have a woman who wants to sexually experiment to find another level of pleasure WITH YOU. Don't share. As Jen wrote, don't presume what she wants. And for goodness sake, don't be too expressively wowed by a female stripper either.

[jen1447]

As far as the girl strippers go, the absolute best move you can make is to get closer to her or touch her or take her hand anytime it seems like you're engaged with another woman. This applies almost universally. Say you were just in a regular social setting and a girl was chatting with you ....SAGF's radar would probably be up because we're always on the lookout for interlopers. All you have to do to reassure his is move closer to her, put your arm around her, take her hand, etc. and continue chatting. It's an awesome nonverbal reassurance that she's first and foremost no matter what and that the girl you're chatting with actually means nothing, which is exactly what she wants to know. Seriously, put that in your permanent 'How to be a good BF' handbook.

[Something_Awesome]

Thanks guys. Just squeezing in a message to say of course I am going to be all over my GF at the strip club! Crowded here on a Thursday thanks to the electric daisy carnival.

Effy, We went to Aria to get the tickets and we plan to go to Georges. I have to re-read your post but I do not remember if you recommended a dish. If not, please recommend!

Thanks everyone!

[effy2014]

I had recommended Julian Serrano's Tappas place, but you cannot go wrong and Jean-George's. I can't believe you could put together a bad meal. Have a wonderful time tonight.

[jen1447]

Just squeezing in a message to say of course I am going to be all over my GF at the strip club!

Don't be all over her, just be close to her and attentive. A lot of times, particularly in public, we want our men to appear to be 'the man.' That doesn't mean out of control with sexual excitement. It means IN control and cool-headed. In the strip club setting, I'm almost positive that what she'd like best from you is you appearing calm and collected and happily enjoying the goings on with an air of relaxed contentment. With your arm around her more often than not. Be timely and assertive with arranging for the drinks, pay for it all, and even give her singles or fives or whatever if she wants to slip some to the dancers on stage. (She won't want to dig into her purse for that - looks kind of unsavory.) Don't slip any bills yourself tho, and don't get any lap dances. Use your eyes only. If she ends up wanting a lap dance, pay for it.

Do all that and she'll love you.

[Something_Awesome]

Effy, it's funny you bring up the Tappas Place. GF wanted to go there without me even saying anything. So maybe we will go there tomorrow. Good call on Bouchon. Went there today and it was great. I stay at the Palazzo all the time and I can't believe I did not know about it! They had an amazing Bloody Mary! They also had a special for today only; a gnocchi with lobster! The gnocchi was not a potato dumpling, which is what it usually is when you order Italian gnocchi.

Ok Jen, got it. Cool and in control. Though in my defense when I said all over her I did not mean it in a raunchy way. And of course I would pay for it all! I went to the bank before the trip and got two 100 dollar straps of singles. Should be enough I think.

Interesting thing. We stopped at a gas station about 65 miles before Vegas (a Shell), and I went in to use their bathroom. The bathroom felt cramped because of this large motor-powered waterfall that was in the Men's room. When I walked in I saw a guy peeing on the waterfall (the waterfall stretched from the floor to the ceiling). I wanted to tell the guy "dude you're such a d_ck for peeing on their expensive decor." I just stood there waiting for the guy to finish using the only toilet in the restroom. As I waited around I realized that there were two water faucets. You don't have two faucets for one toilet. So I though that maybe the waterfall was a urinal? I scanned the room and saw a small sign that read "Waterfall Urinal, Enjoy!!!" So as I was peeing on the waterfall other guys walked in and were like WTF? It's just awkward because the guys just line up along the waterfall and there is no divider or anything for privacy. You're actually brushing up against other guys' shoulders/elbows while peeing. It felt weird and surprising that such a thing would be in a Shell gas station.

[Something_Awesome]

We just used the restraint system! Can't really get too detailed atm, but MG loses his bet! I did not get pegged; however she put a little different twist on what Jen did to her BF. Also, we are so sore and fatigued from the past day and a half that I do not think we are having sex the rest of the day. I actually was very sore/fatigued going into our trip, so I'm done. Tank is on empty.

Haven't even gone to the pool yet. Effy, the pool next to Bouchon (which I never knew existed) looked awesome. Will probably go there tomorrow.

BTW, was never much of a bath tub guy, but those bubble bombs and bath tub bombs are freakin awesome! While we didn't hit up the pool, we spent a lot of time in the tub. No sex though... Just relaxed in the tub. Felt therapeutic. I encourage all of you to try it. I think the brand was LUSH. Totally awesome. I sort of smell like roses right now.

Jen, I can't get that image out of my head with my GF digging through her purse or something to pull out cash. Yuck. I did intend to give her cash, but I think I'll just hold on to it now and when it's time to tip I will just hand it to her so she can then promptly give it as a tip.

[jen1447]

^ You got it. Can't wait to hear how you didn't get pegged.

[effy2014]

Effy, it's funny you bring up the Tappas Place. GF wanted to go there without me even saying anything. So maybe we will go there tomorrow. Good call on Bouchon. Went there today and it was great. I stay at the Palazzo all the time and I can't believe I did not know about it! They had an amazing Bloody Mary! They also had a special for today only; a gnocchi with lobster! The gnocchi was not a potato dumpling, which is what it usually is when you order Italian gnocchi.

I don't know why they stuck Bouchon on the 10th floor (something like that) and a far walk from everything. The restaurant is amazing. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

[Something_Awesome]

It's actually on the second floor of its own tower. The elevator only travels between two floors.

Had a great time last night, which was a little unexpected. We were there for four and a half hours! I was expecting nothing more than a good time to be honest. It's definitely much different going with a GF. I am down stairs right now trying to get her a kale smoothie and a butter croissant to fight her hangover. She went nuts with drinks. More than I have ever seen. She was a little shy at the strip club at first but the drinking helped with that. Only problem is she drank more than I did and she is half my weight. We were up a lot of the night and I was helping her throw up. I am hoping the kale helps clean her system and/or the croissant just helps with the absorption with the toxins.

She is miserable right now. The night was amazing though for a lot of reasons I'll get into later.