[Roldy&Kumar]

I saw a thread up about black guys and felt the need to post one about asian guys as well to just get opinions. Unfortunately certain races of men are seen as less attractive than others by women. I for one notice that british women tend to strongly dislike anyone that looks pakistani, indian, or arabic because of the low status that men of that background have in that society. As an asian guy myself, I have had my issues with women because of my race and some have even said right to my face that asian me have small cocks. This thread is just about me getting an opinion, I don't see why it can't have the same amounts of discussion that thread about black men had.

This isn't about asian men reproducing in asia, this is about asian men and their success in doing so with other races and in non-asian countries.

[jns]

One of my coworkers is of Japanese ancestry. His wife was of European ancestry. Unfortunately she died of cancer a number of years ago.

There are more mixed marriages where the man is of European decent and the woman is of East Asian or Southeast Asian decent, but there are some the other way. In most western marriages, IMO, it is the woman who makes the final decision on whether to marry the guy. A lot of time is influenced by family or by ideals that were passed on by the parents. I have little knowledge about the dynamics of people of South Asian ancestry marrying with people of European ancestry.

Individuals can be biased in any number of ways. Some feel that it is necessary to be rude and hurtful to others. The package on the outside sometimes covers nastiness inside.

[Motorguy]

I never had sex with Asian men or ever will. But I have with a few Asian women they are a blast in bed from what I remember lol.

[Baboy]

I'm with you MG. I posted on the "black men" thread that I have not had sex with a black man and now I'll say that I have also avoided Asian men. Maybe black guys are too big for me, Asians too small? But then I have not had sex with any white guys either, or any guys at all, come to think of it. Thus I have been unable to participate in threads discussing the niceties of sex with circumcised men v. uncircumcised. Maybe we are missing out big time MG!.

My Asian wife suits me quite well, however. I think she'd prefer I stay true to her and not start straying with guys. So, at this stage in life, I don't suppose I want to disappoint her by switching teams.

[Stillness]

"Asian" is a race designation now? I thought it just says you're from Asia.

If women don't want you, maybe it's you and not the continent you're from. Because I'm a member of a Chinese-speaking congregation that associates closely with other Chinese congregations throughout the US, I see a lot of Chinese immigrants and their children married to, engaged to, or dating people who have been in America for generations. I don't know ratios, but I see it with the man being Chinese quite a bit.

You're going to run into prejudice anytime you date across cultural boundaries. We live in a nationalistic/racist/culturally prejudiced world.

[Magnetism]

It can be hard hearing people say they don't like a certain race, but I think it's a case-to-case basis. I have white female friends that only date Indian men. White woman/Indian men marriages are becoming more popular in the USA, just as white men/indian women unions. I have also found some East/SE Asian men attractive, but just never had the opportunity to date them. The problem with asking the internet if you like a certain race is bound to invite negative comments, and that may not be how the real world feels.

[jns]

How can a myth be true? Is that not an oxymoron?
. . .
The "penis size" issue has consumed many gigabytes of bandwidth hereabouts, complete with references to various worldwide studies, and on and on.

This is to delicious to pass on. The OP is taken to task for making an oxymoron (wasn't that named after Armand Hammer (He was the head of OXY and sometimes said moronic things)?). Then gigabytes, a term of amount, is used as a substitute for an amount per unit time (such as megabits per second or gigabits per second).

[Baboy]

Thanks for that jns. I was waiting to see if anyone would comment on that one.

[effy2014]

Lastly, could anyone seriously believe that Asian men, in general, are "small and unable to please a woman"? That would suggest that a very significant segment of the world's population is somehow defective and, concomitant with that, a very large portion of the world's women - those in Asian countries - cannot get pleasure from the men most commonly available to them. Perhaps I am in a minority, but to me the proposition comes across as preposterous.

Great post Baboy.

Quite frankly, I find these "have you ever been with [race, culture, religion]" to be rather offensive. Haven't we matured beyond or, perhaps, can we just move on from, these stereotypical or token posts/polls? The responses by our thoughtful members will always be the same -- people are people and should be judged by the content of their character (or in bed, by their giving nature).

[effy2014]

As an asian guy myself, I have had my issues with women because of my race and some have even said right to my face that asian me have small cocks. This thread is just about me getting an opinion, I don't see why it can't have the same amounts of discussion that thread about black men had.

If that is your intent, then a discussion thread about whether stereotypes deter women or men from seeing people of different races or ethic groups might get a better discussion.