[Elena_EvilEye]

Great post Baboy.

Quite frankly, I find these "have you ever been with [race, culture, religion]" to be rather offensive. Haven't we matured beyond or, perhaps, can we just move on from, these stereotypical or token posts/polls? The responses by our thoughtful members will always be the same -- people are people and should be judged by the content of their character (or in bed, by their giving nature).

The implications of these questions is to confirm the stereotypes like with Black men it's the BBC with "Asian men" (whatever that means) it's their inept in bed. You're absolutely right it should be about their content of character or their performance in bed not judging by race or ethnicity or hair colour or whatever.

[Stillness]

If that is your intent, then a discussion thread about whether stereotypes deter women or men from seeing people of different races or ethic groups might get a better discussion.

That would be a great discussion.

[Stillness]

Also, Welcome Roldy&Kumar! I hope we didn't discourage you with the negativity. Some of us just absolutely hated the "black guy" thread and wanted it to disappear into oblivion. I really do think the issue you raised is one worth discussing. If you worded it differently on a new thread, it might attract some decent discussion and give you some answers.

[DreamP346]

I am Asian, and have been with men of all different races. Let me just set the record straight. Performance in bed has nothing to do with race or ethnicity. It has to do with the man, his experience, his personality, etc. any woman who would judge a man's sexual performance on his race is not somebody worth anybody's time. That is just downright racism.

[Magnetism]

^It's just not race. I think it also has to do with whether the man is listening to what the woman wants, or is in sync with her preferences. I thought about making a thread on whether people felt that promiscuous partners were necessarily "better" in bed. I think I will do that now!

[Romy]

You ask a question and want an honest reply.... I am not interested in or attracted to Asian or Indian men. So no, I have never been with one.

[Stillness]

Romy, does you lack of interest and attraction have anything to do with penis size or social status? Those were the things that the OP mentioned as concerns.

If not, what accounts for it? Culture? Looks? Concerns about family or social acceptance? Just more interest in men from your own culture with whom you have more in common?

[Romy]

Romy, does you lack of interest and attraction have anything to do with penis size or social status? Those were the things that the OP mentioned as concerns.

If not, what accounts for it? Culture? Looks? Concerns about family or social acceptance? Just more interest in men from your own culture with whom you have more in common?

Until now Stillness it's not something I've given any thought to. I guess the first thing that comes to mind is that I am unconsciously drawn to men from my own culture because we do indeed have a lot more in common. I wouldn't be telling the truth if I said there wasn't a bit of social class coming into it and social acceptance as I don't know any mixed race couples and yes there is a stereotype of penis size and regardless of how well a man uses his penis I want to feel it inside me. I prefer my man to be average to average plus (in Caucasian statistics) especially in width. Having said that I'm not shallow. If I'd met a man, fallen in love and finally went to bed with him only to discover a small penis, I'd be very disappointed but I would keep my feelings to myself. It's physique as well. Asian and Indian men that I see don't tend to be as big as Caucasian men and I'm drawn to 6ft tall, well built men. I also prefer men with blue, green or grey eye colour but it's not a deal breaker. Bottom line I'm attracted to a certain type but I wouldn't be the only one.

I guess it's no different to some men preferring blonde over brunette, large breasts over small etc.

[atskitty2]

Hey Mags! Where's that post?

[JonDoe]

Myth Busted

Can we stop with the penis size threads based on skin color or other physical attributes? If not then let's kick it up a a few notches and cover every majority and minority the world over. I hear bald guys have huge cocks! No, I'm not bald, but I'm white and well endowed in case anyone is curious or taking stats.

Here's a fun fact: a white guy holds the record for the largest known penis at 13.5 inches (34.29 centimeters). Based on size to performance claims, he must be the big apple of every woman's eye. Poor fella, I certainly don't envy him. Despite urban legend most black guys are not well hung; they are in fact, well, average. Shocking I know! Any well documented statistical average differences based on skin color are insignificant and unnoticeable to even the best trained vagina.

It's certainly Ok to have a personal preference and openly share one's preference to a listening and thinking audience, but it is callous to lay any claims of size and/or performance based on one's limited personal experience, perhaps even worse to do so with no experience whatsoever. Some women claim black guys are bigger, yet have never seen a black man naked. Some women claim Asians are smaller, yet have never seen an Asian man naked. And perhaps the craziest of all, some women claim dumb guys are bigger. I can't speak for all men, but I'm willingly to submit to an IQ test and tape measure in the name of science and myth busting.

Anyone brave enough to start a vagina size thread? Which race of women have the biggest/smallest pussies? Is there a ratio to the size of a woman's mouth and vagina? Any wagers on how many positive/negative responses that post would receive or how many people would be banned? I'll risk going out on a very short limb (no pun intended) and say that I'm positive that I am not in the minority to find a thread on vagina size offensive.

Why do so many members (no pun intended) of our so called modern society still generalize and objectify people based on gender, physical attributes and ethnicity?