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    does anyone have any experience of orgasm denial, not letting him come for mutual pleasure
    Last edited by Alison H.; 05-01-2021, 12:30 PM.

  • There are men who have this problem. Unless you are physically keeping him from doing this, this is not your problem. On a Sexual Forum, as of yesterday, there are 320 hits on men who have this problem....With this knowledge, it may have nothing to do with you whatsoever....TC, C

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    • I am sorry I forgot to add...It is called Retarded Ejaculation....

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      • You missed the point Caroline.

        She was talking about intentionally denying the orgasm for the man as a sexual game..

        And I like it - if it has an end, which I suppose defeats the purpose.

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        • Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale View Post
          You missed the point Caroline.

          She was talking about intentionally denying the orgasm for the man as a sexual game..

          And I like it - if it has an end, which I suppose defeats the purpose.
          I guess I did....If the erotic thrill of holding out and going at it again then this too could be a sexual turn on.....I believe in sex that anything that makes you beg for the other and the filling of your sexual cavity of love more erotic, go for it.......These are the acts of passion that make for one happy relationship.....TC, C

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          • I wandered on over here with the intention of asking a question about this and what do I find... heh

            Actually, I was going to ask about using c**ck rings but the same principle applies.

            I understand delaying orgasm or edging makes for an intense orgasm when it finally happens. Its fun to tease and drive a man wild wanting that release. Im curious tho... when rings are used, arent they just plain uncomfortable? I have very limited experience with rings and even that didn't go well (for him) Do men really like these? Anyone have positive experience with them?

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            • Well, i found that interesting.

              Now, of course trust is well trust so if someone "you know" says something you will believe it until proven wrong and what can i say, seeing as i will get that chance, he has to be telling it like it is.

              That being that i also believe that you can "train yourself" to hold back and only have very small, orgasms holding of till the total climax, the end.....

              Now i can't wait, sorry.....

              CW
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • Originally posted by Uneeklyme View Post
                I wandered on over here with the intention of asking a question about this and what do I find... heh

                Actually, I was going to ask about using c**ck rings but the same principle applies.

                I understand delaying orgasm or edging makes for an intense orgasm when it finally happens. Its fun to tease and drive a man wild wanting that release. Im curious tho... when rings are used, arent they just plain uncomfortable? I have very limited experience with rings and even that didn't go well (for him) Do men really like these? Anyone have positive experience with them?
                We tried c**ck rings and hated them....Uncomfortable and he felt intimidated with it on.....Threw three brand new one's in the box away....

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                • Originally posted by macca1001 View Post
                  does anyone have any experience of orgasm denial, not letting him come for mutual pleasure
                  It is a fine game. One common variant is to tie him up, tease him mercelessly, then "make" him do oral on you until you finish, before you finish him.

                  Another (more S/M-like) game is to keep stimulating him after he finishes - can drive him completely insane.

                  Another (works on men or some women) is to set a time limit where the victim tries not to cum, while the other tries to force them to. There is either a sexual reward or punishment depending on whether they succeed.

                  Don't think any of these are in any way harmful, so if you both enjoy, have fun. But - as with any bondage-like behavior, safe word is a good idea.

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                  • C0ck rings aren't about stopping the man from orgasm, they're about maintaining a powerful erection. I've never actually used one, but I have even made myself climax with vibrations at the base of my penis, so vibrating c0ck rings etc. are potentially good fun (and can rub the clit too).

                    As you mention as well CW, I can (only with me in control with myself, not someone else) have several half orgasms (with ejaculation) before the proper one, although with 2 half orgasms first the 3rd final one become harder to obtain and generally less satisfying.

                    Also, I might add that safe words cannot work if you're gagged with a tie or some duck tape or something! It only happened the one time, but I inadvertantly sort of put my partner through a bit of trauma before I realised that she was in pain (she was sort of getting strangled by a chain and it's easy to mistake pain noise for pleasure noises....) So in any sort of bondage situation always pay close attention to any discomfort the other might be in!

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                    • Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale View Post
                      C0ck rings aren't about stopping the man from orgasm, they're about maintaining a powerful erection. I've never actually used one, but I have even made myself climax with vibrations at the base of my penis, so vibrating c0ck rings etc. are potentially good fun (and can rub the clit too).

                      As you mention as well CW, I can (only with me in control with myself, not someone else) have several half orgasms (with ejaculation) before the proper one, although with 2 half orgasms first the 3rd final one become harder to obtain and generally less satisfying.

                      Also, I might add that safe words cannot work if you're gagged with a tie or some duck tape or something! It only happened the one time, but I inadvertantly sort of put my partner through a bit of trauma before I realised that she was in pain (she was sort of getting strangled by a chain and it's easy to mistake pain noise for pleasure noises....) So in any sort of bondage situation always pay close attention to any discomfort the other might be in!
                      YES...quite right ...but she could always grind your stiletto in the scrotal region whilst getting whipped or spanked with the paddle !!...hes bound to get the message ...only joking ....or am i ?.

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                      • Originally posted by Private.Flangeamin View Post
                        YES...quite right ...but she could always grind your stiletto in the scrotal region whilst getting whipped or spanked with the paddle !!...hes bound to get the message ...only joking ....or am i ?.

                        How is she standing? Being spanked with that paddle to be able to do that? Just asking...

                        And, that would have been ..... her stiletto? Ouch.....


                        ANON:- Mmm, didn't think of that, that's not fair if the final orgasm for him is not as great, i'll have to work out a few nice things then in between.....

                        CW
                        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                        • Originally posted by Private.Flangeamin View Post
                          YES...quite right ...but she could always grind your stiletto in the scrotal region whilst getting whipped or spanked with the paddle !!...hes bound to get the message ...only joking ....or am i ?.
                          But if you've tied her up properly she won't even be able to move an inch .

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                          • I am sure i'm not allowing Catherine to answer here, to both.....

                            But, well, it's early there?

                            But, how many scarfes do you honestly think, a woman keeps in her bedroom?

                            I mean they went out along time ago, ANON?



                            CW
                            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                            • Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH View Post
                              But, how many scarfes do you honestly think, a woman keeps in her bedroom?

                              I mean they went out along time ago, ANON?
                              How many men do you think have a roll of duck tape? Or a rope? How many belts can you get your hands on? There's more than enough ways to completely imobilize someone, especially to a man of ingenuity .

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