Santa’s not the only one who should be checking a list twice this year.
Whether you’re shopping for a long-time love, a brand-new fling, or planning a spicy surprise for yourself (because yes, you deserve it), this sexy holiday gift guide sleighs.
From seductive stocking stuffers to sultry gifts that’ll heat up even the coldest winter nights, we’ve got your naughty and nice lists covered!
Sexy Advent Calendars
You might think of Advent calendars as being candy-filled and meant for kids, but there are some hot-as-hell adult-themed gifts that keep giving over the course of 12 (and even up to 24!) days.
Lovehoney Advent Calendar For Couples
Sexiest 24 Days
Lovehoney Couples Advent Calendar
5.0
Bottom Line:
Designed to be opened over 24 days, this is a truly special gift that comes with everything you need to enhance your sex life, all wrapped up in a beautiful package. With great attention to detail and high-quality products (a $617+ value!), this sexy Advent calendar is sure to delight all of your senses and make you smile in more ways than one. Regardless of your sex toy experience, the products included in this calendar are ones you’ll want in your collection forever.
This naughty Advent calendar from Lovehoney was created with couples in mind, containing 24 days’ worth of sexy gifts.
Although you’re technically supposed to open one each day, you might not be able to stop yourself from diving right into the whole thing at once.
The Couple’s Advent Calendar from Lovehoney includes an assortment of vibrators, sex toys, light BDSM-inspired accessories, and other sensory treats to enjoy together.
Editor’s note: Advent calendars from Lovehoney generally become available for purchase in early fall each year, and only while supplies last.
Other 2025 Lovehoney Advent Calendars
Sexiest 12 Days
Lovehoney Indulge Advent Calendar
5.0
Bottom Line:
This incredible box of wonders is the perfect treat for anyone with a vulva and a desire to explore their body. This kit has so much to offer, bringing a new delight to each day and there is not one thing in this box that we wouldn’t recommend. This is not your average sex toy Advent calendar — it’s a brilliantly curated gift box of new and fun experiences that will delight every pleasure point you have.
12 Days Of Romance
Lovehoney Romance Advent Calendar
5.0
Bottom Line:
If you're in the mood for a little romance, this 12-day advent calendar (worth $321+) offers a carefully curated arrangement of luxurious surprises that'll take you on a sensual adventure, alone or with a partner. This is a sweet gift that keeps giving, again and again (and again)!
24-Day Luxe Play
Womanizer Luxury Advent Calendar
5.0
Bottom Line:
Unwrap the most luxurious and erotic indulgence from Lovehoney with 24 sensual surprises that'll take the chill out of any winter's night. This advent calendar (worth $910+) includes the iconic Womanizer Next, the app-controlled We-Vibe Sync 2, and the Arcwave Pow, together worth over $467!
Budget-Friendly Set
Lovehoney Enjoy Advent Calendar
5.0
Bottom Line:
This 24-day sexy advent calendar is the most budget-friendly option of the 2025 offerings from Lovehoney, featuring an array of cheeky toys and playthings (valued at over $260). This is a perfect gift for solo exploration or naughty adventures as a couple.
For Her: Foria Pleasure Set
CBD Bestsellers Bundle
Foria Pleasure Bundle With CBD
Bottom Line:
Foria's pleasure bundle features the top three bestsellers from their Intimacy CBD line: Awaken Arousal Oil, Intimacy Sex Oil, and a 4-pack of Intimacy Melts. Used alone or together, they heighten arousal and orgasm while easing any discomfort during sex.
If you want to give a Christmas gift that’s a little more naughty list than nice list, Foria’s Pleasure Set (“spiked” with CBD) is a guaranteed crowd-pleaser.
Inside the box, she’ll get their Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD, Intimacy Sex Oil, and melt-in-your-body suppositories; together, they’re the sensual equivalent of building a fire, pouring cocoa, and locking the door.
Awaken really does act as its name suggests, providing a libido awakening that feels like someone plugged your body into a dimmer switch and slowly turned it up (and on!).
