[Susan Sweetlove]

There's not really any size that's "too" small. It depends on the guy, his technique, and my mood. All things being equal, a larger penis is better, but then all things are never equal, there are always multiple factors.

I've never really used a ruler to measure, but I'd say five to six inches is "normal". According to Wikipedia, the best research shows an average size of 5.5 inches, which sounds about right to me. Actually, length is not the most important dimension for me, it's girth. A thicker penis fills me up more.

[cathy23]

since we only have sex on the weekends , SO is pretty anxious when he gets home so we usually start with me giving him oral as part of our foreplay. Not to be graphic, but sometimes he cums with the oral and there's a lot to deal with.

[bootsie]

I certainty didn't mean to imply that my pleasure is independent of that of the man. I was just exaggerating to make the point of how much pleasure I get performing oral on a man.

I always try to let the man know how much pleasure I am having performing oral on him. I moan and gasp quite a bit while sucking because I find it so pleasurable. I'm not just putting on a show for effect; I really get so horny while sucking. I also verbalize my pleasure, saying things like "God, I love your ********." When I feel him getting ready to cum I'll say "Oh God, cum in my mouth, I want to taste you" or "Cum all over my face, I want you to cum all over my face." I know that sharing my pleasure and excitement heighten's the excitement for the man. I'm always quite loud and verbal when having sex of any kind; it's part of the sharing I think.

Susan,I'm a guy and I'm the same way as you when I am performing oral on a woman.I know that no one may not believe this,but this one time I was performing oral on this woman I was seeing.I was so into giving her oral and had gotten so horny that I ended up cumming from it and never touched myself while doing it.After we had finished and was gathering ourselves together,she nor I couldn't believe it that happened to me,because it had never happened before. Did it ever happen again? Yes it did,a few more times matter of faction and they loved it.

[Magnetism]

Susan,I'm a guy and I'm the same way as you when I am performing oral on a woman.I know that no one may not believe this,but this one time I was performing oral on this woman I was seeing.I was so into giving her oral and had gotten so horny that I ended up cumming from it and never touched myself while doing it.After we had finished and was gathering ourselves together,she nor I couldn't believe it that happened to me,because it had never happened before. Did it ever happen again? Yes it did,a few more times matter of faction and they loved it.

I believe it! Cumming from giving oral isn't unheard of. It may seem shocking to the "selfish" lover, but not to the giving lover.

I will add that the people that couldn't understand why I loved oral so much were the types that saw having their own orgasm as the primary goal.

I also wonder if being such a giving lover has to do with being empathic/intuitive. When someone orgasms or gets excited, I feel like I'm taking in their energy in my own body.

[bootsie]

I believe it! Cumming from giving oral isn't unheard of. It may seem shocking to the "selfish" lover, but not to the giving lover.

I will add that the people that couldn't understand why I loved oral so much were the types that saw having their own orgasm as the primary goal.

I also wonder if being such a giving lover has to do with being empathic/intuitive. When someone orgasms or gets excited, I feel like I'm taking in their energy in my own body.

It was to me when it first happened to me.The woman I was with was shocked and excite all the same time.
I wonder also...I feel the same.You know, I always wondered if anyone else ever did and felt that?