[CHANDLERS WISH]

Firstly, I would imagine the photo was one taken obviously "after the event" ..

I can say as a woman that it does turn to "butter" however, personally speaking it is White, not yellow?

However, you say she has had 4 sexual partners in 2 years and is quite the conservative type.

My "opinon" is that is behind closed doors. She wants to be the non-conservative type if she is showing you her sex toys as well as the after math.. She is showing you that she is a very sexual person... Just on another note.

You have both discussed STD's checks with Doctors, so she knows that you are the type of person wary, concerned.

You mention a past experience that you did not like.

I would be saying this to you, no one really can answer your question in full...

Use your previous/past conversations and jointly see a Doctor purely for the purpose of "proving to HER that you are safe (or wear a condom) wait, haven't finished.

This will make her think you do this normally always, a person you wish not only to be intimate with but get to know totally ... I assume that it's not just sexual? This she would understand, so if she does have a problem it will show itself there and then and you will know without asking her to "check" as you noted something you are un-clear of.

Therefore your question regarding eating her and the result will not be a question anymore either.

If she is feels that she is NOT a sexual object, rather you are keen to be "WITH" her, and this is your norm, then she will go willingly.

Personally, I would not tempt fate and as you obviously want to show experience and knowledge and not just "do her" good for you, she, if serious about you will go down that path in understanding that you want more than sex.

Frankly, if your hot and excited and want to ... and your not sure, and that's all you want, maybe give it a miss and put it down to the one you WILL remember.

It's only the colour that concerns me.

As for the previous posts?

Can i just say we have had a few "TROLLS" and they are protecting "THEIR" site don't take it to heart...

There are a lot of wonderful people here that are regulars that give great advice, it is an INTERNET site after all... Who knows who people are.



CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

First of all, let me applaud you for asking for advice! Yes, it shows that you're edgy, when you ask a question on the internet you cannot be irritated with the answers you recieve - the very fact that you ask a broad range of people ensures a broad range of answers. To complain about that is a waste of time.

Off hand, I agree with Fire in that there's no need to ruin the nice suprises for when you do consumate your affections, if you live in close proximity. It also pretty much seems like you're over analysing everything. Having only your description to go by, and not seeing it myself (post a picture?) I can't really say, but it's true that her hormone levels will probably be all over the place. Presumably she has eyes too, and knows what is and what isn't normal.

[Fire(m)]

I AM SORRY eager&concerned. No intent to discourage. I guess in retrospect I'm confused. Reading back over the details, you just seem "proper" and there isn't anything wrong with propriety.
Cheers.

[eager&concerned]

Listen, I apologise for being out of line. I reacted poorly. I've absorbed everything said. And as you have guessed,
it is indeed a touchy subject for me. It is not my intent to annoy you all by being a big-mouthed newbie with anger issues. Perhaps I care about her even more than I'm willing to admit to myself. To post her private photo seems somehow to be a violation. I chose a forum (and anonymity) in part to safeguard her privacy.
I'll need to speak with her sooner than later---I don't want something festering in her needlessly(if that is the case). I appreciate all of your attention and consideration.

A.W.F, If You PM me I can go into further detail but I'm not sure how to reply to a PM here.


Thanks again (everyone),

E&C

[Hystorm]

I have just one question, why is she refrigerating her toy when it is all covered in...her?

For that matter, why would anyone refrigerate any toy…is that a common thing ladies?
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Did you not explain that correctly or is this chic really some kind of freak?
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[Little]

I think you read it wrong, Hystorm ...

[eager&concerned]

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[miffed23]

I have just one question, why is she refrigerating her toy when it is all covered in...her?

For that matter, why would anyone refrigerate any toy…is that a common thing ladies?

Oh god, that just ruined me completely! Cant breath!

Hallo eager&concerned, welcome.

I believe it's just "cream" but it seems to have the consistency of butter or oil when refrigerated.
Almost the same color.
Almost... like the smegma cheese found around the clitoris of some less attentive
women(or foreskin of males for that matter). It doesn't have the same opacity or quite that consistency.

Thickness of her discharge is nothing to cause concern and like others have mentioned, it will fluctuate during her monthly cycle. However, if its the consistency of lard or like cottage cheese... (which you did mention in the above, but i kinda didnt understand fully, sorry), then that may be cause for concern.

If she has a small thrush infection, then its her perogative to sort it out and refrain from having intercourse or oral sex with you (obviously, she can give you oral ) Be aware that you can contract a yeast infection and that includes giving oral sex to her.

If you truely are as concerned as you appear to be, then i would talk to her about it. Good luck.

[silvertae]

I'm a little confused about how you can tell the consistency of her fluids from just a picture. That doesn't sound like the easiest thing to do. But either way, it sounds normal. Like everyone else said a woman's fluids change a lot over the course of her cycle. Sometimes it's slippery and clear. Sometimes it's thicker, stickier, and white. I'd say don't worry about it and unless you notice an odd odour from her when you do finally become physically intimate then it's probably normal for her.

[Merry]

I think you would be a fool to trust her assertion that she has been tested recently.