The Sex Oil brings a smooth, slippery glide once things start heating up for real, while the Melts work quietly in the background like Santa’s helpers, except they deliver tingles instead of toys.
Slip this sexy little gift under the tree, add a wink, and enjoy the kind of Christmas magic they definitely don’t sing about in carols.
For Her: Moxie+ Panty Vibrator
Sexiest Panty Vibe
We-Vibe Moxie+
5.0
Pros:
- Strong, Discreet Vibrations
- Public Play Friendly, Waterproof
- Secure Fastening Via Magnetic Clip
- Remote Control & App (Customizable)
- 45 to 85 Minutes Of Playtime
Cons:
- Potential Connectivity Issues
- Small, May Not Fit Everyone
- No Panties Included
- 90 – 120 Minutes To Charge
- May Be Unaffordable For Some
Decibel Level:
44.9 to 52.4 dB [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 40 is the sound of a refrigerator hum; 60 is a normal conversation]
Remote Range:
20' to 30'
Bottom Line:
If you want to party in public while those around you are totally oblivious to your sexy shenanigans, this panty vibe is discreet, secure, and hella easy to use. While connectivity may take a minute, good things “come” to those who wait for the naughty thrills this best-in-class vibrator offers — anywhere you go!
$128.14 @ We-Vibe –> CODE: AFF-WH14
$149.00 @ Lovehoney
The Moxie+ from We-Vibe is our team’s favorite panty vibrator because it’s easy to use, can be controlled from near or far (thanks to the app), and it’s incredibly sexy and effective.
Even though the vibrator looks small, it’s more than powerful enough to rock her world — again and again.
Speaking of panties. . . the Moxie+ doesn’t come with sexy underwear.
Sexiest Lingerie
Lovehoney Lingerie
5.0
Pros:
- High-Quality & Beautifully Crafted
- Huge Variety Of Styles To Choose From
- Sizing Through 4/5X
Bottom Line:
Lovehoney carries a massive array of lingerie options to suit any level of modesty (or none at all!). Whether you're happier staying in your comfort zone or stepping far outside of it, you'll find plenty of hot little numbers that'll turn up the heat!
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Although she probably already has panties (and the Moxie+ attaches easily to just about any pair), Lovehoney carries some gorgeous lingerie options that’ll complement this gift beautifully!
For Him: Vector+ Prostate Vibrator
Sexiest Prostate Vibe
We-Vibe Vector+
5.0
Pros:
- Adjustable Neck, Comfort For Hours
- Secure Fit, Stays In Place, Waterproof
- Public Play Friendly (Lower Settings)
- Remote Control & App (Customizable)
- Up To 120 Minutes Of Playtime
Cons:
- Design Is Somewhat Stiff
- Higher Settings Can Get Loud
- 90 Minutes To Charge
- May Be Unaffordable For Some
Decibel Level:
44 to 71 dB [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 40 is the sound of a refrigerator hum; 60 is a normal conversation]
Remote Range:
20’ to 30’
Bottom Line:
With reliable remote and app connectivity, this anal and prostate vibrator maximizes pleasure because the last thing you want to do is reach around to fiddle with buttons and settings while using it. With a soft silicone exterior and a design that bends to fit your body, the Vector+ offers comfortable wear and operates quietly enough that it won’t attract too much attention if you take it out on the town.
$128.14 @ We-Vibe –> CODE: AFF-WH14
$149.00 @ Lovehoney
Women aren’t the only ones who can wear vibrators inside their underwear!
Designed with flexible comfort and mind-blowing P-spot pleasure in mind, the Vector+ from We-Vibe is a prostate vibrator that will rock your man’s world.
With remote and app control, this vibrating male sex toy is great for long-distance couples, but it’s also perfect for up-close play at home… or in public!
