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Have You Ever Let A Guy Cum Inside You? Do You Want To?

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  • A wise man will know what a woman wants. The best way to know what she wants is to ask her. Cumming inside a woman w/o prior authorization is risky in many ways. Always ask until you thoroughly know a woman.


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    • Hi JxK,

      You sound like all women I've known. Some have been candid when it came to men cumming. A man's orgasm was the apex of their sexuality.

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      • Hi Ashlee,

        I completely agree with your article.

        It's wise for a man to seek permission than beg forgiveness when it comes to cumming inside a woman. Avoiding a problem is much more wise than trying to correct one.

        My g/f has had her tubes tied. But that does not always mean I'm free to cum inside of her. Early in our dating phase, she told me that she has never like semen seeping from her when it was inconvenient. I understood that to mean I had better ask before sex. She did appreciate my asking. Now I thoroughly know her. I know what I can and can't do. More importantly, I know what she wants and doesn't want.

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        • Yes.... Always. And. Love it.

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          • Very recently my g/f told me that she has girlfriends and has known girlfriends who detested/have detested cum. My g/f loves it with the caveat that many men have tasted horrible, which she chalked up to cigarettes, illegal drugs, and hard alcohol. My g/f might not always like to swallow it, but she loves it on her body.

            My g/f's ex was on psych meds. She said his cum was the worst she's tasted.

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            • When she's old enough that pregnancy is no longer a possibility, cuming inside her is the best, for both of us! Such a very intimate experience. Just as I love feeling her contractions as she cums, she can feel it when I ejaculate, and she loves it.

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              • i think its the peak of enjoyment, holding it tight inside and it just vibrates , fires like a Gun and releases hot gum.

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                • Good article! I agree that the urge to let cum inside you can be overwhelming. It seems deeply instinctual, which makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. Females that feel a deep desire for the male to cum inside their vaginas would obviously be more likely to pass their genes on to their offspring.

                  I've read that the reason women are so loud and vocal during sex may be the result of natural selection as well. The female's vocalizations during sex can excite the male, causing him to be ejaculate inside her more quickly. When I'm having really good vaginal sex, I sometimes find myself automatically saying to the man "Cum inside me, I want you to cum inside me!" or "I want your cum, give me your cum!"

                  That said, my preference has always been for the male not to cum inside me. Since I became sexually active at age 15, I've always had the idea that it was risky for a man to cum inside me. I'm worried about getting pregnant and about getting a STD. I've had three unintended pregnancies, even when using contraception, so I am really anxious about letting a man cum inside me. I've also had problems with sexual infections. An additional factor is that I find that condoms irritate my vagina, as if I have an allergic reaction to latex.

                  For these reasons, I've always much preferred that the man cum in my mouth, on my face, or somewhere else on my body. I almost always tell a man before having sex that I don't want him to cum inside me and that I want to finish him off orally. This is usually not a problem since most men love having a woman finish them orally.

                  The article is also very accurate about the problem on semen leaking out of the vagina long after sex. Sometimes I find my vagina leaking semen in the middle of the next day, which is really inconvenient and embarrassing. That's another advantage of having the man cum in my mouth; I swallow so it can be the least messy way to take a man's cum.
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                  I do sometimes let a man cum inside me if he is someone I know well and trust. I do love these times because it satisfies such a deep need. I love feeling the man shudder and groan as he cums deep inside me. It's so delicious and satisfying

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                  • That article was an excellent read and so well written!

                    I'm not sure if my husband and I fit into any fetish category but while some people hate the "mess", we both happen to love the abundant fluids during and after sex for many reasons. The first being how it elevates the intimacy level when we are bonded so closely and release ourselves totally to our partner during an orgasm. I say "we" because I also have very wet orgasms (or squirt) during sex. Just prior to my husband finishing inside me, I can literally feel his penis harden even more and his whole body stiffens up for several seconds. Its a great personal feeling to know I have that effect on him.

                    Our mutual affinity for the aftermath perhaps separates us from most couples. I can understand how many women are uncomfortable with "leakage" several hours after, or even the next day but I personally get turned on when I feel the wetness developing between my legs long after when the adventure took place.

                    Up until I read the article, I didn't know what the term "felching" was. Up until I started dating my husband, no other partner had ever gone down on me after sex nor did I ever think about it as being a sexual act. Without disclosing too many details, as it turns out, his fetish suddenly became mine. Ever since, we have both embraced "finishing inside" without hesitation.



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                    • I'm in a committed relationship with a partner and we don't use condoms or other barriers during sex, so yes, he cums in me, and I enjoy being able to do that with him - primarily because I know how much he enjoys it. That being said, I don't enjoy the mess it makes afterward and I don't allow him to cum on my bare skin - face, chest, etc. because I don't like how it feels on my skin.

                      He enjoys cumming in me so much that during blowjobs, he'll have me stop and finish inside me.

                      Not every partner I've had over the years has had those privileges but thankfully every partner has respected my boundaries and used a condom. A few tried to get me to change my mind (many years ago) but no one has violated my consent by not wearing one or taking it off during sex just so they can cum inside me.

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