[amy40]

I oughta marry her.

jump off the cliff; you only have one life to live

on the precipice twice and jumped both times
getting married/becoming a parent were very scary to me but glad took the risk

[jns]

jump off the cliff; you only have one life to live

on the precipice twice and jumped both times
getting married/becoming a parent were very scary to me but glad took the risk

WaveRider, as much as I like Amy's advice, be certain that marriage won't change the dynamics of your relationship before taking the plunge.

[amy40]

WaveRider, as much as I like Amy's advice, be certain that marriage won't change the dynamics of your relationship before taking the plunge.

he knows marriage would change things
committment and all that good stuff til death do us part

but thinking he loves her and why not marry for love?

[jns]

he knows marriage would change things
committment and all that good stuff til death do us part

but thinking he loves her and why not marry for love?

Love may be good for getting married, but it is not enough for the marriage to continue. And if the marriage has a chance to fail, see previous posts by WR about divorce here in CA.

[atskitty2]

Seriously? Their relationship is based on sex. As I've understood him previously, he has contemplated ending it. Doesn't sound like a good foundation for marriage to me.
I think he was being silly, sarcastic or smth with that comment. Have I been misunderstanding your other posts all this time WR?

WR, not intended to speak about you, as if you aren't in the room. . lol

[WaveRider]

Hi jns,

No, I ain't gonna tie any knot with her. We do get along, have a lot in common, and share the most incredible sex either of us has ever had. But she has a sense of entitlement and elitism that ****es me off. If she were to keep her mouth shut about how she believes people are inferior to her, we'd get along perfectly.

[WaveRider]

Hi atskitty2,

While a healthy part of our relationship is the most incredible sex imaginable, we do share other commonalities. I could sit on her couch and watch a movie with her without bending her over a couch, and believe me, she loves to be bent over.

Sexually, we're 100% compatible. In other areas, no so much. Her sense of entitlement and elitism are deal breakers.

We're doing dinner tonight. I'll know as soon as I see her if she wants to be banged like a screen door in a category 5 hurricane. When she wears revealing clothes, she's horny. When she's dressed conservatively, she'll likely get horny.

[Maisie Dayz]

Some women just don't like giving bj's.... doesn't necessarily mean she's had a bad experience in the past, just doesn't want to do it!
May not appeal to her, could be a hygiene issue etc etc...... not everyone is into oral sex.
Perhaps you could learn to 'last longer' during sex, if that's what she prefers.
The menopause may create issue's with libido but doesn't necessarily put you off performing a particular act.

[muffin70]

Some women just don't like giving bj's.... doesn't necessarily mean she's had a bad experience in the past, just doesn't want to do it!
May not appeal to her, could be a hygiene issue etc etc...... not everyone is into oral sex.
Perhaps you could learn to 'last longer' during sex, if that's what she prefers.
The menopause may create issue's with libido but doesn't necessarily put you off performing a particular act.

I think that's probably it - I just don't think she likes giving blow jobs.....

I would love to be able to 'last longer' during intercourse - I don't know how this is possible because my wife is very attractive and if she's really horny and wet down there my chances of lasting longer that 1-2 minutes is very remote! I'd love to be able to bang her like a porn star for 5-10 minutes before ejaculating, but I can't see that happening anytime soon.

[Stillness]

You ever do kegel exercises? It makes a huge difference.