For Her: Triple Curve Rabbit
Sexiest Rabbit Vibe
Happy Rabbit Triple Curve
4.9
Pros:
- TRIPLE Stimulation: Clitoris, G-Spot, & Anal
- Girthy Vaginal Shaft Creates “Full” Sensation
- 3 Motors/9 Intensity Settings/12 Speeds
- Budget-Friendly; Very Quiet; Waterproof
- 60-75 Minute Playtime
Cons:
- Can Take Effort To Clean Thoroughly
- Can Be Difficult To Get Everything “Into Place”
- Shaft May Be Too Girthy For Some
- 2.5 Hour Charge Time (First Use); 1 Hour Thereafter
Decibel Level:
~ 50 dB (Quiet)
Bottom Line:
With more than half a million sold, this girthy “big boy” rabbit offers a sensational way to experience clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation together at the same time — a rare quality among rabbit vibrators. While it might be intimidating for newbies, all experience levels can enjoy the blended orgasms this rabbit provides. It brings intensity to a whole new level — but it may come with a bit of a learning curve if you’re playing on your own.
$118.99 @ Lovehoney –> CODE: AFF-WH15
$103.96 @ PinkCherry –> CODE: WHEALTH
While most rabbit vibrators provide dual stimulation of the clit and G-spot, the Triple Curve adds a third in the form of anal stimulation.
Although the anal beads are designed for insertion, they can be used against her backside without actually going inside it, if anal play isn’t her jam.
Our team was amazed at how well this rabbit performed. With 3 motors, 9 intensities, and 12 speeds, the stimulation is intense — in the best way!
For Him: Porn Star Fleshlights
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Bottom Line: Autumn Falls Cream combines the best of everything the Fleshlight Girls series has to offer with a gorgeous model, tight squeeze, and one of their most exciting textures. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: One of the most popular models of pornstar Fleshlights, Riley Reid’s Utopia lives up to the name with a fit and feel that will have anyone seeing stars after they’ve tried it themselves. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: The Mia Malkova “Boss Level” Fleshlight is an anal model that boasts an insanely tight grip and supremely stimulating interior texture when you’re looking for the snuggest fit possible. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Filled to the brim with a varied and intense collection of lock-like, offset chambers, Violet Myers' Ahegao has the most exciting Fleshlight textures our team has ever experienced. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Autumn Falls Cream combines the best of everything the Fleshlight Girls series has to offer with a gorgeous model, tight squeeze, and one of their most exciting textures. [Full Review + Video]
Also Good
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Bottom Line: One of the most popular models of pornstar Fleshlights, Riley Reid’s Utopia lives up to the name with a fit and feel that will have anyone seeing stars after they’ve tried it themselves. [Full Review + Video]
Tightest Fit
Description:
Bottom Line: The Mia Malkova “Boss Level” Fleshlight is an anal model that boasts an insanely tight grip and supremely stimulating interior texture when you’re looking for the snuggest fit possible. [Full Review + Video]
Most Exciting
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Bottom Line: Filled to the brim with a varied and intense collection of lock-like, offset chambers, Violet Myers' Ahegao has the most exciting Fleshlight textures our team has ever experienced. [Full Review + Video]
If your guy has a secret (or not-so-secret) celebrity crush on a porn star, you can surprise him this Christmas with a pocket pussy that’s modeled after her anatomy.
(Yes, really!)
With more than 60 porn stars to choose from as of this writing, every Fleshlight Girl features a completely unique internal texture that will blow his mind (and his wad).
Our team’s personal favorites are Autumn Falls, Violet Myers, Riley Reid, and Mia Malkova, and each has a vulva and anal model available.
Want to kick this gift up a notch?
Pair it with a subscription to Adam & Eve Plus, a VOD service with a complete catalogue of movies and media he can enjoy with his Fleshlight!
And for the most immersive experience, the Fleshlight Universal Launch, which fits all full-sized Fleshlights, will automate the stroking so he can sit back and enjoy it all, entirely hands-free!
