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  • Fallen1
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 1937

    Originally posted by Fallen1
    I don't see why you would love giving oral but you don't understand why a guy wouldn't. To me one is the same as the other. I can however see why a guy would be apprehensive about it if his girl didn't shave and was all natural.

    I love both giving and receiving .... although I admit I am quite persistent that I am clean before I will "allow" him to give to me.
    Originally posted by muskito
    Fallen1 : why would a guy not like to give oral on a non-shaved lady, women used to not shave, I am close to 50 and have never shaved. I never realised that would withold men from giving oral! Hmmm.... interesting!
    If you re-read my post you will see that I said I could understand if a guy were apprehensive why he would be - maybe I should have said "might" instead of "would".

    I mentioned it because I've known men and women (bi-sexual) say that they prefer shaven because they claim the hair gets in the way and do not like it getting in their mouths.
    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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    • owlhunter
      Senior Member
      • Jul 2008
      • 101

      Ladies, did you know that you all have a different taste. Yup, you do.

      And you can definitely tell if a woman is a vegetarian. Have not experience with vegans.

      now please do not get all upset. Different foods have different tastes too. And it is not that one women is better than another, but each of you has a unique taste/smell.

      It's nice. You never know what you are going to find. Like trying a new wine.

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        Originally posted by owlhunter
        Ladies, did you know that you all have a different taste. Yup, you do.

        And you can definitely tell if a woman is a vegetarian. Have not experience with vegans.

        now please do not get all upset. Different foods have different tastes too. And it is not that one women is better than another, but each of you has a unique taste/smell.

        It's nice. You never know what you are going to find. Like trying a new wine.
        Owlhunter???? Did you know that men have different tastes, yup they do.

        And, you can definately tell if a man is a meat eater, pie eater, beer drinker, it shows in his gut, eventually.

        And, i personally think that debating thoughts is quiet interesting, doubt that a Mod would actually "get upset" either, she's chosen because she can be constructive with her thoughts...

        Mmm, laughing yes, different foods have different tastes, off course, that's just a fact.

        And those last two lines are quite out there, we have different tastes and smells? It's nice? Like a new wine?

        Love, we are not here for you Men, wanting to experience and taste us all, so you can establish the different smell, taste of us and um, feel like you've just drank a brand spanking new wine.

        But, if that is the way that you see women, i know i would be locking my door if ever you knocked.

        That would be like me saying, i love men, they come in different shapes and sizes, like a box of chocolates, you never know what your going to get, one nut or two, dark or milky oh and what would it taste like, they all taste so different.

        Imagine, what people would think of me, there is a word for it i believe.

        Or Crass... for a male thinking like that.

        Just my opinion....

        Because i can.

        It's called debating.

        CW
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • tristis
          Member
          • Jul 2008
          • 59

          Originally posted by owlhunter
          Ladies, did you know that you all have a different taste. Yup, you do.

          And you can definitely tell if a woman is a vegetarian. Have not experience with vegans.

          now please do not get all upset. Different foods have different tastes too. And it is not that one women is better than another, but each of you has a unique taste/smell.

          It's nice. You never know what you are going to find. Like trying a new wine.
          Whoa. Outta curiosity, which do you think tastes the best? o_o Like, between a vegetarian and a non-vegetarian.

          Sometimes I don't eat meat for about a month sometimes I eat it a lot so would that mean my taste changes a lot o_o Never thought about that. Then again I don't usually taste myself so I wouldn't notice the difference. ;P

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          • Phoebee
            Veteran Member
            • Jul 2008
            • 238

            DH always was willing to do oral but he really liked it when I started shaving. I felt a bit weird doing it for a while and it was on and off. Then he told me how a "hair" got stuck between his teeth and another was tickling his tonsels and I started shaving most of the time.

            I don't do nearly as much Oral sex on him and he does on me. Thats a long story and its an odd one because he wasn't comfortable receiving it.

            I think someone should start a new poll. Ask women if they are ok kissing DH after he does oral sex? For me I would like to pass on that. I'm a little uncomfortable tasting myself.

            I'm also not fond of 69. It just doesn't seem to work to have both people trying to do it at the same time and I'm uncomfortable in that position. Worried about choking etc...
            "Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got." ~ Janis Joplin

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            • Guest

              Originally posted by owlhunter
              Absolutely. Communication is absolutely necessary, in all things sexual with a partner. I have had very few BJs in my life. Current partner is first one who has activly participated. She is also first partner I have ever been open with about my wants, needs desires, etc. always afraid before to express my desires for fear my partner would think I was weird/sick, etc.

              I actually get more pleasure from HJ. Secret is good lub. You need the silicon based lubs, they never go dry. And it takes communications for her to know how I like it. She has no way of knowing what feels good. Same for other things we do together. Goes both ways. Without communication your partner is flying blind. And what one partner may like another may not, so it is very individual.

              HJ = hand job? Wow, never heard that one before. But as you said you had very few BJs in your life. Maybe change girl friends, I am sure there are women out there that could "blow" you over the hill, handsfree!!

              Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
              Owlhunter???? Did you know that men have different tastes, yup they do.

              And, you can definately tell if a man is a meat eater, pie eater, beer drinker, it shows in his gut, eventually.

              And, i personally think that debating thoughts is quiet interesting, doubt that a Mod would actually "get upset" either, she's chosen because she can be constructive with her thoughts...

              Mmm, laughing yes, different foods have different tastes, off course, that's just a fact.

              And those last two lines are quite out there, we have different tastes and smells? It's nice? Like a new wine?

              Love, we are not here for you Men, wanting to experience and taste us all, so you can establish the different smell, taste of us and um, feel like you've just drank a brand spanking new wine.

              But, if that is the way that you see women, i know i would be locking my door if ever you knocked.

              That would be like me saying, i love men, they come in different shapes and sizes, like a box of chocolates, you never know what your going to get, one nut or two, dark or milky oh and what would it taste like, they all taste so different.

              Imagine, what people would think of me, there is a word for it i believe.

              Or Crass... for a male thinking like that.

              Just my opinion....

              Because i can.

              It's called debating.

              CW
              totally agree!!
              Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 07-30-2008, 01:50 PM. Reason: merge posts

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              • damd
                Veteran Member
                • May 2008
                • 259

                Hand Job... I can get that my own... for a time that was all I was getting. Now a BJ, thats something. The orgasm from one of those sends me through the roof. Personally, I don't think you are a man if you don't like giving oral. (to a woman) Clear cut or natural, dosen't matter. What does matter is that she is clean and keeps that hair well maintained.

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                • Davey
                  Member
                  • Jul 2008
                  • 49

                  I actally enjoy giving oral to women slightly more than receiving. Probably because I took the time to perfect it, and enjoy the whole experience of getting them off, while not every personi encounter takes as much pride in returning the favor. I really really enjoy it in fact, lol, my lover says there's something wrong with me. I'm super impulsive, and randomly get cravings for a "taste". But I've learned the more generous I am, the more they are, and since I love giving so much I never have a lot of problems (besides the dreaded sleepiness grrrr...)

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                  • alicelovesrain
                    Member
                    • Jul 2008
                    • 13

                    I'm a little shy about giving oral but I'm working on it ^^;; Receiving though.. For some reason that turns me off. Like I even dry up and everything. I've tried instructing people but it just doesn't work out for me I guess.

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                    • anonymouswhitefemale
                      Veteran Member
                      • Sep 2007
                      • 1343

                      Well, I love them both.

                      I enjoy pleasuring someone, watching them squirm and hearing them wimper...

                      Of course I'd be crazy to like giving more than recieving, since nothing really beats a good blowjob...

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