Whether it’s his birthday, your anniversary, Christmas, or you want to surprise him with a little sumthin-sumthin “just because,” finding a sexy gift for your guy doesn’t have to be complicated or cliché.
If you’re looking to turn up the heat and let your husband or boyfriend know that you’re thinking of him (and fantasizing about him), here are 10 sexy gifts that will make his heart — and other parts — pound.
New (Sexy) Underwear
Sexy & Indulgent!
Lovehoney Underwear For Men
5.0
Pros:
- Wide Variety Of Cuts And Styles
- Well-Crafted For Comfort & Wear
- Some Peek-A-Boo Options Available
Bottom Line:
Although lingerie is something usually thought of as being for women, there are plenty of sexy underwear options for men. Whether your guy prefers something modest, revealing, or fantasy-inspired, you'll find it at Lovehoney.
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Yes, there is such a thing as lingerie for men!
Basic boxers and briefs “get the job done” well enough, but sometimes an occasion calls for a little something more risqué.
Lovehoney carries a bunch of sexy underwear for men so you can select one that suits his vibe — or his hottest fantasies.
Choose a cut and color that flatters him, and give it to him with a wink and a line like, “Can’t wait to see you in these. Or out of them.”
Luxury Lingerie (For You)
Sweet & Sultry!
Lovehoney Lingerie
5.0
Pros:
- High-Quality & Beautifully Crafted
- Huge Variety Of Styles To Choose From
- Sizing Through 4/5X
Bottom Line:
Lovehoney carries a massive array of lingerie options to suit any level of modesty (or none at all!). Whether you're happier staying in your comfort zone or stepping far outside of it, you'll find plenty of hot little numbers that'll turn up the heat!
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So this one is technically for you — but let’s be honest, he’s the real winner here.
When it comes to selecting lingerie, choose something that hugs your curves and makes you feel unstoppable.
Lovehoney carries a ton of sexy numbers (including plus sizes!) and their lingerie is crafted to last — night after sexy night.
Coconu Hemp Body Oil
Massage Oil + Lube!
Coconu Hemp Infused Body Oil
4.8
Pros:
- Multi-Tasking Body/Massage Oil + Lube
- Heightens Sensation + Eases Tension
- USDA-Certified Organic Coconut Oil
- Non-Greasy Formula
- Edible, No GMOs
Cons:
- Contains Potential Allergen Oils (Sunflower Seed, Almond)
- No CBD "Dose"
- Not Compatible With Latex Condoms
Bottom Line:
Despite this hemp-based lube having no cannabidiol, our team absolutely loved this personal lubricant from Coconu. If you want the relaxing effects of CBD without dosing, this is the best one to reach for, hands-down!
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Skip the spa and turn your bedroom into your own private sanctuary with this hemp-infused body oil from Coconu.
Not only is it perfect for all-over sensual massage, it doubles as a personal lubricant so when things take a turn for the hotter, you’ve already got what you need on hand.
(And on other parts…)
Bonus points: Pair this with a sexy massage coupon.
Tower Of Pleasure Sex Game
Sexy Jenga, Everyone Wins!
Tower Of Pleasure Game
Pros:
- Classic Gameplay + Ultimate Seduction
- Naughty "Dare" On Every Block
- Everyone Wins, Regardless Of Point Score
Bottom Line:
Think of this sexy game as a hornier version of Jenga, only instead of removing blocks, you remove them AND you (or your partner) have to perform a sexy act for at least 15 seconds per turn!
$29.99 @ Adam & Eve –> CODE: WHI25
Everyone loves game night and with the Tower Of Pleasure, everyone also gets to win…
This is a sexy take on an old classic; if you’ve played Jenga (and even if you haven’t), you can play this game.
The blocks are stacked in a tower and one block is removed during each turn.
The twist?
Every block has a naughty dare or sexy act that has to be performed for at least 15 seconds to earn points.
The winner gets to choose how the sex goes down, but really, everyone wins with this one!
Clone-A-Willy (Glow-In-The-Dark)
For The (Cock) Crafter!
