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On a theoretical level, anything can work out if that is how the partners are psychologically built. I would be surprised if a true cuckhold relationship is a good strategy for the long term. I have to think a woman would lose interest after a while. Good luck with it."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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No I'm more than sexually satisfied with my husband at the moment, I don't feel any need to go outside him when it probably won't be as good. He feels no need or want to go be with another woman and I don't either want to be with another man in bed. Sorry to be a bit traditional but I'm happy in the long term, monogamous, loving marriage I am in plus hubby is amazing in bed.It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.
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I don't have a "cuckold" relationship though I do have an open marriage though it took awhile to evolve into that. At first we were swingers, then I suppose we were in our cuckold phase because my husband absolutely loved watching me being intimate with other men. He would sometimes be in the same room but generally he liked to be out of the way knowing I was with another man at that very moment. I didn't particularly enjoy my husband watching me but if it gave him pleasure then I didn't mind it. I just sort of zoned him out, wrapped my legs around the other man's waist, closed my eyes, and concentrated on the pleasure he was giving me. Thankfully my husband and I eventually found our comfortable zone which was a win-win for both of us that included my husband staying away during my time with another man but me having to write out my sexual adventures in written form for him. It also sometimes includes calling him on my cell phone just before I get into bed with another man and leaving the phone on so he can hear everything (without the other man knowing it). I suppose it's sort of a high bred cuckold experience.
As far as the cuckold part of the relationship its like anything else. If both are secure and can handle it then what's the problem? It seems more people are shocked by the cuckold lifestyle than the swinger lifestyle. What's the difference?
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Well because there really the same type of relationship just the wife is having all the fun. But in a swinging life style the husband is having fun as well too.I don't have a "cuckold" relationship though I do have an open marriage though it took awhile to evolve into that. At first we were swingers, then I suppose we were in our cuckold phase because my husband absolutely loved watching me being intimate with other men. He would sometimes be in the same room but generally he liked to be out of the way knowing I was with another man at that very moment. I didn't particularly enjoy my husband watching me but if it gave him pleasure then I didn't mind it. I just sort of zoned him out, wrapped my legs around the other man's waist, closed my eyes, and concentrated on the pleasure he was giving me. Thankfully my husband and I eventually found our comfortable zone which was a win-win for both of us that included my husband staying away during my time with another man but me having to write out my sexual adventures in written form for him. It also sometimes includes calling him on my cell phone just before I get into bed with another man and leaving the phone on so he can hear everything (without the other man knowing it). I suppose it's sort of a high bred cuckold experience.
As far as the cuckold part of the relationship its like anything else. If both are secure and can handle it then what's the problem? It seems more people are shocked by the cuckold lifestyle than the swinger lifestyle. What's the difference?
NatalieWhen out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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Well Elena, you have a marriage that many married couple wish they had like me and Donna, have as well. I wouldn't change anything at all for any other relationship out there having way to much in this marriage with Donna.No I'm more than sexually satisfied with my husband at the moment, I don't feel any need to go outside him when it probably won't be as good. He feels no need or want to go be with another woman and I don't either want to be with another man in bed. Sorry to be a bit traditional but I'm happy in the long term, monogamous, loving marriage I am in plus hubby is amazing in bed.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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