[ThexMrs]

I have never been more confused than I am right now. Actually, I am so confused (and yes this is a contradiction) that things are almost clear. Marty's whole office was shut down and tomorrow is his last day at work. The night before he told me this I decided that I had to cut him out of my life. When I found out about his job I couldn't kick him while he was down. I did however tell him that after he was in a better state and things were going good again that I planned to leave. He threw a fit. He told me that I was a lousy friend. He said that I am his best friend and what is he supposed to do. He said it's not okay and that if I plan to stop talking to him then I should just stop now. I told him how I felt about him again and tried to reason with him that's too hard. I asked him to put himself in my shoes. That helped... He said he understood but that I am his best friend and he doesn't want me to go. I told him that I would stay and be here for him as long as he needs me. As long as things are the way that they are. He's accepted it but every now and then he makes comments like, my best friend is going to leave me. He'll say he really cares about me a lot. It's so hard! He says the only thing that's in the way is the distance. So... What the eff does that mean? Geeze... Why does he want me around? Why does he need me?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Okay call his bluff.

Tell him that you have decided to move to his town - tomorrow - seeing as he feels the only thing stopping you both is "distance"....

Tell us the reaction and be convincing.....

Because in all the other breaths he repeats over and over "but your my best friend"...

No wonder your confused.

CW

[ThexMrs]

Oi... What an idea!?! We shall see.

[Guest]

would have to agree with CW... you SHOULD call his bluff. since he doesn't have a job anymore then he really has no reason not to face what you guys are going through... no more "im busy"

[ThexMrs]

Marty NEVER told me that he was busy. We talk every single day. Tonight made things even more confusing. He said again tonight that the only reason we aren't together is because of the distance. I didn't bluff him. He then said if he gets 3 months severance pay that he will come visit. WTF!?!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Marty NEVER told me that he was busy. We talk every single day. Tonight made things even more confusing. He said again tonight that the only reason we aren't together is because of the distance. I didn't bluff him. He then said if he gets 3 months severance pay that he will come visit. WTF!?!

Madam, Yellowpix is saying she agrees with me, "call his bluff" tell him that you are packing up and going over to where he is to live to be with him....

"IF that is the only reason your not together he will welcome it"....

A visit is "NOT" the same thing is it, that goes back to "your my best friend"..

Call his bluff sweet, it's the only way your going to stop tearing your hair and HEART out.

CW

[Guest]

the reason why i just said that "I'm busy" is an example of a similar excuse he could have or HAS given you.

We are all here to help each other out...turning on each other isn't healthy for any of us. We just want the best for you. but if YOU think that the things we suggest might be too much or unattainable ... then take it as that A SUGGESTION.

[ThexMrs]

Who is turning on who?

Anyways... Jared asked me to move in with him today.

Yeah... Let's just mix it up a little, lol.

[Ahryin]

which one is Jared again? I can not keep up with you..lol Oh gosh you remind me of my little sister!

[ThexMrs]

Lol... Jared is the guy I've been seeing for the last few months. This thread was created about Marty (my ex that I was with for a year and am still in love with. First guy I've ever truly loved) but Jared is my current boyfriend. If you can call him that. It is our title but he doesn't act like a boyfriend so for him to ask me to live together this morning just threw me for a loop.