Automates Your Fleshlight
Fleshlight Universal Launch
4.8
Pros:
- Automatic Stroking Action: Base, Shaft Or Tip
- Up To 250 Strokes Per Minute
- Intuitive Controls, No-Slip Hand Grip
- ~60 Minutes Of Playtime, Can Be Used While Charging
- Smartphone Mount, Fits All Full-Sized Fleshlights + Others
Cons:
- Pretty Noisy & Takes Getting Used To
- Does Not Work With Quickshots
- 90-120 Minutes To Charge
- You MUST Keep It Charged
- Expensive; Not Waterproof
Decibel Level:
57 to 77 dB [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 60 is a normal conversation; 70 is a washing machine; 80 is city traffic]
Bottom Line:
The Universal Launch turns your favorite full-sized Fleshlight (or other cased pocket pussy or stroker) into your own personal sex robot. Easy to use and control, it automates stroking for hands-free pleasure at a range of speeds and depths to suit your needs and you can play while charging. The battery must not ever run out, however — not only can it break the (expensive) device, but it will void the 90-day warranty, too.
$179.96 @ Fleshlight –> CODE: WHI10
For Her: Satisfyer Pro 2 Clit Sucker
Sexiest Clit Sucker
Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation
4.7
Pros:
- Large Clitoral Mouth Accommodates Most Anatomies
- 11 Intensity Settings + Easy To Use
- 100% Waterproof, Slip-Free Finish
- Very Low Price
- Secure Magnetic Cable For Charging
Cons:
- Silicone Head Requires Occasional Replacement
- Not Sexy-Looking
- Can Get Loud On Highest Settings
- Short Battery Life (35-60 Minutes)
- 90 Minute Charge Time
Decibel Level:
44.2 (low); 60.3 (med); 69.5 (high) [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 60 dB is a normal conversation or air conditioner]
Bottom Line:
The Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation is a budget-friendly clit sucker that also happens to be our team’s consensus top pick because of its versatility, ease of use, and its adaptability to satisfy a wide range of body types and position preferences. Although the design of this clit sucker isn’t the sexiest thing imaginable, it is an invaluable (and affordable!) tool if your goal is an earth-shattering orgasm — which it delivers on demand.
$55.99 @ Adam & Eve -> CODE: WHI25
If she’s into having her clit sucked, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is our team’s absolute favorite suction vibrator, and it’s a budget pick to boot!
Offering 11 speeds that start whisper-light and end at crazy intense, this little clit-sucking sex toy is effective, easy to use, and discreet.
For Him: Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer
Sexiest Warmth
Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer
4.9
Pros:
- Makes Fleshlights Feel More Realistic
- Accommodates All Models
- Regulates Heat Automatically (105ºF/40ºC)
- Minimalist Design Is Discreet (Enough)
- Easy To Use And Maintain
Cons:
- Universal USB Cable Could Be Longer
- USB Vs. Regular Plug, Adapters May Be Needed
Bottom Line:
There are several ways to heat your Fleshlight, but none are as fast, easy, or effective as the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer, which accommodates all stroker models offered by the brand. This pocket pussy warming stick automatically regulates and distributes heat so you can enjoy a more realistic sensation anytime you reach for your favorite Fleshlight.
$26.96 @ Fleshlight –> CODE: WHI10
A Fleshlight sleeve warmer is the perfect way to make any pocket pussy feel a lot more like the real thing.
With a simple design that’s a snap to use, the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer regulates heat automatically, bringing the internal temperature of any sleeve to 105ºF.
What’s great about this is that it works on any Fleshlight, but also just about any other male masturbation sleeve or pocket pussy.
For Anyone: Bloomi Play Mini Bullet
Sexiest Bullet Vibe
Bloomi Play Mini Massager
4.9
Pros:
- Flexible For Better Fit Against Body
- Deeper Vibrations Than Typical Bullets
- Small For Discreet Play
- Easy-to-Use Single Button Interface
- Waterproof; Rechargeable
Cons:
- 3 Settings May Not Be Enough
- Cannot Be Used Internally
- Can Only Use Water-Based Lube
Decibel Level:
51.9 (low); 56.5 (med); 59.5 (high) [Note: 40-50 dB is considered quiet; 60 dB is a normal conversation or air conditioner]
Bottom Line:
The Play Mini by Bloomi was a pleasant surprise. The material's flexibility made it easier to hit the right spot from almost any angle and the small size and (fairly) low volume make this a discreet option. The Play Mini is made of soft, silky silicone that feels great in your hand and against your most sensitive spots. Take it in the shower or use it in bed — alone or with a partner — for maximum pleasure in a minimal package!
