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SO not looking their best - does it put you off?
So every now and again even after a year of laser hair removal every month all over my body I'll have a couple of stray hairs come through. I hate it and worry my SO will be repulsed (though he's always assured me he doesn't care if there's pubic hair or not) and says the stray hairs don't bother him but unless my pubic area is completely hair free I'm not happy and worry it will be a turn off. Probably all in my head but I wonder do any of you, maybe in your head, think "yuck" if your partner's grooming isn't perfect or are you just happy to have sex? -
My SO is far more concerned then I am about her grooming down there. She waxes (way better then shaving, in my opinion), but the hair needs to grow back a bit before the next waxing. If she is busy and misses a week or two, the hair is very fine and still very close. I find it attractive but she will always ask if its gross.
I'm in the "I'm happy every time she lets me go down on her" bucket, so the hair really doesn't matter unless I choke on it. Even then, I can live with it just fine. The nector of the gods."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction" -
As famous philosopher (who I'll not name, at the risk of violating attribution rules) once observed, most guys will take just about any opportunity to "tap some poon", so no need to get one's knickers in a twist about not meeting a standard of perfection.
But seriously Romy, I think I can fairly say your SO will not be even so slightly put off by any "stray hairs". A former gf used to shave regularly and usually thoroughly. But sometimes not; it would grow out a little or a lot. Made no difference to me however presented. Sometimes her shave job would be more rushed and less meticulous, so there would be some refugee hairs about. Again, not something that put me off in the least. If anything, it just proved that she was a real woman and not something out of a retouched photo.I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.Comment
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please don't worry yourself about some stray hairs. i would be put off by my SO if they stopped trying to look and be sexy for me. that is obviously not you. you are making continued effort to remain or become more attractive for your SO. that is all we could ask for.So every now and again even after a year of laser hair removal every month all over my body I'll have a couple of stray hairs come through. I hate it and worry my SO will be repulsed (though he's always assured me he doesn't care if there's pubic hair or not) and says the stray hairs don't bother him but unless my pubic area is completely hair free I'm not happy and worry it will be a turn off. Probably all in my head but I wonder do any of you, maybe in your head, think "yuck" if your partner's grooming isn't perfect or are you just happy to have sex?Comment
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Yeah, I'm certain he's just happy to smack clam and enjoy some quality cooch. Very few guys are that picky. Heck even I'd let a stray hair slide here and there if she was a dime.
As famous philosopher (who I'll not name, at the risk of violating attribution rules) once observed, most guys will take just about any opportunity to "tap some poon", so no need to get one's knickers in a twist about not meeting a standard of perfection.
But seriously Romy, I think I can fairly say your SO will not be even so slightly put off by any "stray hairs". A former gf used to shave regularly and usually thoroughly. But sometimes not; it would grow out a little or a lot. Made no difference to me however presented. Sometimes her shave job would be more rushed and less meticulous, so there would be some refugee hairs about. Again, not something that put me off in the least. If anything, it just proved that she was a real woman and not something out of a retouched photo.Comment
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I've always shaved. But, I have found that most guys enjoy seeing a woman in her natural state at times. I'm not talking to the point of a rainforest (though some do certainly enjoy that too!), but so you didn't shave for a few days and had some visible hair growth? I think most guys are turned on by the idea of spontaneous sex that you haven't planned and prepped for. Some of my hottest moments were when I hadn't even showered that day, was self conscious that I'd be hairy or smell, but he just loved it. No complaints. Don't sweat the small stuff gal.Comment
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