You don’t need a holiday or an excuse (like a bachelorette party, anniversary, or birthday) to turn up the heat, although we’ve got plenty of sexy Christmas and sexy Valentine’s gifts to explore!
Whether you’re shopping for a partner, a situationship, or yourself (yes, solo spoiling is a love language), this sexy gift guide is your go-to for pleasure-packed presents.
From flirty fun to full-blown fantasy, we’ve rounded up the best gifts to spark desire, deepen connection, and keep the vibes deliciously steamy, any time of year.
Sexy Lingerie & Underwear
Sweet & Sultry!
Lovehoney Lingerie
5.0
Pros:
- High-Quality & Beautifully Crafted
- Huge Variety Of Styles To Choose From
- Sizing Through 4/5X
Bottom Line:
Lovehoney carries a massive array of lingerie options to suit any level of modesty (or none at all!). Whether you're happier staying in your comfort zone or stepping far outside of it, you'll find plenty of hot little numbers that'll turn up the heat!
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Lovehoney carries lingerie in sizes up to 30 (4X) and in an incredibly wide variety of styles to suit anyone’s preference, from modest to racy AF.
If you’re not entirely sure of the sizing, there are gorgeous options like lacy robes and tie-front babydoll chemises that are a little more flexible in terms of size and fit.
(Note: Lovehoney no longer offers gift cards or gift certificates.)
Bloomi Play Mini Bullet Vibrator
Best Bullet
Bloomi Play Mini Massager
4.9
Pros:
- Flexible For Better Fit Against Body
- Deeper Vibrations Than Typical Bullets
- Small For Discreet Play
- Easy-to-Use Single Button Interface
- Waterproof; Rechargeable
Cons:
- 3 Settings May Not Be Enough
- Cannot Be Used Internally
- Can Only Use Water-Based Lube
Decibel Level:
51.9 (low); 56.5 (med); 59.5 (high) [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 60 dB is a normal conversation or air conditioner]
Bottom Line:
The Play Mini by Bloomi was a pleasant surprise. The material's flexibility made it easier to hit the right spot from almost any angle and the small size and (fairly) low volume make this a discreet option. The Play Mini is made of soft, silky silicone that feels great in your hand and against your most sensitive spots. Take it in the shower or use it in bed — alone or with a partner — for maximum pleasure in a minimal package!
$39.60 @ Bloomi –> CODE: WHI10
Compact, discreet, and ohhhhh-so-effective, this little bullet vibrator from Bloomi is our team’s favorite!
The super-soft silicone feels amazing against the skin and it’s a great choice for anyone who is new to vibrators, since it only has three speed settings and single-button operation.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Clit Sucker
Best Clit Sucker
Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation
4.7
Pros:
- Large Clitoral Mouth Accommodates Most Anatomies
- 11 Intensity Settings + Easy To Use
- 100% Waterproof, Slip-Free Finish
- Very Low Price
- Secure Magnetic Cable For Charging
Cons:
- Silicone Head Requires Occasional Replacement
- Not Sexy-Looking
- Can Get Loud On Highest Settings
- Short Battery Life (35-60 Minutes)
- 90 Minute Charge Time
Decibel Level:
44.2 (low); 60.3 (med); 69.5 (high) [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 60 dB is a normal conversation or air conditioner]
Bottom Line:
The Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation is a budget-friendly clit sucker that also happens to be our team’s consensus top pick because of its versatility, ease of use, and its adaptability to satisfy a wide range of body types and position preferences. Although the design of this clit sucker isn’t the sexiest thing imaginable, it is an invaluable (and affordable!) tool if your goal is an earth-shattering orgasm — which it delivers on demand.
$55.99 @ Adam & Eve -> CODE: WHI25
As our team’s absolute favorite clit sucking vibrator, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most popular and budget-friendly options out there.
With 11 speeds that range from air-kiss to suck-your-clit-off, anyone can find a setting that’ll get them off again and again (and again)!
It’s not the sexiest-looking toy in the world, but as a tool for mind-blowing orgasms, you won’t find one better.
We-Vibe Moxie+ Panty Vibrator
Best Panty Vibe
We-Vibe Moxie+
5.0
Pros:
- Strong, Discreet Vibrations
- Public Play Friendly, Waterproof
- Secure Fastening Via Magnetic Clip
- Remote Control & App (Customizable)
- 45 to 85 Minutes Of Playtime
Cons:
- Potential Connectivity Issues
- Small, May Not Fit Everyone
- No Panties Included
- 90 – 120 Minutes To Charge
- May Be Unaffordable For Some
Decibel Level:
44.9 to 52.4 dB [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 40 is the sound of a refrigerator hum; 60 is a normal conversation]
Remote Range:
20' to 30'
Bottom Line:
If you want to party in public while those around you are totally oblivious to your sexy shenanigans, this panty vibe is discreet, secure, and hella easy to use. While connectivity may take a minute, good things “come” to those who wait for the naughty thrills this best-in-class vibrator offers — anywhere you go!
