[Guest]

Yeah sorry about my long posts.

But what im reading and i do agree that i need to admit or be put into a mental hospital to get the help i need although im not sure what treatment i would get or what happens, but i went to my shrink on thurday (yesterday) as shes made an appointment to see a colleage of hers that runs a mental hospital and im terrified but i asked will she admit me, and my shrink said no as my problem isnt serious enough im not sure if shes just saying that so i dont worry and when i will go i will get admitted (in away i hope thats the case) but as i said im scared but i want help to stop this i know its very serious and dont understand my shrink saying i wont be admitted when i see her collegue, but most of you are saying MENTAL HOSPITAL and no matter how its sounds and how scared i think thats best but i cant do it as im a wimp tbh, but we will see what happens Teusday when i go there, i hate upsetting people when im horny and doing what i am.

But i do read your posts and most things ive tried and 1 or 2 i havnt which im happy to try, but in ayway all i see is MENTAL HOSPITAL but want to try find out what treatment i would get or medication or even operations, but i want to STOP.

[talk time]

Go on tuesday and ask the questions, what can they do for you? I hope you get the help you are looking for. It's great that you are looking.

Good Luck

tt

[Little]

Talk time is right, you should be asking the questions like "what can they do for me?" Ask any questions you have.
And don't be ashamed of yourself for trying to get help in any way you can. You should feel proud that you have enough courage to go out and try to help yourself and save a potential victim from your exhibitionism. Whether all you need is to continue seeing your counselor (who from the sounds of it doesn't take your problems seriously) or you need to go to a facility, don't be ashamed. You're moving in the right direction and doing the right things.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Talk time is right, you should be asking the questions like "what can they do for me?" Ask any questions you have.
And don't be ashamed of yourself for trying to get help in any way you can. You should feel proud that you have enough courage to go out and try to help yourself and save a potential victim from your exhibitionism. Whether all you need is to continue seeing your counselor (who from the sounds of it doesn't take your problems seriously) or you need to go to a facility, don't be ashamed. You're moving in the right direction and doing the right things.

Can't say that better.

Carl, take out the words MENTAL HOSPITAL.. More than likely your viewing it like you would if you were watching a movie.

A hospital, is a hospital, we all go to one somewhere along the line, pending on what help we need.

Your sick, not loony...

When you see those two words, see SICK HOSPITAL...

CW

[Guest]

Yeah i know chandler but still the thought scares me, as if they do say i have to stay im not sure what happens when im in there, will i be drugged up will they even castrate me not sure how they will treat me, will i be classed as sex offender when they hear about what happend with the 14yr old and then what treatment, i know i WANT help but just the thought like i say freaks me out and even now i have butterflies and even made myself sick bcuz im scared.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Fair call Carl.

At this point in time.... You are not admitted. Nor do you have to admit yourself.

At this point in time, you should be doing as others suggest "ask questions"..

I am not a Lawyer, but i deal in a lot of it. Real Estate, find print...

Do NOT sign anything until you have read the entire context if you dont' understand, seek legal "free advice" on it.

And, can i ask is your Mum okay with you? Will she stand by you in the point of being supportive at least, as it will assist if someone can well, hold your hand, not literally.

At this point you are questioning, so don't be frightened, continue questioning grab the paper work, keep questioning... there are free services i believe, everywhere.

The point i was making your not MENTAL< rather SICK, so don't look at those words MENTAL HOSPITAL... geez,All the actors/actresses that are addicted to drugs/alcohol could be mental for a short term, at the end of the day..

Point i was making.

But DON'T SIGN anything you don't understand.

But DON'T DISS IT either, and make that an excuse.

Dot the i's, cross the t's.

CW

[miffed23]

Firstly, youre not mental...like CW said, youre poorly / sick / unwell....

This is an addiction that youre feeding, similar to any other addiction - just on a different scale....youve fed it for too long and would i be correct in saying its got worse? If so, think of it that way....its got worse, its going to get worse unless you do something about it now (which i see that you are)

Youve had some great advice offered on here, and its all advice that is easy to say yet difficult to hear.

Yes, "mental hospital" sounds scary...but personally, castration sounds more drastic. Use the outcome as an initative to get better....i feel this addiction stems wildly from the fact that youre a virgin, as if it stemmed from the fact that those two ar*ehole girls molested you, you would be restraining yourself from sexual deeds? Thats how i see it?

Im with Hystorm, you dont want to end up in jail....which more chance than not, is inevitable.

Keep us updated, and stop apologising....make the situation change so you dont have to apologise.

[Guest]

Well i do feel like im a sex offender, but what i do know is i want to stop exposing myself when im horny and masturbating infront of women/girls and even guys sometimes, i want to STOP no matter what, as for my mom im not sure shes said i need help and even mentioned castration ya know i do wish i didnt have a sex drive then i cant upset anyone or do what im doing, like i said i goto the other shrink this tuesday and its at a medium mental hospital, and yes im scared she will say we have no choice and have to admit you before you do somethink more then expose yourself and masturbate to young girls etc, and hand on my heart i hope they do no matter how long it takes, at least in there i cant upset or hurt anyone anymore accept for in there, i am going though i wasnt going to as terrified but if i want help which i do then i have to so i will let you know, im not sure how honest i have to be, do i have to tell them all the sexual things going on in my head, besides what she will know about my exposing myself etc, should i tell her (if she dont know) about what i went through with the firends daughter, i will say i think about sex nearly 24/7 its always on my mind what is it like, how does it feel but since what happend when i was younger i cant do it cant even do it with a hooker although tried, but anyway i do read what you all say and im more then gratefull but for now and no matter how terrified i am, i have to attend the hospital and see what happens from there, and i know i dont know you all i hope its ok if i post what happens thats if they dont say ive goto stay but we will see.

again thank you all

carl

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Sure, everyone here would like to know how it goes, and hope that you get whatever it is that you need to help you.

You could always try and find a psychology-specific forum, hopefully one with a few specifically knowledgable people or professionals that could tell you a bit more about what to expect.

[Little]

Insane people don't know they're insane. Like CW said, you're ill. You have acknowledged your problem and can get over it with help.
I'm pretty sure that if YOU admit YOURSELF to a hospital, you can get out whenever you want. I don't think that they really castrate sex offenders ... some victims wish they would, but I don't think they really do.
Ask about your fears. Don't just let it happen. Ask them, "can this happen to me?" "What would have to consent for that kind of operation?" etc.