I want to add that a guy on the other hand may not feel the connection either. For those that have accused me of being gay and wondering why a "pretty and nice girl" is single, I can't control a guy not wanting anything with me either. Everyone is different, and not everyone will like or understand my personality/nature. infjs are considered misunderstood and complex anyway.
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"Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet" -
I wasn't suggesting a year or even months. I was merely suggesting that connections can grow over time and shouldn't be rejected because there was no spark on the first or second meeting. I agree wholeheartedly that leading someone on is never a good thing."The only consistent feature of all of your dissatisfying relationships is you." Despair.com "Dysfunction"Comment
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Well, the good news is that there is someone that I do share a spark with. So, I have to be patient and see where it goes."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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Well that's great for you Mag, I say there is someone for everyone out there for each person. Sometimes it may take a while to find that right guy or women to be in your life. So good luck on your relationship in the future everyone has a right to be happy and love another person in there life.When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.Comment
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Hmmm i don't think you're supposed to be attracted to every person you see...Comment
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Pearlami-Not every person you see, but more like all of the people that hit on you? Let's say you do have a lot of opportunities, but you only feel a spark with maybe one person out of 20-30 people?
Anyways, things are going good with the guy that I do have a spark with! Have a great weekend everyone!"Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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