$39.60 @ Bloomi –> CODE: WHI10
Our team unanimously voted this as the best bullet vibrator because it’s effective, compact, discreet, and great for even beginners to explore.
Covered in silky-smooth silicone that’s soft to the touch, the Bloomi Play Mini is curved to hit all the right spots in all the right ways, and with single-button operation, it’s a breeze to use.
Although a perfect sexy Christmas gift on its own, it also makes a great stocking stuffer!
For Anyone: Tower Of Pleasure Sex Game
Sexiest Game
Tower Of Pleasure Game
Pros:
- Classic Gameplay + Ultimate Seduction
- Naughty "Dare" On Every Block
- Everyone Wins, Regardless Of Point Score
Bottom Line:
Think of this sexy game as a hornier version of Jenga, only instead of removing blocks, you remove them AND you (or your partner) have to perform a sexy act for at least 15 seconds per turn!
$29.99 @ Adam & Eve –> CODE: WHI25
A sexed-up version of Jenga, the Tower of Pleasure involves stacking blocks that have sexy dares or naughty acts that each player has to do whenever they pull one out of the tower.
The winner (of course) gets to choose how the sex plays out once the tower falls down, but everyone wins in the end!
For Anyone: Personal Lubricants
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Bottom Line: Water-based personal lubricants are the go-to choice for many because they're compatible with every sex toy material and condom type. Foria’s first water-based personal lubricant hits it out of the park, with a clean design that’s lightweight and silky-smooth. The pH balance is a rare find, perfect for vaginal and anal use, with a mild vanilla scent and flavor for oral fun. Gentle on sensitive skin, Juicy Pure leaves no residue behind with a formula that feels like your body's own lubrication. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: This is our team's favorite silicone-based lubricant because a little goes a very long way and it feels incredibly silky and smooth to the touch. The need for reapplication is minimal and like most lubes of this nature, holds up well when used in the water. One thing we really loved about Valm is the smart bottle design, which not only features a sleek pump, but a smart locking mechanism that prevents accidental spills or leakage — and it can be activated with just one hand. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: While often overlooked, oil-based lubricants are as long-lasting as those made from silicone while being equally waterproof, moisturizing, and suited to anal sex. They are not compatible with latex or polyisoprene condoms and shouldn't be used with latex or rubber sex toys. Made with the best ingredients, AH! YES OB is a certified 99% organic lubricant that doubles as a sensual massage oil. Formulated to soothe and condition skin, it doesn’t need to be washed off. [Read Full Review]
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Top Pick: Water-Based
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Bottom Line: Water-based personal lubricants are the go-to choice for many because they're compatible with every sex toy material and condom type. Foria’s first water-based personal lubricant hits it out of the park, with a clean design that’s lightweight and silky-smooth. The pH balance is a rare find, perfect for vaginal and anal use, with a mild vanilla scent and flavor for oral fun. Gentle on sensitive skin, Juicy Pure leaves no residue behind with a formula that feels like your body's own lubrication. [Full Review + Video]
Top Pick: Silicone-Based
Description:
Bottom Line: This is our team's favorite silicone-based lubricant because a little goes a very long way and it feels incredibly silky and smooth to the touch. The need for reapplication is minimal and like most lubes of this nature, holds up well when used in the water. One thing we really loved about Valm is the smart bottle design, which not only features a sleek pump, but a smart locking mechanism that prevents accidental spills or leakage — and it can be activated with just one hand. [Full Review + Video]
Top Pick: Oil-Based
Description:
Bottom Line: While often overlooked, oil-based lubricants are as long-lasting as those made from silicone while being equally waterproof, moisturizing, and suited to anal sex. They are not compatible with latex or polyisoprene condoms and shouldn't be used with latex or rubber sex toys. Made with the best ingredients, AH! YES OB is a certified 99% organic lubricant that doubles as a sensual massage oil. Formulated to soothe and condition skin, it doesn’t need to be washed off. [Read Full Review]
Any sexual activity, whether alone or with a partner, is just better when you’ve got lube — and plenty of it.