Clone-A-Willy (Glow)
Pros:
- Creates A Perfect Penis Replica
- Glow-In-The Dark Material
- Vibrator Included
- "Normal" Skin Tones Available Separately
Bottom Line:
Clone-A-Willy does exactly what it says it does, creating a perfect replica of the penis it's modeled on. What's awesome about this one, however, is that it glows in the dark! This kit has everything you need, including a small vibrator that can be inserted into your finished work of penis art, turning it into a vibrating sex toy.
$37.49 @ Adam & Eve –> CODE: WHI25
$42.49 @ Lovehoney –> CODE: WH-15
For guys who love to get a little crafty, the Clone-A-Willy lets them create a perfect replica of their own penis, right down to the skin texture.
This kit includes everything you need, along with a small bullet vibrator that can be inserted into the dildo after it’s made, turning his penis into a vibrating sex toy.
If the glow-in-the-dark version isn’t quite your jam, the Clone-A-Willy is available in light skin, dark skin, and purple options.
Satisfyer Legendary Duo Penis Ring
Stay Harder, Longer!
Satisfyer Legendary Duo Penis Ring
4.8
Pros:
- Dual Cock Ring With Clitoral Vibrator
- 12 Vibration Functions
- Single-Button Control
- USB Rechargeable
- Up To 1 Hour Playtime (2-Hour Charge)
Bottom Line:
As one of the most popular cock rings, the Satisfyer Legendary Duo features two silicone rings (one at the base of the shaft, the other behind the balls) to restrict circulation and enhance his staying power. The addition of a clitoral vibrator means you can both enjoy a good buzz together!
$31.99 @ Adam & Eve –> CODE: WHI25
$39.95 @ Amazon
When he’s looking to stay harder and last longer, a cock ring can help him achieve the biggest happy ending possible.
The bonus?
This one has a clit vibrator that’ll tease you both through 12 vibration function and a simple one-button control at the front.
Made from body-safe silicone, the dual rings stretch around the base of the shaft and the back of his balls to restrict circulation just enough to make him extra hard and last as long as he wants to.
We-Vibe Vector+ Prostate Vibrator
Best Anal/Prostate
We-Vibe Vector+
5.0
Pros:
- Adjustable Neck, Comfort For Hours
- Secure Fit, Stays In Place, Waterproof
- Public Play Friendly (Lower Settings)
- Remote Control & App (Customizable)
- Up To 120 Minutes Of Playtime
Cons:
- Design Is Somewhat Stiff
- Higher Settings Can Get Loud
- 90 Minutes To Charge
- May Be Unaffordable For Some
Decibel Level:
44 to 71 dB [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 40 is the sound of a refrigerator hum; 60 is a normal conversation]
Remote Range:
20’ to 30’
Bottom Line:
With reliable remote and app connectivity, this anal and prostate vibrator maximizes pleasure because the last thing you want to do is reach around to fiddle with buttons and settings while using it. With a soft silicone exterior and a design that bends to fit your body, the Vector+ offers comfortable wear and operates quietly enough that it won’t attract too much attention if you take it out on the town.
$128.14 @ We-Vibe –> CODE: AFF-WH14
$149.00 @ Lovehoney
If the way to your guy’s heart is through is P-spot, the Vector+ from We-Vibe is the gift that’ll keep on giving.
Designed with comfort and pleasure in mind, the Vector+ bends adjusts so it’ll stay in place and hit all the right spots that get his motor running.
Offering remote and app control, this is a male sex toy you can control from near or far, so it’s especially ideal for long-distance couples.
