[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sex is a physical act. Love enhances what sex can be. It's an emotional sex toy.

You have sex in every physical act... the one night stand, the uck buddy and the lover. There is always sex.

Now, sex with the one night stand or uck buddy or whatever, I am enclined to either kick them out of the bed and send em packin directly after sex or I would get dressed and get out directly after. No kissy, huggy, post coital glowing shared with a love. Sex with someone you love more often than not you bask in afterglow cuddled up to your lover maybe talking and purring at each other even if its just for a few minutes. You lay around with each other after going so high together and come down together blissfully. You've just made love and felt all the love right along with the physical pleasure of sex. With a one night stand or uck buddy, you just had the physical pleasure of sex.

The quicky... IMO unacceptable with a one night stand or uck buddy. With a love, I love that they take their pleasure with me knowing they are doing it with love and respect. If I dont get mine during a quicky, I know my lover will make it up to me at another time... one night stand or uck buddy...they don't really give a crud about your pleasure now or later. Its just sex and they are out to just get off as much you may be. No strings, no feelings.

Wicked version of exactly WHAT i am talking about.

There is a difference, and i've noted that most get that and it's expression, more than anything else.

Interesting, that you make a statement true to fact, the cuddling after, being in each other's space, pure intimacy...

Perhaps i should start a thread, pertaining to how do you view INTIMACY?

Well said.

[C]

Wicked version of exactly WHAT i am talking about.

There is a difference, and i've noted that most get that and it's expression, more than anything else.

Interesting, that you make a statement true to fact, the cuddling after, being in each other's space, pure intimacy...

Perhaps i should start a thread, pertaining to how do you view INTIMACY?

Well said.

What I described in my answer was the difference between the two kinds of sexual contacts...You and the poster you answered have had more than one sexual intercourse contacts...I haven't so I can only speak of what I am and feel...

When I want sex, I get sex..It is the brand of sex that is wild and wonderful and can happen anywhere....When we want to make love, it is different..Just about always in bed....It is so much better with age than words would be able to do justice to...Just my thoughts...

[CHANDLERS WISH]

What I described in my answer was the difference between the two kinds of sexual contacts...You and the poster you answered have had more than one sexual intercourse contacts...I haven't so I can only speak of what I am and feel...

When I want sex, I get sex..It is the brand of sex that is wild and wonderful and can happen anywhere....When we want to make love, it is different..Just about always in bed....It is so much better with age than words would be able to do justice to...Just my thoughts...

I haven't had that many C,

What you wrote is the deep passion of love between two people, whereby sex and love match in every sphere.

What i picked up that i felt was "wicked" was the "intimacy" of holding each other after, "making love", as one aspect, but basically, intimacy which doesn't happen in a one night stand, you get up, get out that's it.

Call me a romantic but sex is sex, making love and intimacy is well what was the words you and i both used when i joined? "Going in the Zone.....

CW

[C]

I haven't had that many C,

What you wrote is the deep passion of love between two people, whereby sex and love match in every sphere.

What i picked up that i felt was "wicked" was the "intimacy" of holding each other after, "making love", as one aspect, but basically, intimacy which doesn't happen in a one night stand, you get up, get out that's it.

Call me a romantic but sex is sex, making love and intimacy is well what was the words you and i both used when i joined? "Going in the Zone.....

CW

No, they do not match...You go a different place with each....Intimacy is different....It is this wonderful explosion into myself and letting myself loose that has allowed me to talk about this place in me that many women do not nor will ever know....It is hot holy place of erotic passion that is unheard of....How many women are passion and lust for a man for as many years as I am and yet perfected it to lust in all degrees of the imagination...

No honey...I have never had to go into the zone as you say since I ejaculated...I hate to bring this up but it has to be said...I hate to flaunt it...I am the zone...It never stops...I am sexually ready at all times...Intimacy....I could write something but it would probably be banned so I keep quiet...

[C]

You want something bold....Here it is....I have age...I am not young and beautiful BUT I can say without any doubt that I am the sexual perfection in a woman that any woman or man would die for.....Now with this statement I may never come back here and just stay with my site but it is said....That is how I can write what I do.....And I don't know how in the hel* that I got here...and I know that it will never go away..Take care and love to all...Caroline

[CHANDLERS WISH]

You want something bold....Here it is....I have age...I am not young and beautiful BUT I can say without any doubt that I am the sexual perfection in a woman that any woman or man would die for.....Now with this statement I may never come back here and just stay with my site but it is said....That is how I can write what I do.....And I don't know how in the hel* that I got here...and I know that it will never go away..Take care and love to all...Caroline

I hate to flaunt it...I am the zone...It never stops...I am sexually ready at all times

Seems, me has some things to look forward to .............

[miffed23]

I think you can both make love AND have sex with someone you're in love with. Sometimes the BF and I will spend all day in bed fooling around and being together and end the night with amazing, passionate, loving sex, and other times it's frenzied, on the couch, loud, messy and over in 5 minutes. It's def. about the mood.

Agreed....

Why do others always put my point across better than i do?

[SinisterUrge]

So despite many attempts to discredit my sex=making love theorum, basically everyone is saying the same thing. Making love is just sex in every tangible measurable way, the only thing thats different is in the mind of the sex-haver. Making love is what the scientific community calls a "placebo". Its the same only its not because you seem to think it isn't.

[Fallen1]

I think the term "sex" and the term "making love" describes two different attitudes at which the same act is done.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

SinisterUrge
So despite many attempts to discredit my sex=making love theorum, basically everyone is saying the same thing. Making love is just sex in every tangible measurable way, the only thing thats different is in the mind of the sex-haver.

Na that's all in your MIND...

Fallen1
I think the term "sex" and the term "making love" describes two different attitudes at which the same act is done.

Yes, to both of the above, i believe that your MIND/ATTIDUTE determines the way you view and think of sex as an act, at that time.

If you have strong emotions, you will view it as intimate, with love, lust, desire and emotions. If it is someone you don't know, don't care for you will still have sex/make love, both, but with a different mindset. It just is.....

CW