[CHANDLERS WISH]

It seems that the new Doctor is dealing with "facts" and that's a good thing..

Regarding the 14 year old... You've mentioned her quite a few times and a fear of telling of this scenario.

If i read correctly, you were in "her toilet" at her Mother's house, masterbating and she walked in...

Whilst you feel ashamed of this, understandably, as you were at someone elses home, if i am correct.

She walked in.. It's not that you were watching her, then approached and did that.

That to me is a different scenario and i think you will be fine explaining this...

Sounds also like the internet may be a way of expressing only, as you are here, not using it for conversation that seems to get you into trouble.....

It's good that you took that step and that you are taking further steps...

Best wishes.

CW

[Guest]

Im still alittle confused about my first visit, i thought she might have asked about school and being abused but she didnt, and also what even done sexual trouble wise, but she never did she just delt with what im doing at min, she said next time i go she wants to deal with the pleasure side of things (not sure what that means), i will say i felt a right idiot as i broke down crying like a baby and just felt so pathetic, even when i post here especialy the women you must think im some right sado havin now control over myself when im horny etc, anyway i would have thought she would have asked about school, when i was younger and got introuble with police for exposing myself when i was 17 i think, but since then i havnt done a thing (trouble wise), untill these past 2 yrs, anyway think im ranting on so i will be quiet.

cheers
carl

[talk time]

I'm glad you went and it is important you keep going. Good on you. It is a process and it sounds like the dr knows what they are doing.

She will ask for more of the story as the sessions go on no doubt and just keep being honest. She needs to know everthing that is going on before she can give you the best stragegies to deal with it.

you have started the journey, don't get disallusioned, just keep traveling.

tt

[Guest]

Yeah i know im seeking help, but although it was yesterday for me it was even worse as i got a full blown hard on while talking to her and i needed to masturbate so badly, and i didnt know if i was suppost to tell her how i was feeling or not, but when it was over i had to find a public toielt to masturbate. life sucks tbh

[Fallen1]

She will ask for more of the story as the sessions go on no doubt and just keep being honest. She needs to know everthing that is going on before she can give you the best stragegies to deal with it.

I agree with talk time. The first initial visit was just the beginning. She was probably getting a "summary" of what your issue is and getting a feel for who you are. Once she knows what she/you are dealing with I'm sure she will delve deeper into it getting background/past information.

Good luck and keep us posted.

[Guest]

After "it was" should have been "", how do i edit my posts here, or cant you do that !

[Fallen1]

After "it was" should have been "", how do i edit my posts here, or cant you do that !

I'm assuming that maybe the missing word should have been h*ll?

We have an automatic censoring program installed here and it deletes certain words that some may find offensive.

[Guest]

I'm assuming that maybe the missing word should have been h*ll?

We have an automatic censoring program installed here and it deletes certain words that some may find offensive.

Yeah didnt know there was a censore thing on forums proberly a good idea, do wish i could edit my posts though some dont make sence sometimes, anyway cheers fallen

[Hystorm]

Good on you for your continual efforts.

Keep going and never look back.

[Guest]

Yeah still hard, and doing things i dont want to be doing still.

Life sucks