[WaveRider]

It is for women. They'll tell you when they're done cumming. The woman I'm seeing needs at least three, sometimes twice that. And she prefers oral sex orgasms. When she's exhausted from orgasms, she wants to be banged hard dog style, like a screen door in a hurricane. After she's rested and if she's spending the night, she'll want more.

[Stillness]

WaveRider Welcome to WH!

Can you base every woman's in the world sexual preferences on the one woman you're currently with?

[amy40]

the anticipation and the planning, definitely satisfying in itself

[WaveRider]

WaveRider Welcome to WH!

Can you base every woman's in the world sexual preferences on the one woman you're currently with?

Hi Stillness,

No. But I can write that I've yet to be with a woman who didn't love oral sex to orgasm. And I've yet to meet a woman who was good with one oral sex orgasm.

I've read more than one article that indicated that a woman's preferred method of orgasm was oral sex. In fact, it might be a good idea to Google, "Women's preferred method of orgasm."

Good luck, Stillness

[WaveRider]

Hi amy40,

You are so right. Sex begins long before a couple gets inside of a bedroom. It begins when a dude picks up a woman for a date. How she wears what she wears will reveal her intentions.

[Stillness]

Hi Stillness,

No. But I can write that I've yet to be with a woman who didn't love oral sex to orgasm. And I've yet to meet a woman who was good with one oral sex orgasm.

I've read more than one article that indicated that a woman's preferred method of orgasm was oral sex. In fact, it might be a good idea to Google, "Women's preferred method of orgasm."

Good luck, Stillness

I guarantee you women not into oral sex exist. They're no more monolithic than us. In fact, the nerves running to their genital area have more individual variation than ours, so we're the more sexual straightforward and monolithic of the sexes.

I did Google womens' preferred method of orgasm. The first link I found was a study of 4800 men and women. They only preferred oral sex slightly more than us ~ 13% and 11%. Intercourse was by far the preferred method for men and women ~ 67% for men and 49% for women.

[WaveRider]

Stillness,

You might be right. I've never run into one, but if you have, she would have to be the exception.

A good idea would be to query women here about their prefer method of orgasm. I'd go with far more than most will reply, "Oral sex."

[WaveRider]

BTW, Stillness, it's not whether women prefer oral sex, it's their preferred method of orgasm. And here. it's oral sex.

[Stillness]

BTW, Stillness, it's not whether women prefer oral sex, it's their preferred method of orgasm.

Yes, that's what the study was gathering numbers on. Have you googled it?

Here's a quote from the study I found:

When asked about preferences in method for achieving orgasm, there were some slight gender differences.

• Masturbation: preferred method by 2.3% of men and 8.0% of women
• Oral sex: preferred method by 10.6% of men and 12.6% of women
• Intercourse**: preferred method by 66.9% of men and 48.9% of women
• No preference was expressed by 20.1% of men and 28.0% of women

I don't think that your experiences are uncommon, I just think you may not be getting what's happening. Most women will have orgasms more readily from more direct clitoral contact. So if they want to climax more easily, quickly, or regularly they may desire that. But in general, intercourse is the ideal method, just like with men.

[atskitty2]

I'm a woman, and I agree with Still. Generally, I prefer to O from intercourse, but if oral is how it's going to happen I will take it, and I would have said that's my preference 10'yrs ago. I think I never orgasmed from intercourse with my ex, always by oral or manual.

I think the studies may pose questions in such a way that availability and ability are not identified separately so it makes the answers a bit misleading. Does that make sense?