$128.14 @ We-Vibe –> CODE: AFF-WH14
$149.00 @ Lovehoney
If you wanna bring the party to your partner’s panties (or your own), the Moxie+ from We-Vibe is hands-down our top pick.
Magnets lock the vibrator in place inside any pair of underwear so it’ll stay right where it needs to be, and it can be operated using the included remote control or the We-Vibe app — dealer’s choice.
Our team loves the discreet style of this little vibrator and despite its small size, it packs a punch!
We-Vibe Vector+ Prostate Vibrator
Best Anal/Prostate
We-Vibe Vector+
5.0
Pros:
- Adjustable Neck, Comfort For Hours
- Secure Fit, Stays In Place, Waterproof
- Public Play Friendly (Lower Settings)
- Remote Control & App (Customizable)
- Up To 120 Minutes Of Playtime
Cons:
- Design Is Somewhat Stiff
- Higher Settings Can Get Loud
- 90 Minutes To Charge
- May Be Unaffordable For Some
Decibel Level:
44 to 71 dB [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 40 is the sound of a refrigerator hum; 60 is a normal conversation]
Remote Range:
20’ to 30’
Bottom Line:
With reliable remote and app connectivity, this anal and prostate vibrator maximizes pleasure because the last thing you want to do is reach around to fiddle with buttons and settings while using it. With a soft silicone exterior and a design that bends to fit your body, the Vector+ offers comfortable wear and operates quietly enough that it won’t attract too much attention if you take it out on the town.
$128.14 @ We-Vibe –> CODE: AFF-WH14
$149.00 @ Lovehoney
Who said wearable vibrators were only for women?
If your guy enjoys prostate pleasure, the Vector+ from We-Vibe is a must-have gift that’ll knock his socks off.
Flexible and comfortable enough to wear (even all day, according to our testers!) the Vector+ bends and adjusts so it’ll stay in place while hitting all of his favorite pleasure spots.
The bonus?
It can be operated using the included remote control or the We-Vibe app for long-distance play!
Fleshlights & Pocket Pussies
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Description:
Bottom Line: Autumn Falls Cream combines the best of everything the Fleshlight Girls series has to offer with a gorgeous model, tight squeeze, and one of their most exciting textures. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: One of the most popular models of pornstar Fleshlights, Riley Reid’s Utopia lives up to the name with a fit and feel that will have anyone seeing stars after they’ve tried it themselves. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: The Mia Malkova “Boss Level” Fleshlight is an anal model that boasts an insanely tight grip and supremely stimulating interior texture when you’re looking for the snuggest fit possible. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Filled to the brim with a varied and intense collection of lock-like, offset chambers, Violet Myers' Ahegao has the most exciting Fleshlight textures our team has ever experienced. [Full Review + Video]
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Best Overall
Description:
Bottom Line: Autumn Falls Cream combines the best of everything the Fleshlight Girls series has to offer with a gorgeous model, tight squeeze, and one of their most exciting textures. [Full Review + Video]
Also Good
Description:
Bottom Line: One of the most popular models of pornstar Fleshlights, Riley Reid’s Utopia lives up to the name with a fit and feel that will have anyone seeing stars after they’ve tried it themselves. [Full Review + Video]
Tightest Fit
Description:
Bottom Line: The Mia Malkova “Boss Level” Fleshlight is an anal model that boasts an insanely tight grip and supremely stimulating interior texture when you’re looking for the snuggest fit possible. [Full Review + Video]
Most Exciting
Description:
Bottom Line: Filled to the brim with a varied and intense collection of lock-like, offset chambers, Violet Myers' Ahegao has the most exciting Fleshlight textures our team has ever experienced. [Full Review + Video]
Available in more than 60 porn star models (and counting!), every Fleshlight Girl has its own unique texture with an exterior that looks exactly like their anatomy — whether your guy prefers vaginal or anal sex.
(Or both!)
Fleshlights can also be found in plenty of non-anatomical styles, too, if your guy is creeped out by the realism of a traditional pocket pussy.
