[BigRed]

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Perhaps the best feeling in the world (from a male's perspective). Looking to engage in discussion about it.

Who's done it? Who enjoys it? How did your S/O bring it up? What are the preferred techniques/positions? Who's got good stories about it?

Personally my wife performs it almost every time she gives me oral which is every time we have sex which is about 3-4x a week. When we're really in the mood she'll bend me over and do it that way while stroking me through my legs from the back. It's the absolute most incredible feeling in the world. Curious to see what others on here have done and what they enjoy.

[BigRed]

Oh... And of course I return the favor ten fold. I love performing oral on her in doggy position and I pretty much feast on her butt haha it is one of my biggest turn ons.

[bubba29]

i love to lick my wife's *** and she loves when i do it. it is a very sensitive area and there is a lot of sexual pleasure associated with touch it. on the other hand, no matter how clean i am down there, she will not return the favor .

[BigRed]

My wife was hesitant at first but I think the first time she did it to me was in the shower and she realized it wasn't gross if I was clean so from then on she does it regularly. She doesn't seem to enjoy it AS MUCH as me although she likes it when I do it. I, on the other hand, lose control of myself every time she does it.

Oh... And I also shave regularly or else she wouldn't ever do it.

[effy2014]

One of my favorite topics and activities. There is something so different about giving . . . almost primal . . . that it drives me crazy with desire. My first time (her's as well) was also the first time that my SO and I were intimate. I had just completed an intense period of cunilingus and was giving her a back massage while she recovered. I had massage oil, candles were burning and she was completely relaxed. When I got to her butt, I was totally enthralled. She did not flinch as I touched her there and my mind just flipped -- I had to be oral. It was a phenomenal experience and, as we talked about it later, she had complete trust in me. Now it's an integral part of our play.

I am way too self conscious to receive. We do other butt play for me -- fingers, a toy and, err, pegging every now and then, but I never feel clean enough for her tongue . . . Just a mental block.

[BigRed]

All insertion for me is no more than the first knuckle... My wife has tried inserting whole fingers and it just hurts. Obviously I have never tried pegging either and never will, for me just the touching and fondling/licking is plenty.

[effy2014]

All insertion for me is no more than the first knuckle... My wife has tried inserting whole fingers and it just hurts. Obviously I have never tried pegging either and never will, for me just the touching and fondling/licking is plenty.

Even with lube? Try the Pjur line of lubes. There is one called "Backdoor" (water based) and thicker; Pjur also has a line of silicone based lubes.

[Magnetism]

I like to give, but receiving doesn't do much for me.

[Stillness]

There are tales of people so into it that they can hear analingus.

[effy2014]

There are tales of people so into it that they can hear analingus.

Ah yes, effy the analingus whisperer.