If you want to add some exciting flavors to your oral sex repertoire, edible and flavored lubes offer a wide range to explore, and they make great stocking stuffers!
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Bottom Line: Foria Juicy Pure is the edible lube for people who want something sexy without the sticky, candy-shop aftermath. Silky, aloe-based, and surprisingly sophisticated, it delivers a smooth glide and body-friendly formula that makes oral play delicious instead of overly sugary. With a pH of 4.5 to 5.5, it's safe for anal play, and compatible with all sex toys and condoms, too! [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Our team absolutely loves the sweet flavor and silky-smooth, never-sticky texture of Sliquid Swirl. This was hands-down the most flavorful lube of the entire bunch, featuring a bold array of 8 fruit-inspired flavor combinations sweetened without the use of sugar so it transitions from oral delights to penetrative fun with no irritation or discomfort. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Available in 18 delicious flavors and scents to explore, our team found that Aloe Cadabra added a subtly sweet touch to oral and vaginal sex. We loved that the lightweight texture mimics our body’s natural lubrication and the 95% food-grade, NSF Certified Organic aloe vera felt absolutely amazing on our skin — soothing it during and after use! [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: This is our team’s top recommendation if you’re searching for a long-lasting edible lubricant that has absolutely no flavor whatsoever. With AH! YES WB in hand (and mouth) you can enjoy your partner’s natural taste in all its glory. Made from 96% organic ingredients certified by the Soil Association, this one is ideal for those with sensitive skin. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Foria Juicy Pure is the edible lube for people who want something sexy without the sticky, candy-shop aftermath. Silky, aloe-based, and surprisingly sophisticated, it delivers a smooth glide and body-friendly formula that makes oral play delicious instead of overly sugary. With a pH of 4.5 to 5.5, it's safe for anal play, and compatible with all sex toys and condoms, too! [Full Review + Video]
Also Good (Flavored)
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Bottom Line: Our team absolutely loves the sweet flavor and silky-smooth, never-sticky texture of Sliquid Swirl. This was hands-down the most flavorful lube of the entire bunch, featuring a bold array of 8 fruit-inspired flavor combinations sweetened without the use of sugar so it transitions from oral delights to penetrative fun with no irritation or discomfort. [Full Review + Video]
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Bottom Line: Available in 18 delicious flavors and scents to explore, our team found that Aloe Cadabra added a subtly sweet touch to oral and vaginal sex. We loved that the lightweight texture mimics our body’s natural lubrication and the 95% food-grade, NSF Certified Organic aloe vera felt absolutely amazing on our skin — soothing it during and after use! [Full Review + Video]
Best Overall (Unflavored)
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Bottom Line: This is our team’s top recommendation if you’re searching for a long-lasting edible lubricant that has absolutely no flavor whatsoever. With AH! YES WB in hand (and mouth) you can enjoy your partner’s natural taste in all its glory. Made from 96% organic ingredients certified by the Soil Association, this one is ideal for those with sensitive skin. [Full Review + Video]
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Not sure what kind to get? Take our lube quiz!
Just a little FYI: silicone sex toys should not be used with silicone lubricants, as the lube can degrade the toy’s material over time.
If your sex toys are made from silicone (or you’re not sure about the toy’s material at all) choose water-based lubricants, as they’re generally safe for all toy materials.
Closing Thoughts
This season, skip the socks and scented candles — give a gift that stirs the senses, ignites passion, and sets the mood.
Whether you’re planning a cozy night in or a steamy escape from the snow, our sexy Christmas gift guide is packed with romantic, sensual ideas designed to deepen intimacy, spark sexual connection, and bring pleasure to the ones you love… including yourself!