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Description:
Bottom Line: The Turbo Thrust is the crystal clear winner thanks to its unique and thoughtful design with an entry that brings something special to the party — and feels like a great blowjob. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: The Turbo Core came really close to being our number-one pick and it boasts an exciting, intricate, and innovative texture with a style that truly sets it apart from the rest of the pack. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: It may be smaller, but good things come in small packages and this Ice Fleshlight Go packs plenty of punch with some standout features — plus a more affordable price tag. [Full Review + Video]
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Best Overall
Description:
Bottom Line: The Turbo Thrust is the crystal clear winner thanks to its unique and thoughtful design with an entry that brings something special to the party — and feels like a great blowjob. [Full Review + Video]
Also Good
Description:
Bottom Line: The Turbo Core came really close to being our number-one pick and it boasts an exciting, intricate, and innovative texture with a style that truly sets it apart from the rest of the pack. [Full Review + Video]
Budget Pick
Description:
Bottom Line: It may be smaller, but good things come in small packages and this Ice Fleshlight Go packs plenty of punch with some standout features — plus a more affordable price tag. [Full Review + Video]
Quickshots (For Handjobs)
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Description:
Bottom Line: Featuring Riley Reid’s powerhouse pussy and beautiful butt in one compact package, this Quickshot offers stellar stimulation with soft spikes that tickle, tease, and massage with every stroke. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: The Quickshot Turbo packs a punch in a tiny crystal-blue package with its purposeful design and excellent fit. With suspended rings at either entrance, this Quickshot turbocharges every spank session. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: This see-through stroker is the most basic Quickshot we tested, but it’s a solid addition to any collection, and it’s perfect for beginners, thanks to its intense (but not overwhelming!) texture. [Full Review + Video]
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Best Overall
Description:
Bottom Line: Featuring Riley Reid’s powerhouse pussy and beautiful butt in one compact package, this Quickshot offers stellar stimulation with soft spikes that tickle, tease, and massage with every stroke. [Full Review + Video]
Close Second
Description:
Bottom Line: The Quickshot Turbo packs a punch in a tiny crystal-blue package with its purposeful design and excellent fit. With suspended rings at either entrance, this Quickshot turbocharges every spank session. [Full Review + Video]
Also Good
Description:
Bottom Line: This see-through stroker is the most basic Quickshot we tested, but it’s a solid addition to any collection, and it’s perfect for beginners, thanks to its intense (but not overwhelming!) texture. [Full Review + Video]
If your gift is a handjob and you’re looking for a way to turn it into a brand new sexy experience, Fleshlight Quickshots are essentially mini-versions of full-sized Fleshlights, with open ends on either side.
Small and compact, they’re easy to use when you want to spice things up during a handy and they can even enhance blowjobs!
Tower Of Pleasure Sex Game
Sexy Jenga, Everyone Wins!
Tower Of Pleasure Game
Pros:
- Classic Gameplay + Ultimate Seduction
- Naughty "Dare" On Every Block
- Everyone Wins, Regardless Of Point Score
Bottom Line:
Think of this sexy game as a hornier version of Jenga, only instead of removing blocks, you remove them AND you (or your partner) have to perform a sexy act for at least 15 seconds per turn!
$29.99 @ Adam & Eve –> CODE: WHI25
This is a sexy Jenga game for couples and it works similarly to the original, except that every block removed has a sexy dare attached to it.
The winner of the game gets to choose how the sex plays out in the end, but really, everyone ends up a winner with this one!
Personal Lubricants
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Bottom Line: Water-based personal lubricants are the go-to choice for many because they're compatible with every sex toy material and condom type. Foria’s first water-based personal lubricant hits it out of the park, with a clean design that’s lightweight and silky-smooth. The pH balance is a rare find, perfect for vaginal and anal use, with a mild vanilla scent and flavor for oral fun. Gentle on sensitive skin, Juicy Pure leaves no residue behind with a formula that feels like your body's own lubrication. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: This is our team's favorite silicone-based lubricant because a little goes a very long way and it feels incredibly silky and smooth to the touch. The need for reapplication is minimal and like most lubes of this nature, holds up well when used in the water. One thing we really loved about Valm is the smart bottle design, which not only features a sleek pump, but a smart locking mechanism that prevents accidental spills or leakage — and it can be activated with just one hand. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: While often overlooked, oil-based lubricants are as long-lasting as those made from silicone while being equally waterproof, moisturizing, and suited to anal sex. They are not compatible with latex or polyisoprene condoms and shouldn't be used with latex or rubber sex toys. Made with the best ingredients, AH! YES OB is a certified 99% organic lubricant that doubles as a sensual massage oil. Formulated to soothe and condition skin, it doesn’t need to be washed off. [Read Full Review]
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Top Pick: Water-Based
Description:
Bottom Line: Water-based personal lubricants are the go-to choice for many because they're compatible with every sex toy material and condom type. Foria’s first water-based personal lubricant hits it out of the park, with a clean design that’s lightweight and silky-smooth. The pH balance is a rare find, perfect for vaginal and anal use, with a mild vanilla scent and flavor for oral fun. Gentle on sensitive skin, Juicy Pure leaves no residue behind with a formula that feels like your body's own lubrication. [Full Review + Video]
Top Pick: Silicone-Based
Description:
Bottom Line: This is our team's favorite silicone-based lubricant because a little goes a very long way and it feels incredibly silky and smooth to the touch. The need for reapplication is minimal and like most lubes of this nature, holds up well when used in the water. One thing we really loved about Valm is the smart bottle design, which not only features a sleek pump, but a smart locking mechanism that prevents accidental spills or leakage — and it can be activated with just one hand. [Full Review + Video]
Top Pick: Oil-Based
Description:
Bottom Line: While often overlooked, oil-based lubricants are as long-lasting as those made from silicone while being equally waterproof, moisturizing, and suited to anal sex. They are not compatible with latex or polyisoprene condoms and shouldn't be used with latex or rubber sex toys. Made with the best ingredients, AH! YES OB is a certified 99% organic lubricant that doubles as a sensual massage oil. Formulated to soothe and condition skin, it doesn’t need to be washed off. [Read Full Review]
Any sex toy is way more fun to play with when you’ve got lube, but it’s also perfect for any type of sex you might be having.