Porn Star Fleshlights
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Description:
Bottom Line: Autumn Falls Cream combines the best of everything the Fleshlight Girls series has to offer with a gorgeous model, tight squeeze, and one of their most exciting textures. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: One of the most popular models of pornstar Fleshlights, Riley Reid’s Utopia lives up to the name with a fit and feel that will have anyone seeing stars after they’ve tried it themselves. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: The Mia Malkova “Boss Level” Fleshlight is an anal model that boasts an insanely tight grip and supremely stimulating interior texture when you’re looking for the snuggest fit possible. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Filled to the brim with a varied and intense collection of lock-like, offset chambers, Violet Myers' Ahegao has the most exciting Fleshlight textures our team has ever experienced. [Full Review + Video]
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Description:
Bottom Line: Autumn Falls Cream combines the best of everything the Fleshlight Girls series has to offer with a gorgeous model, tight squeeze, and one of their most exciting textures. [Full Review + Video]
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Description:
Bottom Line: One of the most popular models of pornstar Fleshlights, Riley Reid’s Utopia lives up to the name with a fit and feel that will have anyone seeing stars after they’ve tried it themselves. [Full Review + Video]
Tightest Fit
Description:
Bottom Line: The Mia Malkova “Boss Level” Fleshlight is an anal model that boasts an insanely tight grip and supremely stimulating interior texture when you’re looking for the snuggest fit possible. [Full Review + Video]
Most Exciting
Description:
Bottom Line: Filled to the brim with a varied and intense collection of lock-like, offset chambers, Violet Myers' Ahegao has the most exciting Fleshlight textures our team has ever experienced. [Full Review + Video]
Fleshlights are plentiful, but if your man has a celebrity crush on a porn star, you can actually get a masturbator that’s modeled after her anatomy.
(Will wonders never cease?)
With more than 60 porn stars to choose from, every Fleshlight Girl has a unique internal texture that’ll knock his socks off.
Not sure who your guy is into (or might be)?
Our team’s tested favorites are Autumn Falls, Violet Myers, Riley Reid, and Mia Malkova, and each has a vulva and anal model available.
A subscription to Adam & Eve Plus VOD is the perfect companion gift, and you can read our full review of the service to learn more.
Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer
Best Way To Warm Fleshlight
Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer
4.9
Pros:
- Makes Fleshlights Feel More Realistic
- Accommodates All Models
- Regulates Heat Automatically (105ºF/40ºC)
- Minimalist Design Is Discreet (Enough)
- Easy To Use And Maintain
Cons:
- Universal USB Cable Could Be Longer
- USB Vs. Regular Plug, Adapters May Be Needed
Bottom Line:
There are several ways to heat your Fleshlight, but none are as fast, easy, or effective as the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer, which accommodates all stroker models offered by the brand. This pocket pussy warming stick automatically regulates and distributes heat so you can enjoy a more realistic sensation anytime you reach for your favorite Fleshlight.
$26.96 @ Fleshlight –> CODE: WHI10
The most realistic pocket pussy is the one that feels most like the actual thing, and a sleeve warmer is the perfect way to bring a Fleshlight to human-body temperature.
With a simple design, the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer regulates heat automatically, bringing the internal temperature of any pocket pussy to a snuggly 105ºF.
What’s great about this model is that it works on any model — even off-brand strokers and masturbators.
Lovehoney Beginner’s Strap-On & Pegging Dildo
Perfect For Beginners!
Lovehoney Beginner's Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
4.5
Size:
Adjustable between 18-68 inches
Includes Dildo:
Yes
Pros:
- Complete Strap-On Set With Everything You Need
- 5” Dildo Is Perfect For Pegging Beginners
- Pocket In Harness For Vibrator
- Body-Safe Smooth Silicone
- Size Friendly, Waterproof For Tub, And Machine Washable Harness
Cons:
- Can Be Difficult To Get Straps Situated Correctly
- Dildo May Be Small For The More Advanced Pegger
Bottom Line:
Ready to dip your toe into the pegging pool? This beginner’s kit has just what you need. The harness is adjustable and if you find the dildo on the smaller side, the O-ring can satisfy an array of sizes. But most people find the proportions just right for their first time.
Whether your man is already into pegging or has only ever fantasized about it, the Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit from Lovehoney includes everything you need, aside from anal lube.
Made from body-safe silicone, the 5” dildo is ideal for beginners but the O-ring on the harness can accommodate larger sizes as needed.
The harness is comfortable and fully adjustable (between 18 and 68 inches), and it also has a little built-in pocket to accommodate a small bullet vibrator so you can give yourself a thrill while you’re doing the same for him!
Closing Thoughts
The best sexy gifts for him don’t have to be over-the-top; sometimes the simplest things can absolutely make his day.
When it comes to picking out a gift for your boyfriend or husband, it’s all about showing your partner you’re thinking of him and that you’re ready to have some fun.
Confidence, thoughtfulness, and a little tease go a long way.