Not all lubricants are created equally, but all of our faves have been tested by our team to be effective, and approved by our medical review board for safety.
One thing to note in case you didn’t know, silicone sex toys should not be used with silicone lubricants, as the lube can degrade the toy’s material over time.
If your toy is silicone — or you’re not sure — stick with water-based lubricants.
Edible & Flavored Lubricants
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Best Overall (Unflavored)
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Bottom Line: Foria Juicy Pure is the edible lube for people who want something sexy without the sticky, candy-shop aftermath. Silky, aloe-based, and surprisingly sophisticated, it delivers a smooth glide and body-friendly formula that makes oral play delicious instead of overly sugary. With a pH of 4.5 to 5.5, it's safe for anal play, and compatible with all sex toys and condoms, too! [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Our team absolutely loves the sweet flavor and silky-smooth, never-sticky texture of Sliquid Swirl. This was hands-down the most flavorful lube of the entire bunch, featuring a bold array of 8 fruit-inspired flavor combinations sweetened without the use of sugar so it transitions from oral delights to penetrative fun with no irritation or discomfort. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Available in 18 delicious flavors and scents to explore, our team found that Aloe Cadabra added a subtly sweet touch to oral and vaginal sex. We loved that the lightweight texture mimics our body’s natural lubrication and the 95% food-grade, NSF Certified Organic aloe vera felt absolutely amazing on our skin — soothing it during and after use! [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: This is our team’s top recommendation if you’re searching for a long-lasting edible lubricant that has absolutely no flavor whatsoever. With AH! YES WB in hand (and mouth) you can enjoy your partner’s natural taste in all its glory. Made from 96% organic ingredients certified by the Soil Association, this one is ideal for those with sensitive skin. [Full Review + Video]
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Best Overall (Flavored)
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Bottom Line: Foria Juicy Pure is the edible lube for people who want something sexy without the sticky, candy-shop aftermath. Silky, aloe-based, and surprisingly sophisticated, it delivers a smooth glide and body-friendly formula that makes oral play delicious instead of overly sugary. With a pH of 4.5 to 5.5, it's safe for anal play, and compatible with all sex toys and condoms, too! [Full Review + Video]
Also Good (Flavored)
Description:
Bottom Line: Our team absolutely loves the sweet flavor and silky-smooth, never-sticky texture of Sliquid Swirl. This was hands-down the most flavorful lube of the entire bunch, featuring a bold array of 8 fruit-inspired flavor combinations sweetened without the use of sugar so it transitions from oral delights to penetrative fun with no irritation or discomfort. [Full Review + Video]
Most Flavors
Description:
Bottom Line: Available in 18 delicious flavors and scents to explore, our team found that Aloe Cadabra added a subtly sweet touch to oral and vaginal sex. We loved that the lightweight texture mimics our body’s natural lubrication and the 95% food-grade, NSF Certified Organic aloe vera felt absolutely amazing on our skin — soothing it during and after use! [Full Review + Video]
Best Overall (Unflavored)
Description:
Bottom Line: This is our team’s top recommendation if you’re searching for a long-lasting edible lubricant that has absolutely no flavor whatsoever. With AH! YES WB in hand (and mouth) you can enjoy your partner’s natural taste in all its glory. Made from 96% organic ingredients certified by the Soil Association, this one is ideal for those with sensitive skin. [Full Review + Video]
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Just as lube makes sex better, edible lubricants with flavoring can make oral sex out of this world!
Our favorites have all been tested by our team and are made from safe ingredients and sweeteners.
Closing Thoughts
Cupid called and he said it’s time to spice things up.
No matter the season or the holiday, a little (or a lot) of sexy goes a long way.
Whether you’re gifting to impress or treating yourself to something deliciously indulgent, this guide will turn ordinary days into unforgettable nights, so get ready to unwrap some fun!
